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  • #21
    I am so, so sorry.

    What a beautiful tribute you've written, what a life SO well lived, and well loved.

    Vale Mescha. Integrity's up there, and a good special dog is a newcomer. They'll both show you around.
    InnisFailte Pinto Sporthorses & Coloured Cobs
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    • #22
      So sorry for your loss.
      Fox Haven Farm, Inc.
      Home of 2002 JC Registered stallion Artrageous

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      • #23
        My sincere condolences on the loss of your good friend...
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        • #24
          So, so sorry for the loss of your mare. But at least you know that she lived a nice and long life. Godspeed.
          Kris
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          • #25
            Oh Melissa! I am soo sorry. I had a gelding who lived to 30 that I had since I was a teenager that was like that for me. He just wasn't of this world. I'm so sorry for your loss and the big empty space she left. Godspeed to her and hugs to you.
            PennyG

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            • #26
              I'm so sorry. I'm sure she's up there waiting for you to join her so you can ride together again.
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              • #27
                Beautiful tribute to a beautiful mare! Please accept my heartfelt condolences. How lucky you both were. There are those who go through life without ever having this kind of relationship. Big hugs to you.

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                • #28
                  I am certain that your wonderful Mescha is galloping up there in green fields with may of the beloved horses that have gone before her. Bless you for giving her such a grand life and having such a connection with her. Your tribute brought tears to my eyes, but also a smile knowing how loved she was. Hugs and sincere condolences...
                  Mary Lou
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                  • #29
                    I'm so sorry for your loss. She sounds like she was a truly special mare.
                    www.grayfoxfarms.com Home of Redwine, Aloha, Federalist, Romantic Star and Rated R.

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                    • #30
                      I'm so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful relationship you had with her, and surely she knew it. I wish you peace with your compassionate and right decision. Godspeed Mescha, you will be in great company.
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                      • #31
                        You have my condolences.
                        Thank you for sharing your memories. I had a mare like that and it tore me apart when we had to put her down.
                        Godspeed, Mescha. Say hello to my Holliday for me.
                        Beth
                        Fenway Farm

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                        • #32
                          Thanks for sharing Mescha with us. I am so sorry for your loss, especially of a long time friend. You will meet up again someday.

                          It was a beautiful tribute and brought tears to my eyes.

                          Terri
                          COTH, keeping popcorn growers in business for years.

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                          • #33
                            Aww hon I'm so sorry - I can so relate to your denial!! I didn't want to have to put mine down either and kept thinking she'd just be ok..........if.
                            You're so right about the horrible horrible grief. It's been just a year since I had to put my girl down and your story brought tears for both of our wonderful girls.
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                            H. Cate

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                            • #34
                              So very sorry for your loss. What a wonderful life you lived together. She was truly loved.
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                              • #35
                                I am so sorry. Such a wonderful life that you and her had together.
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                                  #36
                                  Thank you all for your kind words and support! It's amazing the love a human can have for an animal. I've truly lost part of me...

                                  My husband is out digging the hole. I got up this morning to feed and my minature donkey was standing guard over her.

                                  It was after dark when the vet came last night so we couldn't bury her until today. I'll be glad when that's over....I'm trying to distract myself until it's ready.
                                  There is no secret so close as that between a rider and his horse-Robert Smith Surtees
                                  Breeding TBs, Connemaras and TB/Conn crosses for eventing
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                                  • #37
                                    Its so heartbreaking to lose them... especially when you have something like the two of you so obviously had... I am so sorry....
                                    Hugs and God Speed Mescha!! RIP.
                                    Hickstead 1996-2011 Godspeed
                                    " Hickstead is simply the best and He lives forever in our hearts"
                                    Akasha 1992-2012 - I will always love you sweet girl.

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