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How do you explain the difficulty of horsebackriding to someone who's never done it?

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  • How do you explain the difficulty of horsebackriding to someone who's never done it?

    All the time I come across people who say that riding is not a sport and all the rider does is sit on the horse while the horse does the rest. Ugh this makes me so ticked off cus in my mind I know just how much of a workout riding is and just how dangerous it is, but there's like no possible way to explain it to someone who doesn't ride! Has anyone else ever come across this problem? How do you deal with it???

  • #2
    I read a comment regarding this situation once, it might have even been on COTH, and I loved the analogy- Just tell them.


    "Its just like skiing, the mountain does all the work!"

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    • #3
      Or like surfing. You just stand on the board and wait for the waves to move you around. Right? Right??

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      • #4
        We had a fitness guru come into our work some years ago now who made the same comment when I said "oh, I walk the dogs, ride my horses ad cycle". So, I got him one - not by explaining it, but having him demonstrate it.

        Took one GymBall (aka Swiss ball), and first demonstrating how to do it, told him to sit on it with his feet off the ground as you would when riding. He fell off the ball repeatedly - when he finally could balance on it, I told him to now bounce up and down, from side to side and maintain exactly the same balance, contact and position on the ball and "going with the ball". He couldnt.

        I then asked him why could I then - as that is easier than balancing on a horse.

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        • #5
          I don't get too worked up about it, honestly.

          I know how much work it takes. I enjoy how much work it takes. I don't ride because I want people to appreciate how much athleticism and determination I have. I ride because I like it.

          Next time it happens, say "Well, that's not quite true" and give the examples about surfing and skiing where the environment does all the work, and then ask them to imagine sitting on a giant exercise ball with their feet off the ground, etc, and point out a few of the things we're super conscious about.

          The key is staying calm, and not really caring what they think. If you splutter and get obsessive, they won't take you seriously. Your confidence in this matter will give them confidence to believe you.

          I have a lot of success by describing that riding takes similar strength and body awareness as dance. We need the same core strength, awareness of our picture, and also bursts of energy/strength. We similarly need some degree of comparable flexiblity. People seem to get that.

          And those that don't want to take me for my word are not people I really care to waste the energy talking to. Period.

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          • #6
            Years ago I brought a non-horse person to a horse show. We were standing b/w two rings, both with fences set about 2'6", but one was a pro class like Baby Green and the other was a kid/ammy class. He looked back and forth for awhile and then commented, "this appears to be a sport that looks easy, but is not."
            The Evil Chem Prof

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            • #7
              I normally say something like, "Well, in Football if you have a bad day, your team picks up the slack. But when you're riding, you depend on your horse if you're having bad day. Trouble comes when your horse is having a bad day too.... that 3'6 combination isn't going anywhere"

              I also remember a really buff soccer player who was getting on my nerves because he kept butting into my conversations and saying riding was easy. I told him I would give him $200 if he could ride as well as me within 3 hour long rides on my pony, transportation and equipment supplied.... he never took me up on it.
              Mel

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              • #8
                Originally posted by EventingMEF View Post
                All the time I come across people who say that riding is not a sport and all the rider does is sit on the horse while the horse does the rest. Ugh this makes me so ticked off cus in my mind I know just how much of a workout riding is and just how dangerous it is, but there's like no possible way to explain it to someone who doesn't ride! Has anyone else ever come across this problem? How do you deal with it???
                lol when people tell me its not a sport- i just say then please explain to me why its in the olympic games then walk off

                as most people know what olympic games are rather than dressage.sj etc

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                • #9
                  I tell them to give me 30 minutes with them on a horse and I can bring them to their knees! LOL!

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                  • #10
                    I don't feel any compulsion to justify my activity.
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                    • #11
                      Honestly, I see riding more of a challenge at my age...granted, I started riding when I was 9 or 10 and now in my 40's, staying on, not "hitting" the ground as I don't bounce like I use to, the challenge is between my horse and I.

                      Like many others, I had commented to a doctor, whom I no longer have, that I wanted to loose a bit of weight. He asked what I did and one of the activities I said was riding and driving. He snorted and said that equestrian activities won't help loose weight and he didn't see it as a way to do so either. I stopped in my tracks and asked what exactly he thought we riders who had our own horses and drafts did?! That I certainly did not have staff to saddle or harness for me, I did it on my own and if he wanted to waddle his fat ass to my farm and thrown said harness over a 17.2H draft horse to show me it was easy, then please by all means come on over!

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                      • #12
                        How about when you have a friend that used to ride who feels that way? I heard her discussing it with her then-BF (who also had horses) and they both felt that way. I didn't even comment because if that's how they feel then there's really no way to otherwise convince them. Just know that you're right and they're wrong

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Still Workingonit View Post
                          We had a fitness guru come into our work some years ago now who made the same comment when I said "oh, I walk the dogs, ride my horses ad cycle". So, I got him one - not by explaining it, but having him demonstrate it.

                          Took one GymBall (aka Swiss ball), and first demonstrating how to do it, told him to sit on it with his feet off the ground as you would when riding. He fell off the ball repeatedly - when he finally could balance on it, I told him to now bounce up and down, from side to side and maintain exactly the same balance, contact and position on the ball and "going with the ball". He couldnt.

                          I then asked him why could I then - as that is easier than balancing on a horse.
                          "Oh, sure, you may be able to take down one smurf, but mark my words: You bonk one smurf, you better be ready for a blue wave."---Bucky Katt

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                          • #14
                            I have been back riding dressage for a little over a year now and people keep commenting on how much weight I have lost. The scale says I have lost 8 pds(people say it looks like I have lost 20) but it is my shape that has changed more than anything. My legs have become very strong and have not looked this good in yearsAlso, my posture is much better in and off the saddle.
                            They keep asking me how did you do it and I tell them the only thing I am doing differently is riding horses. My horse's name is Bloom so I tell them it's Bloomercise
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                            Dawn

                            Patience and Consistency are Your Friends

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                            • #15
                              Tell them correct riding is a challenge because the goal is to make yourself easy for the horse to carry. In the meantime you are using your body to influence the horse's way of going. It takes strength to become a good "package" for the horse, and finesse to influence the horse. Strength and finesse. That's sport enough for me.
                              Any time someone talks about their horse in a bar, there's love in the room.

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                              • #16
                                Originally posted by sparky6 View Post
                                How about when you have a friend that used to ride who feels that way? I heard her discussing it with her then-BF (who also had horses) and they both felt that way. I didn't even comment because if that's how they feel then there's really no way to otherwise convince them. Just know that you're right and they're wrong
                                For some people, riding is not really a work out. I know some strict trail riders that basically just walk around the local park, hold onto the horn if things get scary and, yes, fall off at a walk.... I am sure they do what they enjoy and there is no real harm to horse or human - just an example of how you can ride for decades and never really work out on the horse.

                                When people mention to me that riding is not work, my response depends on who said it. An immature person trying to get my goat does not illicit a response from me - something more of a grunt and a nod.

                                Someone who is obviously just in need of education, I explain exactly how much work it is.

                                Someone who tells me they have ridden and riding is no work, I ask what they did. Summer camp, trail rides, something that any beginner can do and generally includes horses with three hooves in the grave, then I explain the difference between what I do and what they do. For one person, with a medical background, I showed the online chart of how many calories are burned doing what and the heart rate differences between start of work out and end of work out.

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                                • #17
                                  It's why I do Pilates and Yoga as cross training, not for themselves alone.

                                  But honestly? I tell everyone it keeps me humble because it is so easy to do so wrong.
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                                  • #18
                                    Put them on a horse for half an hour.
                                    Then ask them the next day if they felt like they got a workout.

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                                    • #19
                                      I had a friend who rode, but had never driven. She thought driving was just sitting in the cart, easy peasy. I took her out for a five mile drive. When she got out she said "dang, my abs are killing me!" - changed her mind on that!!

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                                      • #20
                                        I just look at the person, laugh, and say "It's obvious you've never ridden a horse."

                                        If they counter that they have, I reply, "No, you have sat on a horse. It's different when you actually ride one."
                                        I'm not ignoring the rules. I'm interpreting the rules. Tamal, The Great British Baking Show

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