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  • #41
    Oh, for heaven's sake. If you are in a position where you can't/don't ride, life doesn't cave in. And it can have a ton of value: I spend a lot of time volunteering with children, biking, hanging out with friends, and a host of other interesting things that don't cost a ton of money and don't require a horse. And, no I don't have a television.

    Totally agreed with the below:

    Originally posted by kristinq View Post
    It's hard to u adjust to a life without horses- but it's still a LIFE. Don't make it sound like those who are horseless are all a bunch of lazy, worthless wastes of space. (Not referring to the OP here, but a few of the other posters).

    Good luck with the move!!
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    • #42
      I pray I never have to find out what life is like without my beloved horses. But life does go on and when I have been horse-less, I have always found ways to find a barn to help in or horses to ride for other people. I would also recommend getting involved in a Therapeutic Horseback Riding program as a volunteer. It is incredibly rewarding and programs are always looking for experienced horse people to help out.

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      • #43
        honestly i dont know i would gain a ton of weight and be bored out of my mind with out horses haha
        he may hit a rail, but at least he wont break my heart <3
        Inside the rider u have become is a little girl who fell in love with horses, ride for her (;

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        • #44
          Let's see....

          Before I had a horse, I figure skated, did gymnastics, dance (tap), and did a lot of camping.


          I still camp a lot, actually, because now that we have the gear it is a low cost vacation!

          Horses are really expensive to keep here in Southern California, so yeah I would probably be able to remodel my tiny, 700 square foot home from 1924 if I wasn't spending the money
          "Look, I'm trying not to test the durability of the arena with my face!" (Because only GM can do that.)

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          • #45
            This is the first time I have been horseless in a lot of time. What do I do? Enjoy my baby. We go on walks, now that he is bigger I can actually jog with him in the jogging stroller. We go to gymboree. I know this is not your situation though.

            I do not watch any more TV than before because having a baby does not give me such time. But I do run almost daily and do abdominal work. On weekends we enjoy going to parks and walks with our son. We also enjoy now going out to a nice restaurant to eat.

            Best of all, I now take care of myself not my horses. Instead of spending my weekends at the barn or at a show, I go and get my nails done, my hair fixed and my new favorite the spa for a facial or massage.

            I know I will have horses in the future but in the mean time I am really enjoying not having them and being able to take care of myself and family.

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            • #46
              I just had a thought hit my brain as I was driving home thinking about 1) how much I need to do tonight, and tommorrow and 2) why I do this to myself, because it sure as heck ain't the money (yet).

              The question:

              "What do people without horses do??"

              We spend our time and energy figuring out how to get the horses back.

              LOL!
              "The nice thing about memories is the good ones are stronger and linger longer than the bad and we sure have some incredibly good memories." - EverythingButWings

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              • #47
                Originally posted by littleum View Post

                We spend our time and energy figuring out how to get the horses back.

                LOL!
                Absolutely, 100%, dead-on.
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                • #48
                  maybe they keep up with the Kardashians? Not sure who or what they are, but whenever I do turn on the TV, there they are!

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                  • #49
                    Really, It probably depends what type of horse person you were in the first place. We are not all the same.

                    For some of us - nothing is more interesting or worth spending time with/on, then horses. Some things are as interesting. But nothing is more.

                    For others, horses are just one thing they do, no more special than the other things that they do. Often they have a horse, or horses, and then something about life changes and cest la vie, they sell horses and move on to something else. Later on they might take it up again and it might be pushed aside for something else again. A lot of women have babies and do this.

                    It's not a grand passion for some. Whose to say what is better, everyone is an individual. For example, my neighbor who has three children under five, expressed to me once that she couldn't believe I had to clean all those stalls (4) everyday. It was all I could do to not laugh at her and tell her that I could not believe she has to change all those shitty diapers everyday. Carnivore shit at that, and not in the end of a pitchfork. Ah well, we are all different!
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                    • #50
                      I have always wondered what people without horses DO with themselves... not just outside of actual barn time, but shopping for horse stuff, spending time on BBs like COTH, reading horse magazines, watching horse events... you get the idea.

                      I understand if people have an all-consuming OTHER hobby, like golf (boyfriend loves it; easily spends as much time on it as I do with the horses... complete with magazines, BBs, watching golf on TV... bleck, boring) or whatever, but those people who appear to not do anything but work and putter home... what do THEY do?

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                      • #51
                        When there was a period last year when I was w/o a horse, I seemed to spend a lot of time at the dog park ...

                        I tried mountain biking with a friend once and I found that it was too much work and not that much fun.

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