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What do normal people do without horses?

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  • #21
    They spend a lot of time shopping, eating at restaurants, going to bars, chatting with their girl friends, and remodeling their houses

    If they don't have money to do a lot of these things, they sit around watching TV.
    I sold my horse a few years ago because I just couldn't afford it anymore. I don't do any of the above-named things. I do other things instead- train and show dogs (very similar to horses but wow so much cheaper!), engage in other hobbies (gardening, hiking), and honestly I think I watch LESS TV these days than when I had horses. Although, since we don't have horses, we DO have enough money now to have a huge fancy flat-screen TV and premium cable service we could never afford when we had horses.

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    • #22
      [QUOTE=wendy;4903502]I sold my horse a few years ago because I just couldn't afford it anymore. I don't do any of the above-named things. I do other things instead- train and show dogs (very similar to horses but wow so much cheaper!), QUOTE]

      Exactly! When I sold my horses, I was already deep into training and showing dog. So much cheaper and easier than showing horses!!! But dogs can really multiple.....
      But, now that I have a horse again, I juggle dogs (I also judge them now), horse and full time job...... I guess if I did not have the dogs and horse, I would have more money and spend my spare time sitting on the couch eating Bon-Bons and getting fat!
      We do not have an overpopulation of dogs, we have an under population of responsible dog owners!!!

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      • #23
        Originally posted by danceronice View Post
        I took up figure skating and then ballroom dancing. Apparently I am incapable of living without an expensive athletic activity that eats up all my free time and income. Oh, and I got two dogs and two more cats (one cat was not intentional!) So my house is STILL never clean, and now I have a horse again. Thank goodness dance lessons out here are fairly cheap.
        Sounds a lot like me....I figure skate and have a horse, plus 3 cats, and a part time job in addition to my full time job.....and I still seem to have an empty checking account!

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        • #24
          If you still want to be involved with horses, why not take lessons or part-lease a horse?

          Or you could find horses to ride through the Horseless Riders forum.

          I don't own and I may never be able to, but I usually ride at least three times a week half-leasing. Even if you can just afford a lesson a week right now, once you are back at a barn, you will end up meeting horse friends and probably getting to exercise their horses if you're a decent rider.
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          • #25
            I guess you buy dvds and ipods and gym memberships and go on real vacations? Maybe have money to invest? Wear nice clothes?

            Wow. How depressing.
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            • #26
              When I've been horseless it is usually because I've wanted to invest the time/money/energy into something more "important" like family, real estate, school, etc.

              But being horseless does not mean horses are gone from life completely. There are always ways to ride and avenues through which to stay involved.

              Right now I've got some family members putting pressure on to give it up... entirely. Too much money, too much time, too unsafe. While I can see scaling back I don't think I will ever be able to walk away completely.
              We couldn't all be cowboys, so some of us are clowns.

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              • #27
                I know of non-horse people that are active and busy. You can do short mountain biking trips (park near my hometown had shorter trails so an evening ride after work was do-able. Rock climing - indoor gyms are fantastic for short trips and working on technical skills. Short hikes with the dog. Volunteering at a shelter / rescue.

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                • #28
                  What do you do? you sit around counting all that money you now have!

                  I often dream about all the time and money I would have if we had followed my hubby's upbringing, bought a little suburb house and I stayed home and became a Stepford Wife. But baiting Hubby with 21 acres, a tractor, and a chance to shoot groud hogs was all it took to lure him to the dark side...That was 15 years ago!
                  ...don't sh** where you eat...

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                  • #29
                    Originally posted by FlashGordon View Post
                    When I've been horseless it is usually because I've wanted to invest the time/money/energy into something more "important" like family, real estate, school, etc.

                    But being horseless does not mean horses are gone from life completely. There are always ways to ride and avenues through which to stay involved.

                    Right now I've got some family members putting pressure on to give it up... entirely. Too much money, too much time, too unsafe. While I can see scaling back I don't think I will ever be able to walk away completely.

                    But they let you drive....

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                    • #30
                      Originally posted by Alagirl View Post
                      But they let you drive....
                      I know, right?

                      Yesterday I heard a story about a friend of a friend who choked on a hamburger at a Memorial Day BBQ. They had to do CPR and he's now in a coma. So very sad for him and his family.

                      But just goes to show that life is full of risks....
                      We couldn't all be cowboys, so some of us are clowns.

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                      • #31
                        Originally posted by winfieldfarm View Post

                        But baiting Hubby with 21 acres, a tractor, and a chance to shoot groud hogs was all it took to lure him to the dark side...That was 15 years ago!
                        *sigh* I knew all the good ones were taken!
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                        • #32
                          This !

                          Originally posted by IMAX View Post
                          Maybe their houses are clean. Honestly, I don't know what they do with all that time.
                          This ~ I am guessing
                          Zu Zu Bailey " IT'S A WONDERFUL LIFE ! "

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                          • #33
                            'Normal' people have their own hobbies that they enjoy, spend a lot of time and money on, and make sacrifices for. Hmm, sound familiar? It doesn't mean that they do nothing but sit on their asses looking like Al Bundy in front of the television all day.

                            It's hard to adjust to a life without horses- but it's still a LIFE. Don't make it sound like those who are horseless are all a bunch of lazy, worthless wastes of space. (Not referring to the OP here, but a few of the other posters).

                            Good luck with the move!!
                            Every one of them had that look of a girl infatuated with horses, the happy, fated look of a passenger setting sail on the Titanic.

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                            • #34
                              I would imagine they have more disposable income.
                              And they're cleaner...not so much the house but themselves.
                              I can keep my house clean...but I usually look like hell.

                              The sad/funny part is I've tried to imagine not having a little farmette and horses at home and living out in the woods. And I imagine what it would be like to have the extra income and then imagine what I'd do with it. And the only thing I can come up with to spend extra money on is horses, LOL!
                              "Ooo, if I didn't have horses, I could afford to have a horse!" Yeah, makes no sense.
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                              Hold onto the bridle!
                              Jump in the line!
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                              • #35
                                Buy yourself an inexpensive GPS and go geocaching! Or take up photography. Or a musical instrument. Or park yourself in front of the pc looking at dreamhorse ads.
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                                • #36
                                  You take up rock climbing. You get a gym membership. You discover weekends. You realize baseball games Aren't So Bad. You spend A LOT of time on COTH. You learn how to garden, and then you obsess about weeds. You learn hangovers are much easier to suffer when you don't have to pilot a 1200lb beast at 7am with them. You get super into yoga, but spend most of your time wondering how much this awesome new strength, balance, awareness and flexibility will help your left lead canter issue. You realize every friend you've ever made you made through the common horse bond. You realize you don't have much to say about normal conversation topics.

                                  You pursue all of this with blind enthusiasm, sure they will eventually fill the void. And then the enthusiasm starts to fizzle out. You start missing yoga classes . . . start just hanging out at the rock wall instead of climbing . . . you resent the (enormously cheaper) gym membership because you wouldn't even need one if you were riding . . . and suddenly your left with just baseball, gardening, COTH and beer (not necessarily in that order) . . . and you just know something's gotta change.
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                                  • #37
                                    Bring the horse. Apart from anything else it is an excellent way to develop social contacts when you move to a new area and don't know a soul. And a lot of us here are really relatively normal as horse people go.

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                                    • #38
                                      what do normal people do without horses????

                                      apparently, nothing much worthwhile.....

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                                      • #39
                                        shhhhht! can't believe you posed such a question!

                                        Forget about "what to do" how about "what to talk about?".

                                        Actually I often pondered about what the hell I did with my time during the non-horse and non-kid years

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                                        • #40
                                          I sometimes wonder about this question... like what would I do with my summer if I didn't ride? (I'm in HS). Idk... camp, etc, but probably horse camp. So instead I become temporary barn staff and show horses! What could be better?
                                          Different flavors of crazy, but totally NUTS. You know its true. - GreyHunterHorse

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