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What do you consider a "horse of a lifetime"?

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  • #41
    In my almost 40 years of horse ownership I have had 3.

    Irish Coffee was my first horse....how could he not be a lifetime horse? I had him for 30 years. I had to put him down at age 37 in 2003.
    I got Honey when I was pregnant with our second child, in 1978. She was 18 months old. "broke" her as a 2 YO (I was 5 months pregnant). It was a matter of break her then, or wait a year. No one ever fell off Honey. I had to put her down to colic 2 years ago.

    I never thought I could feel the same way about another horse but six months later I found Sophie. She makes my heart smile
    I wasn't always a Smurf
    Penmerryl's Sophie RIDSH
    "I ain't as good as I once was but I'm as good once as I ever was"
    The ignore list is my friend. It takes 2 to argue.

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    • #42
      My girl I put to sleep on Friday was without a doubt my heart horse.

      We would have seemed an likely match at first- and I know my trainer thought I was crazy when she heard what'd I'd done. I'm not a brave rider by any stretch and my last couple horses had pushed me past my comfort zone. Especially jumping I get really nervous and need a horse who doesn't mind taking care of me every now and then. I probably should have been looking at a horse with several years of eventing experience who could baby sit me a little bit.

      Instead I found a stunning 4 year old OTTB, she could more-or-less walk/trot/canter, but still had her race track canter and the steering and brakes left some to be desired. When I saw her ad online I somehow knew she was the one, and she was.

      She was green, but always took care of me. Our first time out x-c I was petrified, she jumped around like a seasoned pro. She might not have always known the right answer to what I was asking, but she tried hard and was one of those horses who didn't know how to be 'bad'.

      It seems so unfair that we only got to spend 7 months together riding before she started having soundness problems. I miss her so much and I don't know how I'll ever find another horse who can compare to her.
      Cascadia- OTTB mare. 04/04-05/10
      If love could have saved you, you would have lived forever

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      • #43
        I am very sorry for your loss
        I wasn't always a Smurf
        Penmerryl's Sophie RIDSH
        "I ain't as good as I once was but I'm as good once as I ever was"
        The ignore list is my friend. It takes 2 to argue.

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        • #44
          My current mare is my heart horse, in part because she was extremely difficult and dangerous when I got her. She can still be difficult, but I swear she loffs me.

          My true once in a lifetime horse, I didnt particularly like when the first Mr Jeano bought him. Patchy was too big to be a POA and too little to be an Appaloosa. He had a thick, short, cresty neck and was only as tall as 14 hands because his withers went up to his ears. We got him for his canner price because he had become crazy in his career as a lesson horse, and had developed some awful habits under saddle as a result (lean head to one side, shake head incessantly, trot as rough as possible, and refuse to take a canter cue. All at the same time.) He had done this so much one side of his neck bulged even at rest.

          We took him home and turned him out. He started to relax. We rode him in the pasture, he shook his head etc. I told mr jeano, get a switch, cue him to canter, if he doesnt canter hit him as hard as you can. One or two recalibrations were all it took. We promised him, you will never never never be ridden in an arena or an indoor for as long as you live here. You are a trail horse now.

          He was the safest trail horse ever. He could do anything. He had a lovely soft jog and a nice, nice walk. He could jump. He could teach any rider. You could put a baby on his back. He took care of his rider and he took care of himself. I was behind mr Jeano on the trail once, saw patch step into a hole between a bank and a tree root--deep hole, small bore, whole back leg half way up to his hock in a tight spot. I braced for the wreck and opened my mouth to yell, Patch didnt even break stride, calmly lifted his leg straight up in the air until his hoof was free. Unflappable.

          After mr jeano the first and I divorced, Patch became the packer for friends I took horse camping. Most didnt know how to ride. Made no difference. Was up in the hills of SE OH once, trail was blocked by a huge fallen tree. Cliff to the left, with a steep, close to vertical bank a good four feet high to the right. I was turning my mare to backtrack to a spot where the bank would be short enough to scramble up it. Trail is about 5 feet wide. Friend on Patch points him at the four foot high bank (having no idea what she was asking him to do) and says, c'mon patch, and damned if he doesnt levitate in a perfect capriole like a freaking Lippizan, kicks out his back legs, gets his forefeet on the top of the bank, one more kick and they're up. No way in HELL is my mare going to do that.

          I will never own his equal and will always cherish the memory of the few years I spent with him.

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          • #45
            Mine is in the back paddock right now, a 16.2 hh bay tobiano Paint gelding. I knew the minute I saw him 16 years ago (he was 4) that I had to have him. He came to the stall door with this open, goofy expression that just shouted "HELLO! WHO ARE YOU? Are you my new BEST FRIEND?" I melted, and every day since then my heart swells when I see him.

            Through all the years my late husband struggled with cancer, my horse was my rock. He knew when I was feeling despair, and he'd put his enormous head against my chest and just stand there, or rest his head on my shoulder, his muzzle near my ear, as I cried.

            My non-horsey friends didn't understand when I moved out to horse property, leaving a lovely home in a lovely suburb. I said it was to give this horse a happy retirement, and just got puzzled looks in response.

            But when I sit on my patio and watch him, happily snoozing in the sun with his two buddies, I am grateful for the chance to have him so close. It's the least I can do after all he's given me.

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