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  • Wedding in Ireland ? !!!

    So hubby and I are pretty seriously considering running off to Ireland and combining our wedding and honeymoon in one.

    I know there are a gazillion links on vacationing there, but I would need to find someone to marry us preferably on the side of a cliff by a castle with the ocean in the backround haha.

    And my hubby isnt really a rider and doesnt care to spend our whole vacation doing so, I on the other hand promise it wont be so, but Im also hoping to get ALOT more than 1 day of riding in So anything to keep him entertained...( golfing, pubs ummmm well thats about it oh and video games )..I just need somewhere he wont have an issue entertaining himself for part of the day. Hes big into Irish culture and dance etc. so we would both LOVE LOVE LOVE to do this !!
    Ride it like you stole it....ohhh sh*t

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    I went to my nephew's wedding a couple of years ago at this castle. My family is Irish and a lot of them are still in Ireland. He married an Irish girl and they picked this castle for the wedding. We all met in Dublin and trekked across Ireland to Sligo (stopping at the old family pub along the way). It was a wonderful wedding and there is a barn on the property!!!!!

    http://www.markreecastle.ie/

    There are tons of B&Bs locally so if the hotel fills up guests can stay locally, I ended up at a small sport horse breeding farm and was invited to the Dublin Horse Show with them where they were showing their babies in hand. Lovely experience!
    www.headsupspecialriders.com

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      #3
      Ohhh thank you

      Ill do my reasearch.. it looks like a fun place but may not cater to what we had in mind. Were kind of thinking of eloping hahaha although both our familys know this is the direction we were thinking.

      If this does come together this will be a life long dream for the both of us, which is really exciting !!
      Ride it like you stole it....ohhh sh*t

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      • #4
        well if you want spectacular coastline with golfing and riding nearby (by the way - in Ireland you wont find anyplace that does not have golfing and riding nearby)

        Check out Glencolumkille in Donegal-
        www.headsupspecialriders.com

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        • #5
          I can't help with the Ireland part of it, but my brother got married in Scotland, and it was fantastic. A few relatives went over for the wedding, and he found the town where our family originated, and even found a clergyman to perform the ceremony who had the same last name, so presumably a distant relative.

          The countryside was breathtaking, I found a couple of places to go ride, and we flew in and out of London, so we made a little tour out of it. Different people who had different interests could go do their own thing- some cousins went on a big golf expedition the week after the wedding.

          My best advice would be to allow enough time for everything. I wish we had planned to stay a bit longer. Also, if you travel by train, it's easy and you can see the countryside, but it's pretty time-consuming, so factor that in.

          Best wishes and have a wonderful time!

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          • #6
            Information you should have;

            http://www.irelandforvisitors.com/ar...in_ireland.htm

            Getting married in Ireland is complicated but possible. Here are some tips to help you get through the formalities from a distance.
            Three months' notice
            To marry in the Republic of Ireland, three months' written notice of the parties' intention to wed must be given to the registrar for the district in which you wish to be married. Occasionally, exceptions are given, but they must be applied for at the Circuit Family Court Office or the High Court Office. There is no cost for this service.
            Residency
            Residency is a must, whether for a religious ceremony or civil marriage, and requires at least one visit to Ireland prior to the actual ceremony to complete all the administrivia. Both parties must be over eighteen years of age on the actual wedding day to be married in the Republic of Ireland. To establish residency qualifications for marriage by license, one of the parties needs fifteen full days of residency, the other party need to reside in the area seven days before notice is served, and then the wedding can take place eight days later.
            If the parties choose to get married without a license, the residency requirement is shortened (seven full days for each party), but the waiting period is much longer. Notice is served on the eighth day, but the marriage cannot take place until twenty-two days later. These requirements apply to the county of Dublin. Interested parties planning to be married elsewhere need to ask about the residency requirement in the district of their choice.
            Registrars


            In all cases of civil weddings, both parties must make an appointment with the registrar in their county of choice and produce all necessary documents which might include: Birth Certificates, if divorced, a copy of the Divorce Absolute (in English) and Birth Certificate. There are two sets of registrars, one for Roman Catholic marriages and another for Protestant and civil marriages. A list of registrars for the former is obtained from the health board of the area concerned, while the other is made up of a list of solicitors in each county. (Ask for form FLA.1.96.) Both lists are available from:
            The General Register Office
            Joyce House, 8/11 Lombard Street East
            Dublin 2, Ireland
            After making the registration, the planning of the ceremony may commence. For marriage in a Catholic church, it will be necessary to establish some linkage with that particular parish and church. Some residency will be required, so immediately after the registration is made would be the time to contact the parish priest who will know details of any other diocese qualifications. Of particular importance is the fact that divorced persons may not marry in a Roman Catholic church; however a Church annulment permits a ceremony in the Church.
            Marriages in a Roman Catholic church proceed by one of four means: by Episcopal license; after the publication of banns; by ordinary ecclesiastical license, or on production of a certificate from a register of civil marriages.
            The process is a bit different for Church of Ireland marriages where at least one of the parties must be Protestant Episcopalian. It should be noted that the Church of Ireland strongly discourages persons coming from abroad just to get married in Ireland.
            A civil ceremony is an alternative to a religious ceremony and is more administratively convenient, if lacking in atmosphere. Aside from the three months' notice of intent to marry, the residency requirements for the area in particular must be met.
            Cost of the ceremony is relatively cheap--£32.50. This applies to both civil and religious ceremonies.


            Listed below are some addresses which may be useful. Note the Dublin City and County Marriage Registrar's office is scheduled to move. It is not listed in the telephone directory, however, a recorded message with the new address and telephone number should be on the line, and letters will be forwarded to the new address.
            Dublin City and County Marriage Registrar
            31 Molesworth Street
            Dublin 2, Ireland
            Tel.: (01) 676 3218
            Circuit Family Court Office and High Court Office
            Four Courts
            Dublin 7, Ireland
            Department of Foreign Affairs
            80 St. Stephen's Green
            Dublin 2, Ireland
            Tel.: (01) 478 8022
            Last edited by Equibrit; May. 28, 2010, 08:21 AM.
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              #7
              Wow, I knew it would be more complicated but didnt realize quite how much. The residency thing really puts a wrench in our plans. Neither of us are in a position to spend at length that much time away.

              Thank you so much for the information. Before we entertained anything further that seems to answer our question.

              I was hoping we could justify saving the $$ on the reception with incorporating our dream vacation, But I would assume now everyone will want us spending the $ on a traditional wedding which would mean we would have to forgo Ireland.

              Maybe, hopefully someday right
              Ride it like you stole it....ohhh sh*t

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              • #8
                I don't know all the details, but for sure my brother and his wife got married in Scotland within 48 hours of arriving in the country. So maybe the rules there are not as strict as in Ireland?

                Still green and beautiful, though!

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by CanTango1 View Post
                  I was hoping we could justify saving the $$ on the reception with incorporating our dream vacation, But I would assume now everyone will want us spending the $ on a traditional wedding which would mean we would have to forgo Ireland.
                  Maybe, hopefully someday right
                  Meh. "Everyone" can go fly a kite -- it's *your* day. (Especially if you're paying for it!)

                  Get married here in a simple ceremony, then hop on a plane! You weren't planning on having a big crowd there anyway, right?
                  --
                  Wendy
                  ... and Patrick

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by MHM View Post
                    I don't know all the details, but for sure my brother and his wife got married in Scotland within 48 hours of arriving in the country. So maybe the rules there are not as strict as in Ireland?

                    Still green and beautiful, though!
                    Indeed - a whole other country ! http://www.gro-scotland.gov.uk/files...on/rm1text.pdf
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                    • #11
                      You could always get married in Scotland - looking at Ireland ! http://www.islayinfo.com/islay-weddi...ge-venues.html
                      Then cross the water for the honeymoon. Plenty of good old piles overlooking the Irish Sea you could use.
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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Equibrit View Post
                        That was an entertaining read. If more people followed those guidelines about who they may not marry, soap operas would be much more boring- as would the Jerry Springer show.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Equibrit View Post
                          You could always get married in Scotland - looking at Ireland ! Then cross the water for the honeymoon. Plenty of good old piles overlooking the Irish Sea you could use.
                          I highly recommend Oban, even if you can't see Ireland from there.

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                          • #14
                            Might be a silly point, and I will say I do not mean to politically offend anyone, but if you had your heart set on Ireland the ISLAND ITSELF, it might be worth checking what the requirements are in the OTHER Ireland. Remember, something like six counties are part of the United Kingdom (like Scotland), not the Republic of Ireland. The rules almost certainly are different. I don't know what the rules are, but they are not remotely under the same government. And so long as you avoid certain public holidays, since all the accords the likelihood of things being disrupted by...uh...public unrest are substantially lower than they used to be.
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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by danceronice View Post
                              Might be a silly point, and I will say I do not mean to politically offend anyone, but if you had your heart set on Ireland the ISLAND ITSELF, it might be worth checking what the requirements are in the OTHER Ireland. Remember, something like six counties are part of the United Kingdom (like Scotland), not the Republic of Ireland. The rules almost certainly are different. I don't know what the rules are, but they are not remotely under the same government. And so long as you avoid certain public holidays, since all the accords the likelihood of things being disrupted by...uh...public unrest are substantially lower than they used to be.
                              I was just about to suggest N. Ireland.

                              I spent 6 weeks in Ireland w/ a study abroad program in undergrad, and the 2 days we spent in N. Ireland were by far my favorites. I never felt unsafe, but we also had an excellent, experienced tour guide take us through Belfast to see the murals -- I wouldn't recommend doing that on your own, but I also wouldn't recommend walking through West Philly or sketchy parts of the Bronx either! We spent a night at the Best Western (? I think?) in Belfast, near Queen's University, and that neighborhood was both lovely and totally safe. We then drove up to see the Giant's Causeway -- what an absolutely gorgeous trip along the coast. And, Giant's Causeway is very close to the Bushmill's Distillery, which might be a fun trip for your hubby if you could find some riding nearby.

                              BTW -- couldn't you officially get married in the US at a courthouse, and then just have a ceremony in Ireland? It wouldn't have to be your official wedding.

                              With that in mind, here is my personal suggestion:

                              http://hearttoheart.ie/photogallery/...%20Ireland.jpg

                              St. Finnbarr's Church in Co. Cork.

                              While I was over there, I went riding in Killarney National Park, which was a lot of fun and gorgeous. I think you can also ride in Dingle, along the beach. Dingle would also be a fun wedding site.

                              You can also ride in Phoenix Park in Dublin, and send hubby off to Guiness and Jameson factories.

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                              • #16
                                Getting married in N Ireland; http://www.groni.gov.uk/index/marriages.htm#mar1
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                                • #17
                                  Originally posted by Equibrit View Post
                                  Cost of the ceremony is relatively cheap--£32.50. This applies to both civil and religious ceremonies.
                                  Err...

                                  Here, try some info from this century. From the Irish government's Citizens Information site...
                                  http://www.citizensinformation.ie/ca...s_for_marriage

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                                  • #18
                                    Originally posted by CanTango1 View Post
                                    Wow, I knew it would be more complicated but didnt realize quite how much. The residency thing really puts a wrench in our plans. Neither of us are in a position to spend at length that much time away.
                                    From the General Register Office...

                                    As of 5th November 2007, there are no longer any residency requirements for civil marriages. The ceremony must be performed in the presence of two witnesses who should be both over 18 years of age.

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                                    • #19
                                      We're supposed to have a great summer so get on over! We've already been near 80 for 3 days in a row - it was amazing!

                                      Good luck and I hope it works for you. Let me know if you need any help over on this side.

                                      Terri
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                                        #20
                                        I cant take this emotional rollercoaster .. Im getting way to excited again

                                        He actually is Scottish... Has anyone seen the skittles commercial about Scottish/Koreans being contradictions? Well Im marrying one

                                        So, in all reality we really could go that route ( thats awesome they found a distant distant relative to do thiers)

                                        He had found a "tour" that shoots form Scotland to Ireland, But I dont like doing "tours" although its probably safer and easier..but I want to go at this with wild abandon .... do our own thing.. I dont like feeling like I have to go do anything.

                                        Im glad the weather is great for you !!! However, This probably wont happen until next Spring .. What the perfect time of year over there ? Now ??
                                        Ride it like you stole it....ohhh sh*t

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