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  • Good news from horse's new owner

    Just a reminder that your horse's old owner might want to hear from you! I sold my great horse Blue (COTH namesake) who was about ready to have a quieter life, when he was 15. We had done a lot together in 7 years, and it was sad not to have Mr. Reliable around after that.

    However, his new owner is great in that she does everything she can to keep him happy (and he does for her too), and keeps me updated.

    She called me this morning and said, "Can you believe he is 20 now? I still ride him 4 days a week and we have such a great time together. I can tell he just really likes going out riding with me." Then she went into details of how she makes sure he's keeping weight on and what kind of interesting sights they'd taken in lately on the trails.

    She is worried that he is slowing down more now, and is interested in starting to ride a second horse so she can keep jumping a lot (she really got jumping with my horse and just loves it).

    She has a very nice farm where they get retired once they aren't comfortable any more, but he probably has at least a couple years of trails left.

    He couldn't have landed in a better place!
    Blugal

    You never know what kind of obsessive compulsive crazy person you are until another person imitates your behaviour at a three-day. --Gry2Yng

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    Yay! Good news for him, and what a relief for you.
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    • #3
      Aren't those the best! There is nothing that makes me happier than news of former horses. Glad your boy has found a great owner.
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      • #4
        Isn't it great I get regular updates from one of my old horses new Mom - she sends me through links to articles and pics, I love it He's 10 now, she's had him for five years and he is in his forever home. She knows if things ever go pear shaped he can come here, whether I buy him or he just comes to live with us for a while.

        I also get regular updates on one other horse that I sold who almost got sold into a bad situation except his Mom at the time who had bought him from me did a bit of checking and pulled out of the sale once she realised he wasn't going to the sort of home they said it would be, she didn't elaborate and I didn't ask but he too is now in a forever home. Again his family know he can always come here if he needs somewhere.

        Life is good!
        Watch this space...

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        • #5
          thats great to hear! I'm glad to hear there are other people out there who keep their horses former owner involved or updated on the horse with an owner change
          I frequently update my OTTB's former owner (who is our trainer at the track, so I happen to see her quite a bit haha) and take her pictures of him whenever I get them. She's actually shown other potential-OTTB-adopters our pictures and told them our "success story" if they are uncertain about adopting their first one.
          She's planning to come to a few of our shows if she can get away from the track in time to see us go, and I've invited her to come trail riding (so she could ride him again )

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          • #6
            I think it's nice to keep a previous owner informed.
            I bought my WB in 2003 and have been updating his previous owner twice or three times a year. He really appreciates those updates & pics, coz it was heartbreaking to him to see him go.

            I know if I were to sell I'd love to know how the horse goes.

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            • #7
              I exchange Christmas cards with my horse's previous owner and add anywhere from a few lines of update to a couple of pages, depending on what the past year has been like.

              Right now for my boy I have a retired companion horse whose owner lives about 30 minutes away and gets out to visit maybe once or twice/month. We keep in touch through emails mostly and I give her updates on her boy. I give him free board in exchange for the companionship role he serves and she picks up all vet and farrier bills. She chuckles at the updates and knows he's well cared for.
              Sue

              I'm not saying let's go kill all the stupid people...I'm just saying let's remove all the warning labels and let the problem sort itself out.

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              • #8
                Listen to this story that went down today along these lines. An old boarding buddy of mine used to own this older SWB, a big gentle giant who took care of her and she was not the best rider and not a spring chicken at the time. Anyway, she ended up moving a few hours north and during this time her husband's health really deteriorated and she made a hard decision to find another home for her gelding. She asked me to make a few calls and I was able to find a great situation for her where a high school student was looking for a big horse to ride and learn dressage on and did not have a lot of money to spend but would take care of him really well and the owner of the property assured her he would always have a home there.
                During these past two years, hubby's health improved and he wanted her to get another horse. She did but after a year and a half, horse started bolting and after several broken bones, she found a more suitable home for him. So broken bones heal and she is missing horses in her life, has a few trials with a horse or two but ends up not being the right horse. Today one of our mutual friends who I speak to frequently calls me and says she sees an ad in Craig's List that sounds like Carol's horse and they are looking for a half lease because owner is starting college. Gave Carol the number and sure enough it is her horse and the girl is thrilled to be able to send him back to her to live out the rest of his life taking care of her again. He is probably about 25 by now but apparently is still able to do most of the 4th level work, although she is looking just to walk-trot around and enjoy him again. Talk about a happy ending. It all happens for a reason. Boy the tears are going to be flowing when he arrives at her barn this Wednesday!!

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                • #9
                  My 35 year old was owned by a local trainer. He was a bit over the knee when I got him.. He is the most wonderful horse. Every time I see the trainer at a show I remind her of what a great horse he has been. I rode him until he was 27. I think the trainer thought he wouldn't last very long when she sold him to me and was amazed when she saw us showing years after I got him. He could still do single tempi changes when I retired him.

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                  • #10
                    After reading this thread I sent Patrick's former person an email to let her know how he's doing.
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                    Wendy
                    ... and Patrick

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                    • #11
                      I was given a horse last summer by a nice woman who could no longer afford her...She'd been hanging on to this mare for over a year, trying to find the "right" new owner....Anyway, we stayed in touch until the holidays, and I just emailed her a few weeks back to let her know we are starting up riding here again. She was thrilled that I am staying in touch. I figure I owe it that much to her, she gave me a nice little horse, who seems to be a pretty good match for what I want to do.

                      And these days, it's so easy to send a quick email, it could really make a former owner's day!!

                      I've also let her know she can come visit anytime-just call first, as she's 3 hours away, but she hasn't done that yet. She did come here (in August) to sign over the horses' papers, but I think it's still painful for her to see the horse with someone new...

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                      • #12
                        I wound up giving our gelding away late last year...he'd been for sale for a while, but was a bit older and needed maintenance, so no real interest as a sale horse. Wound up giving him to a lovely teenager who loves him - my daughter and I are now friends on Facebook with her and her mother, where they frequently post pics and videos, have emailed us videos and have invited us up to visit. I have to say, although it would have been nice to actually sell him, seeing how well he is doing with his new family is even more valuable!

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                        • #13
                          totally agree - but it is surprising how many people say they are interested in a horse's future life, and then you never hear from them again.
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