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  • #21
    Originally posted by Chaila View Post
    What is this Pepperoni thing? I really have no idea what you're talking about. Kool Aid... Pepperoni? Not much of a junk food person... Seriously WHAT are you talking about?
    Pepperoni: Parelli/NH, but not the good NH.

    Kool-Aid Drinkers: those who have bought into the cult of a particular method/trainer to the point that they're blind to all other methods. Particularly rampant amongst NH adherents.
    "Adulthood? You're playing with ponies. That is, like, every 9 year old girl's dream. Adulthood?? You're rocking the HELL out of grade 6, girl."

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    • #22
      Oooh, tough one.

      How much free time do you have? If you are retired or work part time, I'd probably go with barn 2, for your sanity.

      But since I work full time, I scramble to find enough time for my horse. The 6 mile barn would be my first choice in this case. I currently board 4m from my house and STILL don't have enough time...let alone driving 30 mins! I could put up with pepperonis as long as it was super close and clean.
      Originally posted by barka.lounger
      u get big old crop and bust that nags ass the next time it even slow down.

      we see u in gp ring in no time.

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        #23
        I have thinking on it all morning and I love the closeness of the Pep barn. I would pass by there twice a day on my commute to work. My commute is 40 minutes one way, another 30 minutes would be hard to hack especially in the winter time.

        It all comes down to superlative care vs. kool-aide and the attendant problems that I might have to deal with.

        I believe I will try it on a trial basis though and hope for the best. There really are no other barns within driving distance that are safe (saw some with falling down electric hi-tensile fences, skinny horses, implements of destruction lying about, too many horses in too small pastures, and the higher end barns are an hour away in the opposite direction from where I will be living.

        There is one private barn that is 5 minutes away but it is too expensive though it is nicer than either of the other two barns. If I had the money I would board there for sure - but I am simply not up to exchanging work for board at my age. I've done the whole have horses at home and all the chores that go with them and decided if I am to board, I don't want to muck stalls as I know I would end up not riding very much (just like home - lol).

        I work full time at this new job - 8-9 hours per day, so don't want to commit to a part time job to be able to afford board.

        Now I know what the big deal is about regarding finding a place to board..until you go see places, and talk to people - you have no idea there is such a huge gap in what I consider basic care and no care/haphazard care.

        Maybe doing the nicer barn on a trial basis while I take more time to scout out the area would be best. I am sure there are other barns closer, but I didn't have enough time to hunt them down.

        One thing I did like at both barns - all the horses looked extremely well cared for, groomed (even the pasture horses), hooves done, and were playful (windy day, horses were galloping around and were very inquisitive of the "new" person). No dogs running loose and all cleaning utensils, etc. were stored away, pastures were very nice). Stalls were clean, water buckets full (middle of day at one place, around 4 pm at the other), horses had lots of hay in their stalls.

        Since I was riding from place to place, I called right before I got to each one to let them know I was coming..so what I saw was what it probably is every day.

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        • #24
          Definitely pick #1. You cannot beat being close to the barn. I boarded 30-45 mins away from my home for years and am finally at a barn 10 mins from my house. It is AWESOME.

          Good horse care is good horse care, regardless of who is providing it. Your horse will be fine even if he is surrounded by the pungent smell of Pepperoni all day long.

          Practice saying "bless your heart" a lot before you move.

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          • #25
            I would go for the knowledgeable horseperson - because what is primary is care. What if you get sick, have to go out of town, weather precludes, etc.? You want to know that if your horse gets a stone bruise, strains a tendon, gets a cut, whatever - that the person on the premises can deal if you are not there.

            My horse is 42 miles away. But he gets 24/7 turnout, there is a fabulous trainer, the quality of care is phenomenal. Are there places closer in? Absolutely. Are there places with more and nicer amenities? Absolutely. Will that make my horse safer and happier? NO.
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            • #26
              OP, I think it's the right choice to start out at barn 1 and then see if there are any better options. It's soooo not worth messing with your quality of life (via a long commute to the barn etc) simply to avoid a group of people who hold a particular training belief. For all you know, they'll leave you alone; after all, what's the worst they could do to *your* horse- it's Parelli, not a mandatory branding session.

              I also wouldn't want my mare out with a bunch of grumpy broodmares, and then imagine trying to catch her if you come at a time when she's out? I can imagine she'd get herdbound pretty easily...

              Barn 1 all the way (at least in the beginning)!
              The wind of heaven is that which blows between a horse's ears. ~ Arabian Proverb

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              • #27
                I'd go barn #1 for now. See how it goes.

                You never said the care was anything but good at barn #1, right? And with the indoor, they probably have lights too, right?

                With your job, you have to be pragmatic sometimes about how to manage the little time you have left over. That drive time is going to kill you, trust me, been doing it for 40 years. Closer is better even if there is a trade off...long as it is not in basic care.

                You may like Mr Expert Horseman better but it's about finding a place your horse can live with good care, not whether you like the person running it as a friend.

                Give it a try and just keep to yourself. It may work fine...or you can find another place you can ride year round after work close by.

                Meanwhile, we COTHers can channel our energy into majikal kohlarabi stick retardent rays and send them your direction. Or wear your Tidy Rabbit tinfoil hat.
                When opportunity knocks it's wearing overalls and looks like work.

                The horse world. Two people. Three opinions.

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                • #28
                  Originally posted by sidepasser View Post
                  I KNOW that Tyr would be taken care of and looked after.
                  If you do not have the same level of comfort in the horsemanship and care at Barn 1, then this is the determining factor IMO.
                  I take incredible comfort in the fact that, because of my work schedule and distance to the barn (40 minutes), even if I cannot get out there,I do not have to worry about the care my horses are getting because I completely trust the people that take care of them. I did not have that level of comfort at the last place and the amount of stress it caused me was incredible (it was not bad care per se, which is why I was there, but I did not have the same level of comfort that they were taken care of just as well as they would be by me if I were unavailable- which is what I have now).
                  If you do have the same level of confidence in care at Barn 1, then it may be worth the pepperonis for the closeness
                  There is something about the outside of a horse that is good for the inside of a man.(Churchill)

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                  • #29
                    I would go with barn #1. I would hate that much of a drive if work is 40mins in the other direction. That is a lot of driving time. You will grow to resent that!

                    I like individual turnout. I like that only one person would be handling your horse.

                    If they don't like lunging a horse, tell them you are play the circling game for 20mins at a time! LOL....each direction....LOL. It is none of their business what you do with your horse. It is none of your business what they do with theirs! (I am not saying this to be mean. It is just that y'all may not see eye to eye. That is ok as long at it doesn't interfere with your horse!)

                    As long as no one touches your horse besides the owner, I would go with #1. All the way.

                    If you don't like the barn after a month or two, find something a little closer that is a compromise between the two. I am sure you can find a private facility that meets your needs.
                    Life is too short to argue with a mare! Just don't engage! It is much easier that way!

                    Have fun, be safe, and let the mare think it is her idea!

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                    • #30
                      Choose the place that offers the most of what you want.

                      Don't expect *them* to change - they won't

                      If you go to Barn 1 assume you will be hearing a lot about how PP can change your life... if that bugs you don't go there.

                      If you go to Barn 2, assume you won't be able to do much more than walk around the small indoor in really bad weather

                      I always laugh when I hear about how far barns are - Just about everybody I know in NJ has to drive 30 min to get to the barn. However adding that to a 40 min commute changes the story a lot

                      Good luck with whatever you choose.

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                      • #31
                        boarding woes

                        Well, I'll chime in with a vote for the environment. The more environmentally friendly option is to choose the closer barn. If it's an hour round trip, that's a bit more than 15 DAYS A YEAR spent driving back and forth to the barn. (If you went 7 days/week.)

                        Anyway, a single friend of mine (no kids, no spouse, just job and the horse) just move her animal from a barn 10 minutes away to one a bit more than 30 minutes away. With a couple of hours (each way, I think) commuting time to work I think she's now (perhaps) regretting moving the horse farther.

                        Anyway, commuting is BAD for you. Bad for the environment. Buck up and tell the PP crowd to 'bite it' if they bug you. I'm a hardass, so I've got no problems telling folks to buzz off. You're paying money to board there, you don't owe anyone a 'hearing' on their opinions of how you could do SOOOO much better with the PP way.

                        Show up at the barn in tall boots, carrying a big 'ol dressage whip. Hunt cap. Ride in side reins. Use a flash. Whatever. The potential for entertainment is endless really....
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                        • #32
                          Go with barn #1 and make it clear PP is not your thing and maintain that distance. don't ask them what they are doing. Just do your thing. Haul down here to bham and take lessons with my gal

                          If it doesn't work #2 isn't going anywhere...

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