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  • #41
    The worst experience that I had in 30 years of boarding:
    I try to submit important notes to BOs in writing, so I attached a note that my horse needs a stall with a paddock and not to put her to the dark box stall since she is known to get very upset in the closed spaces = if so, I'll have to find another barn. What do you know? After 2 years of boarding at that barn with out any complaints/confrontations from me or from BO, I come back from a business trip and see a message on my home phone that my mare was moved by the barn stuff to the box stall, and a day or 2 later she coliked.

    Do you think that BO cared? Not at all. They said that it was lucky that she was in the box stall, in a busier barn and that somebody noticed her coliking. The vet however said that it's more than a coincidence that she coliked for the very first time right after she got moved to the box stall that she didn't like. My mare spend 3 days in the equine hospital on IV and I moved her to the new barn to the large stall with the paddock, right from the hospital as per advice of my vet.

    I don't see how BO had owners or horse's best interest in this case. No, it was a business decision, b/c there was a new trainer moving to the barn and she wanted only stalls with paddocks. So a handful of horses got moved from their stalls with paddocks to the box stalls to accommodate a new trainer moving in. All of those owners were very upset and most move out with bitter taste in their mouths. and BO? She could care less; she had new boarders come in.

    I came back to town already after several others tried to reason with the BO and it made no difference. So looking at their miserable experience of cold shoulders, BO avoidance, dragon-lady stares, whispers behind their backs, or even screaming matches with BO after being loyal and good boarders for many years = I just gave a written notice and moved out ASAP. BO didn't care that a handful of her boarders were leaving b/c of those box stalls, so there was no point in reasoning.

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    • #42
      Well, maybe I'm not the owner for someone like Woody.

      I bred my horse and in the 17 years I have owned him, I'd say the number of vet or shoeing appointments I did not attend is under 20.

      I know what he eats, what he weighs, the entire history of his vaccinations, worming, dentistry. I can bring any of his radiographs along to whatever new vet or farrier might want them. I can tell you about every ding and how it was acquired, every lameness exam, diagnosis and treatment this horse has ever had.

      I know how much he tends to drink in a 24 hour period, winter or summer, where he usually will pee in a stall and how much. I can tell BOs what kind of horse he'll be in a herd-- and this has changed as he has aged.

      Because I have just the one and have done all the work from on the ground to riding and training, I can spot small problems because I have a really thorough "baseline" sense of this horse. I know what his hooves, back, musculature and stance looked like at 5 at 10 at 12 at 16.

      I'm all for learning how to do a better job with managing this horse or learning more about taking care of all of them. If the BO can do a better job than I can, then my hat is off to them and I'll be first in line to give credit and ask for help and advice.

      But I'm not wiling to accept that I categorically do a bad job because I don't currently live on the farm where my horse does. I also think that what I notice is wrong with my horse is not so much a reflection of my whims, but the result of a brewing problem I can see before someone else would. Yes, a vet may have to break the tie for us, but by then the problem is much larger. I have never seen a BO say "You know what? You were right, my bad" nor have I asked.

      As I see it, the horse-care buck ultimately stops with me, the owner. I want to be involved with my horse's care for this reason. I also accept full responsibility choosing his boarding situation. I mentioned the issue of vet bills caused in part by a failure on the barn's part because I agree that those costs go into the "sh!t happens during horse ownership" category. I have never asked for this compensation.

      But to restate the point of my original post, it's hard to square "Get out of my way because you have turned over your horse to me" with "And I will not be responsible for failures on my part" this convention of boarding world sends. It makes it hard for owners, who know full well the difficulty and gravity of choosing a boarding barn, to rest easy with that decision.
      The armchair saddler
      Politically Pro-Cat

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      • #43
        Wow... this thread again makes me happy that I am neither a BO or boarder, but just a small backyard owner.

        But I think both sides have valid points. I have seen beautiful facilities that have a constant revolving door - there must be a reason for that. It may be that all of the BO's time/energery/resouces go into the facility and not the care. Or that they're just fruitbatting crazy and owners move out as soon as they are there long enough to realize the BO/BM is fruitbatting crazy.

        But I have also seen boarders who just can't be happy no matter where they go. I had a trainer like that. In the 2 years I worked with him he and one of his clients moved barns 5 times! Basically, because no matter where they go , they can't keep their troublemaking, gossiping mouths shut. He is a good horse trainer, but he and his #1 client eventually alienate everyone in the barn. His clients come and go as well, except for the one. A match made in hell.

        If I had to board, I'd look for a facility that gives the amount of feed/hay/turnout and bedding that I think my boys need, with an experienced knowledgable barn owner who doesn't drink excessively or beat the horses. I could care less if they're in the running for Ms. Congeniality. If we have a difference of opinion regarding care, then it would be a judgement call on my part as to whether it was somthing I could live with.

        Bottom line... owners and BO's don't have to be best buddies or even like each other, but they do need to treat each other with respect and give each other credit for putting the horse first, even when they disagree. I'd put a lot of value on anything a knowledgeable BO has to say regarding the care of my horse, but as I'm a hands on owner who's taken good care of my boys on my own for 12 years, I'd expect the same from them in return.
        Lowly Farm Hand with Delusions of Barn Biddieom.
        Witherun Farm
        http://witherun-farm.blogspot.com/

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