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I third these. Once you get used to the insertion they work wonderfully. I have had some problems with leakage, but I have REALLY heavy periods (I'm perimenopausal). I have problems with tampons when riding (think string problems) and these are much better. I wear a pad as well (and dark breeches) so I don't worry.
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This makes sense, because magnesium is a muscle relaxant. I take it for my migraines (I stay on it all the time).Originally posted by Aussie_Dog View PostI saw this earlier in the thread, but I'll add that a couple years ago, somebody on another forum suggested taking magnesium (I think that's it, started with an M) a week before your period, and cramps will be MUCH lessened. I keep meaning to try it, but I never remember, or get around to, getting some magnesium. In any case, any regular pain killer taken the day the period starts helps ward off pain. Aleve helps the most, I'm finding these days, but anything will work. If I take it before I feel any pain, then I can keep the dose of the painkiller at a minimum for the next week. However, if I get lazy and I wait to take a painkiller after the pain is starting to hit full force, then I feel like I'm struggling to stay on top of the pain for the next few days.
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Exercise does help. I always feel better and I am convinced it helps speed things along.
Doesn't this always seem to happen at exactly the most inconvenient time? It's like your lady parts conspire against you: "Okay, gang, we're going to mess up vacation/the holidays/expensive clinic for her." In my case I am convinced my uterus and ovaries are bitter that I had a tubal at age 24 (yes, there ARE doctors who will do this upon request! You just have to do some looking) and are punishing me for not letting them make a fetus.
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Amen to that! I have had a few commas, but no real period in 8 years!Originally posted by JollyBadger View PostOne word: Mirena.
LOVE it!! No cramps, no PERIODS even! Best thing ever!
ETA - it used to be that if you are on the pill, you can skip the placebo ones and won't have a period that month. I think. I'm not a doctor and don't play one on TV. I haven't been on the pill for 15 years, either.A proud friend of bar.ka.
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Originally posted by Alterrain View PostWhat happens to you? I am (until today) the only person I knew allergic to acetominophen. And usually random medical professionals tell me I am just "sensitive" to it, not allergic.
The first day I developed a bit of a rash on my throat. I didn't put 2 + 2 together as I felt so ****ty anyway. I woke up the next morning, took a midol and promptly developed a rash all over my chest and throat. Thought it might be something else in the midol so the next day I took regular acetaminophen. Rash was back within the hour and I had difficulty breathing.
I took acetaminophen when I was younger with no problems. I hadn't taken it in maybe 10 years, but was desperate to find something that would touch the cramps as ibuprofen wasn't cutting it and we didn't have any naproxen in the house. I went to the pharmacy to get some naproxen the next day and talked to the pharmacist- he said that very few people are allergic to acetaminophen but he happened to be one of them, and the first symptom he had was a rash on his throat. I have since considered myself allergic and told Doctors as much- they generally ask why I think I'm allergic, I tell them of the increasing reactions, and they don't question it. Not something I or they want to push after the difficulty I had breathing on the third day!free bar.ka and tidy rabbitbar.ka think u al.l. susp.ect
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Haven't read all responses but had to post, as I struggled mightily with this problem -
And I wanted to say, the severity of cramp pain varies WIDELY, something that I didn't realize when I was young, and just thought I was a wimp.
That was until I shattered a bone and the doc asked me to measure the pain on a scale of 1-10, I shrugged and said 2-3. He raised his eyebrows, and I said, compared to cramps as a "10", this is nothing!
I came to realize I had a very high pain tolerance and my monthly cycle pain was beyond what anyone was supposed to be able to walk around bearing.
Anyway, I did the birth control, and the depo, and yes they are great help with the pain BUT
Don't be ignorant of the side effects - the pill & patch are known increased risk factors for high blood pressure and cardiac trouble, and Depo has been shown to suck the calcium out of women's bones causing early osteoporosis.
Not trying to scare anyone, just be informed! If you have no other risk factors, it may make sense to do one of the above.
At my age (mid forties), having cardiac issues and osteoporosis in my family history, I decided the risk factors were too much so it was either surgery, or bear with it until menopause.
Opted for the latter.
It takes 4 ibuprofen (800 mgs) every 4 hours to be able to stand upright (and yes I tried all sorts of other pain drugs, nothing touches it).
I learned not to schedule events or even lessons on those 2-3 days a month, sigh.
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There is a surgery called endometrial ablation that has proven miraculous for a couple of friends of mine. Basically it "burns" out most of the uterine lining - the part that thickens and then sheds out. One friend had it done three years ago and hasn't had a period since. She used to have to take paid time off each month, her cramps were so bad.
Recommended only for women who are done with childbearing.
I can't imagine trying to ride while using a pad on the heavy days. I'd be terrified of leakage, plus the big thick pads would have to affect your seat.
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Actually, (I don't know if this thread took a turn or not) but for the cramps, the best thing is riding. Excercise (or an orgasm) relaxes the muscles.
When I was a teen, the only way to ablate the cramps was to struggle up on my horse and jump a round of jumps. Then, miracle! Cramps all gone.
Sorry about the heavy flow problems. Can't help you with that.Airborne? Oh. Yes, he can take a joke. Once. After that, the joke's on you.
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So happy to report that I met w/my doctor today and she said to pick a time when I can take about four weeks off and she'll pull the 'ole girl right on out of there. Leave the ovaries, take the cervix too. Whew! Between being on the pill now and doing this in the fall/winter, I should only have.. drumroll please... TWO MORE PERIODS IN THE REST OF MY ENTIRE LIFE! WHOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOO!"Kindness is free" ~ Eurofoal
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Truthfully it isn't really that bad. If you ride dressage or western and ride a full seat and don't post, it would probably be pretty bad, but if you ride English and spend a moderate amount of time in a half seat or 2 point, it isn't that bad. I actually kinda like the cushioning because my saddle is really hardOriginally posted by Mara View PostI can't imagine trying to ride while using a pad on the heavy days. I'd be terrified of leakage, plus the big thick pads would have to affect your seat.
. Just make sure you put in a fresh pad right before riding, otherwise things can get... icky.
Different flavors of crazy, but totally NUTS. You know its true. - GreyHunterHorse
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Seriously, the pad technology these days is amazing. They make very thin pads that are extremely absorbant, extra long and "wings" that keep them in place. They will more than handle the few hours you are in the saddle for a lesson. If the Always overnights extra long with wings don't take care of it, you are experiencing abnormally excessive bleeding and should discuss it with a health care professional.
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I no longer have this particular problem but when I did I had the best success by pre-medicationg. I would start popping the pain meds up to three days ahead. Made the first day very manageable. Otherwise, I would spend the first half of Day 1 in agony and vomiting.
Your clinic is obviously over and you survived but just something to keep in mind next time.
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Same exact thing for me! I actually had difficulty breathing immediately, and the throat rash. But usually doctors say, people aren't allergic to that, and then I tell them my symptoms, and they say I meant people aren't USUALLY allergic to that. Nice to know I'm not a freak! ThanksOriginally posted by Rubyfree View Postvery few people are allergic to acetaminophen but he happened to be one of them, and the first symptom he had was a rash on his throat. I have since considered myself allergic and told Doctors as much- they generally ask why I think I'm allergic, I tell them of the increasing reactions, and they don't question it. Not something I or they want to push after the difficulty I had breathing on the third day!
When the boogeyman goes to sleep, he checks the closet for George Morris. -mpsbarnmanager
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When I was younger I had cramps that were debilitating. The best thing I found was a sympathetic gynecologist. SHE prescribed percocet for me, 24 pills/year. Her rational, and I agree with her, was that it was far safer to take one or two pills a month then it was to down dozens of OTC painkillers for a couple days a month.Originally posted by spurstraps View PostBut in the mean time, anyone have any tips?
Usually I only needed half a pill every 8 hours or so for the first day. As long as I stayed a step ahead of the pain I could keep it under control. I usually had a couple of pills left over when I went in for my annual exam.
As I've gotten older I don't need those anymore, naproxen works fine for me now.
My only question is when is this going to stop? I'll be 51 this year and it's still going strong. I had a brief bout of hot flashes and a 4 month period break but old Aunt Flo came back with alarming regularity. It's not fair to have a period, gray hair, pimples, and wrinkles all at the same time.
Due to family history of stroke I'm not a candidate for hormonal treatment and I'd rather not risk surgery as long as I am not experiencing anything unusual. I just want it to go away."Some people are born on third base and go through life thinking they hit a triple” – Barry Switzer
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No men allowed?
Why not - most of us have had to deal with this issue, indirectly (sometimes leading to a near-death experience).
I find that a box of chocolate donuts goes a long way to making it all-better.
But I'm really just chiming because of comments like this, in the "Question for male riders" thread,
http://www.chronofhorse.com/forum/sh...d.php?t=247793
which concerned guys getting their "junk" hammered by a pommel:
It's easy to misunderstand and make light of the opposite sex's issues.Originally posted by Ravencrest_Camp View PostAnyone asking this question is way to focused on their junk.
Seriously, what do you do with them the rest of the time?
When walking down the street, how do you keep them from banging into your leg? Don't you get huge bruises on your inner thigh?... It don't mean a thing if it ain't got that Shwung
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The lone male in my work place occasionally brings in a bag of chocolate covered ginger when he feels things are getting a little..edgy.Originally posted by Mor4ward View PostNo men allowed?
Why not - most of us have had to deal with this issue, indirectly (sometimes leading to a near-death experience).
I find that a box of chocolate donuts goes a long way to making it all-better.
Mind you, physical pain and discomfort are different issue than hormone related emotional ones, hence the request for female assistance I think. However, I'm not going to give any grief to a man who brings chocolate donuts to the women in his life
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I'm really surprised that after four pages of responses, with the wide variety of lifestyles we have on here, that no one has suggested ACUPUNCTURE.
Yes, getting poked with needles when you're already feeling crappy doesn't sound ideal. But IME, the instant relief and the effect it has over time (the more you go, the better you get!) is well worth the momentary discomfort of the poke. The pull of the needles once inserted is almost euphoric for me; every time I go, about 30 seconds after the last needle is inserted I involuntarily heave a giant sigh and fall into a light sleep within about ten minutes. To steal a line from Mellencamp... it hurts so good.
I suppose its more of an ongoing, long-term solution as opposed to the 'pop a pill and get rid of it now' option. I try to avoid medication if possible and while I'm on a BC pill, I'm not totally thrilled about it. I don't even keep pain relievers in the house.
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Yep!Originally posted by JollyBadger View PostOne word: Mirena.
LOVE it!! No cramps, no PERIODS even! Best thing ever!
My time of the month was atrocious, not just because the cramps were horrible but because the...uhm...flow...was horrific.
We did test after test after test and everything came back normal. As I started screeching "Take it all out! Now!" my Dr. suggested Mirena. Two years later, I still have a period but it's nothing compared to what it used to be and the cramps are absolutely manageable.
Now, if menopause would finally kick in I'd be a very happy camper.....
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Best thing I ever did.
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