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  • What Do You Do When...(sorry long) Happy Update!

    What do you do when you've reached your breaking point and you know without a doubt its time to rehome your horse but NO ONE is interested in taking him? Now don't get my wrong, I adore Hennessey, love him with all my heart. But I never intended to keep him. He was bought as a resale project, a step towards the career and life I want to live. Then all my dreams came crashing down. I have posted him twice on here (the first time there was some mild interest but nothing serious) He's young, very easy on the eyes, a easy keeper. Loves kids and baby horses. For the past three years I have done everything in my power to help him become and stay sound. Racking up loads of debt and heartbreak as we went along. He is right now almost just shy of 100% walk/trot sound. He has never taken steps backwards in the healing process and it seems like with each thing we try he just gets better and better! Right now he just needs some fitness and has one more prp injection scheduled(but does have 2 more does to use at any time after this one)...he is so well behaved I have a 5 year old(with help from mom on the ground) doing his spring refitting (he had the winter off)!!! If I had my own place he would never leave but sadly I don't. In reality I do not have a job for him, he wants a kid of his own. And I can't afford, in many senses of the word, to keep him. Things are all coming to head right now, as my other horse (another resale) recently came in from turnout with a swollen limb. He will be fine and Hennessey is doing better than anyone ever imagined he would. But I broke down crying at work yesterday and realized something has to give. I have been trying to rehome Hennessey for nearly three years, using here, sale sites and word of mouth. While everyone who meets him loves him no one wants to take him on. I even offered to pay for his maintenance to a few local therapy barns because I know if they gave him a shot he would work out for them. I just don't know what to do. So I turn to all of you knowledgeable people for advice. Please be kind as my heart is breaking.
    Last edited by 2LeftHooves; Apr. 21, 2010, 02:31 PM. Reason: update
    Proud owner of a member of the Formerly Limping And Still Majestic Equine Society

  • #2
    I don't know what you do in such an unenviable situation. If you are considering donating him than maybe you could approach one of the therapeutic riding programs and offer to let them have him on trial for a couple of weeks to see if he will fit in there.

    I'm sorry you're dealing with this and hope it resolves for you soon.

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    • #3
      I feel for your situation OP, truly. Unfortunately, with the number of young, sane, conformationally correct, SOUND horses out there being given away, nobody wants to take on a horse who's 'almost' 100%, and still needs medication. If you truly can't afford to keep him and are unable to find someone to take him, you have two options: sale at auction, or euthanasia. If you sell him at auction you know where he'll most likely end up. If you euth him, you'll know for a fact how he met his end. Neither situation is ideal, and only you can make the decision of how to divest yourself of this horse. I'm not making any judgement calls; you're in a tough spot and I don't envy you.
      Homeopathy claims water can cure you since it once held medicine. That's like saying you can get sustenance from an empty plate because it once held food.

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      • #4
        We had a lovely palomino gelding boarding here many years ago. As he grew his legs twisted and disfigured from juvenile arthritis. It was a problem that could not be fixed. It was genetic and bad in utero feeding.

        His owner agonized over what to do. Nothing would make him sound again. And at 2 - well that is a long life to live unproductive and in pain. no one would take on the financing responsibility of what would be a 1000 pound high maintenance pet.

        There were no long term studies going on that he would fit. But the owner did not want his life to be a waste. She donated him to University of Wisconsin - Madison. There they put him under, loaded him on the surgical table. Taught the students a VALUABLE lesson on surgical procedure and then increased the anesthesia and he peacefully passed away right on the table.

        His life was given to teach veterinary students so that they could save other horses lives.

        Since then i have repeated that a few times with horses of my own. They become a benefit. They pass on and are n longer in pain or a financial burden to their owner.

        This is not easy to do - it is very hard. but for us it has been what is best. on one hand a lifetime of pain and burden. on the other a benefit that can not be measured in dollars!!!
        "If you don't know where you are going, any road will take you there"

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Woodland View Post
          We had a lovely palomino gelding boarding here many years ago. As he grew his legs twisted and disfigured from juvenile arthritis. It was a problem that could not be fixed. It was genetic and bad in utero feeding.

          His owner agonized over what to do. Nothing would make him sound again. And at 2 - well that is a long life to live unproductive and in pain. no one would take on the financing responsibility of what would be a 1000 pound high maintenance pet.

          There were no long term studies going on that he would fit. But the owner did not want his life to be a waste. She donated him to University of Wisconsin - Madison. There they put him under, loaded him on the surgical table. Taught the students a VALUABLE lesson on surgical procedure and then increased the anesthesia and he peacefully passed away right on the table.

          His life was given to teach veterinary students so that they could save other horses lives.

          Since then i have repeated that a few times with horses of my own. They become a benefit. They pass on and are n longer in pain or a financial burden to their owner.

          This is not easy to do - it is very hard. but for us it has been what is best. on one hand a lifetime of pain and burden. on the other a benefit that can not be measured in dollars!!!
          This, 10000% this.

          Living tissue is SO MUCH DIFFERENT to cut into than cadaver tissue.

          I am forever thankful to Prince, PJ, and Susie and their loving owners who donated them so that I and my classmates could learn not only about their conditions, but also how to do things like arthroscopic knee surgery, plate fractures, etc etc.

          Fun? No. Respectful, somber, and a huge gift to me? Yes.
          Michael: Seems the people who burned me want me for a job.
          Sam: A job? Does it pay?
          Michael: Nah, it's more of a "we'll kill you if you don't do it" type of thing.
          Sam: Oh. I've never liked those.

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          • #6
            Hard as it is, I think Woodland and Grataan have given you your solution.

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              #7
              Thank you for the replies.

              First let me state that he does NOT need any medication, he is serviceably sound. A gram of bute and he is 100%, the injections I have going on(platelet rich plasma) is/was my last ditch attempt to get him as close to 100% as possible without the bute. Done because I love him and I can't "give up" on him. As companion/babysitter he would need absolutely nothing. He is a air fern, must wear shoes, and lives out. He hates not having a job.

              Second he will not EVER go to a auction, I could never live with that.

              Euth has been considered and discussed with my vet but not currently a option as she will not put down a otherwise happy healthy horse.

              Woodland and Grataan, as painful an idea it is I think you guys have given me a good option. I will know what happens to him, not knowing his future would kill me. One I like a lot more than my trainer's idea as with his I will not know what happens to him....

              I am giving myself till the end of May to find him a different option and then will contact my localish vet schools. Its not so much as the actual financial costs of having him (they are a issue) its the additional costs and debt from the other stuff I keep doing because I can't give up. Its the heart break of the past three years. Its the resenting him even though I love him.
              Proud owner of a member of the Formerly Limping And Still Majestic Equine Society

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              • #8
                better start looking for that vet school NOW.

                Many are overloaded and wait listing those who have horses to donate.

                As others have said, when SOUND horses are going for NOTHING ( I get emails all the time wanting to give me Nice Horses with Proven Show Records), your horse's prospects are not that good.

                If your vet won't do this, what does he/she suggest? Because if they don't have a solution, I'd be lookin' for a different vet under those circumstances.

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                  #9
                  Update

                  I had decided to go with the painful option suggested above. But my vet vetoed it informing me that she had tried the same route for some other horses and the hospitals in our area had no interest at all. So at a loss for what to do I continued with fitting him up. I had posted when Henny was still in the walking only phase of his reconditioning from his winter off. When we started trot work he moved out 100% sound and sure footed. I slowly upped his work load and at the begning of the month he was cleared for canter work. He had been cleared for cantering for the last two years but his slight "offness" seemed worse at the canter so all canter had been limited to the point of almost never. He again moved off 100% and sure footed Two days later we had our first lesson in nearly three years! On the 9th he had his third PRP injection (soley because I had a gut feeling it would be beneficial) He returned to work after two days off peppy and forward. He is currently going w-t-c 4/5 days a week for about 45mins to a hour. AND LOVING IT! This will make it much easier to place him. I hope to place him with a family who will love him as much as I do or a summer camp with lots of little girls for him to love on!
                  Proud owner of a member of the Formerly Limping And Still Majestic Equine Society

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                  • #10
                    Jingles that you are now able to find a new & loving home for Henny.
                    Zu Zu Bailey " IT'S A WONDERFUL LIFE ! "

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                      #11
                      Thanks ZuZu! Fingers crossed
                      Proud owner of a member of the Formerly Limping And Still Majestic Equine Society

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                      • #12
                        Make sure you investigate the summer camp and what happens to the horses after summer is over. Good luck, but at least, he now has a much better chance!

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                        • #13
                          One other thing I thought of is a free lease to a 4H or PC kid, hoping said kid will fall in love and beg parents to keep him.
                          Jeanie
                          RIP Sasha, best dog ever, pictured shortly before she died, Death either by euthanasia or natural causes is only the end of the animal inhabiting its body; I believe the spirit lives on.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by FalseImpression View Post
                            Make sure you investigate the summer camp and what happens to the horses after summer is over. Good luck, but at least, he now has a much better chance!
                            My thoughts exactly. And care can vary widely from camp to camp..... IME the TBs, high maintenance types, horses with special needs sometimes don't fare as well. Not trying to be a downer, just a reality.

                            It is clear you love your horse and I'm sure you will find the best possible situation for him. Good luck!
                            We couldn't all be cowboys, so some of us are clowns.

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