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  • I hope that I can be half the human being that my husband is! He is supportive, honest, open and has a tremendous sense of humor and an even better sense of who HE is. He loves me unconditionally, is the best father I've ever seen and he makes me laugh almost every minute of every day. I can't imagine sharing my life with anyone else.

    Am I hopeless romantic? Perhaps.

    If this is torture, chain me to the wall baby!!!
    =*=*=*=*=*=*=*=*=*=*=*=*=*=*=*
    ~Jilltx~

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    • Oh PocketPony! I love the pic of Mr. PP. However, the horse looks blisfully happy..Mr. PP does not.
      <>< Sorrow Looks Back. Worry Looks Around. Faith Looks Up! -- Being negative only makes a difficult journey more difficult. You may be given a cactus, but you don't have to sit on it.

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      • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Chocomare:
        To all you singles who desire to be married, three pieces of sage advice from someone who's lived and learned the hard way:

        _2- Don't settle for second best. _ - If it's not 100% right between you, move on. You won't change him/her. You can hope all you want, it won't do any good. _ <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

        This is SO true. This also reminds me....did anyone see Oprah last night? She had men on that talked about dating and how you know when a man is not interested in you and when to move on. It was very timely with the discussion of this post. Sadly, I've seen too many people settle with someone just because "almost" everything else is there....material things etc.

        I finally met my "soulmate" and we are having a great time....and have been together for 7 years now. Ladies, you should be his #1 priority....and please don't settle for anything less.

        I have thoroughlly enjoyed this thread, by the way

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        • Pocket Pony! Beautiful story! Mr. PP looks a bit tense though (don't want to say I got a chuckle out of that pic but I did). Was that his first time on the horse?

          Chocomare - right on - that was sound and sage advice.

          99% of my female horsey friends have very, very supportive and loving husbands. They have strong and healthy relationships because their wives are out doing their own thing and that "thing" makes them happy. They are very attentive to their husbands and when they have alone time (whether a vacation or just a weekend alone together) it is made more special and meaningful because of the time they spend away from each other (because of work commitments, etc.) Parties at their houses include all the horsey friends as well and we have a great time. Maybe we are an unconventional group but I see relationships that work and it is really nice to be around.

          I also have some friends who are my age or younger (I'm not 40 yet) who have been through 3 husbands! They are not horsey people in the least so you can't blame horses for their failed marriages. My point is that if 2 people do not get along then why blame outside sources (horses or something else?).

          Okay so can some more people post some more pictures!? They are terrific!

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          • My husband is fabulous in so many ways, I don't know where to start!

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            • You guys LOVE Moesha's trash talking GHETTO mouth? Well, that just says it ALL!

              Moesha--shouldn't you be out spray painting your name on a wall someplace instead of writing messages on the Internet?

              By the way, the pictures of your overweight, hairy, chinless hubbies make me want to gag. How DO you wake up next to that every morning? My dogs are looking better and better every second.

              I'm sure this will throw must of you into another tail spin--just remember, you guys got nasty and persoanl with me first. Gotta go--no more time to waste with evil little prima donnas.

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              • Yawn....

                talk about beating a dead horse.

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                • As per your first post sandi...

                  "And if you gals all freak out and think you're going to draw and quarter me, I'll talk your husbands into selling that big, ugly beastie of yours so he can buy me a new Mercedes. Just try me."

                  It looks like youre the one who got personal and insulting first. And it is rather childish on your part to go around justifying your actions because you "didn't start it"

                  Give me a break, you're the one who needs to grow up.

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                  • My husband may never win any Handsome contests according to the world's (or Sandi's) standards but, to me, he is handsome--not just because of how he looks...but because of his Bigger-Than-Texas-Size heart; his tenderness; his gentleness; his never-changing love for me; his patience; his silly sense of humor. It's what makes him David that I love, not just the big, huggable package God put him in. I willingly and gladly wake up to him every morning, touch his fuzzy face and thank the Lord for giving him to me to love.

                    Sorry, I need to go cry now.
                    <>< Sorrow Looks Back. Worry Looks Around. Faith Looks Up! -- Being negative only makes a difficult journey more difficult. You may be given a cactus, but you don't have to sit on it.

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                    • Beauty comes from the inside.

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                      • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Amy:
                        Beauty comes from the inside. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                        Sooo true. Although, I do think my SO is pretty good lookin' on the outside too. But looks fade and its nice to have someone to fade with!

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                        • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by sandi in florida:
                          You guys LOVE Moesha's trash talking GHETTO mouth? Well, that just says it ALL!

                          Moesha--shouldn't you be out spray painting your name on a wall someplace instead of writing messages on the Internet?

                          By the way, the pictures of your overweight, hairy, chinless hubbies make me want to gag. How DO you wake up next to that every morning? My dogs are looking better and better every second. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                          Sandi, what you quite simply don't get is that Moesha has taken it down to your attitude's level. But we all know he exists on another level altogether.

                          But the funny thing is that you let it slip you are a drug rep. Now that got me laughing, because from this side of the healthcare industry, there is no shortage of generalizations about the type of person who enters THAT particular career. More like the running joke. So if you are going to generalize about married folks in general and men in particular, surely you don't mind if we generalize about the floozy aspect of your chosen path in life, now do you?
                          Your crazy is showing. You might want to tuck that back in.

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                          • I think we love Moesha's love of life.
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                            • DMK you are the living best!!!! How true how true. You have made my day! I can't stop laughing. We were just talking about this very thing, reps for drug companies. If there were an icon of one holding ones stomach and laughing, it would be up.

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                              • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR> By the way, the pictures of your overweight, hairy, chinless hubbies make me want to gag. How DO you wake up next to that every morning? <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                Wow, you've got some balls, sweetheart.

                                And Mr. Magnolia is neither fat, hairy or chinless - even gets hit on by gay men.
                                The witchy witch witch of south central NC.

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                                • Quite frankly, I think we all just love Moesha.

                                  DMK as always, I bow to your keen evaluation.

                                  http://community.webshots.com/user/ballyduff
                                  \"If you are going through hell, keep going.\" ~Churchill~

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                                  • Why does sandi from florida know the Moesha episodes so well? Do private jets only get re-runs? Even when I fly a discount airline (that would be to Palm Beach, dahling!) such as JetBlue I get current shows and current events on CNN.

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                                    • Sandi,

                                      You have no idea how wonderful Moesha is. Everyone on this board who knows him knows that he is one of the most kind, generous, loving and fabulous people to grace this earth.

                                      His talent is breathtaking his kindness is beyond compare and his sense of humor is exceptional. The more you try to trash him the worse you are making it for your sorry self.

                                      You on the other hand are one sorry piece of work. Why have you not realized that NO ONE on this board has any respect for ANYTHING you say?

                                      Based on your post's you come off as a slutty, white trash, low life, unkind, can't keep a man that's why you try to trash our men, jealous freek of the week.

                                      Now be gone with you and go cause trouble elsewhere!!!!
                                      \"Horse sense is what a horse has that keeps him from betting on people\"
                                      W.C. Fields
                                      1880 - 1948

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                                      • Before this terrific thread derails into a flaming ball of chaos and gets closed (boo!), I'd like to sing my hubby's praises too.

                                        We got married in September, and our gelding loves him to pieces. They hang out like the dudes they are, as my husband is very game to holding onto the horse in between classes at a show. He's managed not to get stepped on, or even slimed... which is a small miracle.

                                        Here is a pic of my very non-bald, non-fat, adorable husband (oh, and me too) from our wedding a few months ago.

                                        http://www.bendingmoment.com/wedding/pics/dock-veil.jpg

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                                        • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Treat Wench:
                                          Sandi..
                                          Now be gone with you and go cause trouble elsewhere!!!! <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                          I suggest here. I think you'll fit right in.

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