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A Thread About Wonderful Partners and Great Relationships (Human that is)

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  • #81
    <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Pet Psychic:
    You know, I would've thought that Paris Hilton would be able to come up with a better screen name than "Sandi in Florida". <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

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    • #82
      Now, now, Paris is a nice girl. A little dingy, but sweet. Sandi, well Sandi is...

      Sandi- I'm not special b/c I have a ring. I'm just a happily married woman, while you are a happily nonmarried woman. Why are you even in this thread telling us collectively how stupid we are for ever even getting married? Can't you just butt out since you are NOT one of the happily married women on this BB?

      The point of this thread was 'hey, if you have a happy story, please tell it' If you don't have one, then sod off. Now. Please.

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      • #83
        Thanks everyone for sharing...I feel the love. And keep the photos coming. Getting a glimpse into fellow COTHers' lives is a treat, and everyone looks so damn happy! (especially you, SunshineGA)
        "I'm a quitter. I come from a long line of quitters. It's amazing I'm here at all.

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        • #84
          To keep this thread on a happier note: I'll play... I met my hubby by chance too, my muffler on my car was dragging and he offered to crawl under my car in the middle of winter in a business suit to tie it up so I could get home. We eloped 5 years later. I love him to peices and even though he isn't horsey, he totally supports my "habit", listens to my daughter and I ramble on about the great ride we had, and comes to watch us ride all the time. I thank God everyday for being so lucky to have him.
          \"Throw your heart over the fence and your horse will follow\"

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          • #85
            Dumb names? Can't read? OK..first of all Did I say Sandi( named by white trash from some trailer park) is a ho bag with coked up cheeks sleeping with married me? And Can't read? How about you read the many, many invitations to stop using your independence cards on the internet at Kinkos and go back to the section 8 housing where you and your 6 different fathered kids are living with your current F^&* of the week.

            Don't you dare step up to me..I'll knock that sorry A@# of yours to the homart hoochie A@#$ BB you belong on.
            "All life is precious"
            Sophie Scholl

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            • #86
              Oh, Moesha, it IS so your calling to deal with these things, isn't it?

              You go, girl

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              • #87
                It's weird - I don't feel unfree. I'm not trapped.

                I went through a lot of BS to get where I am. And I do blame some of it on the horses - never really dating until I got out of them when I got into college. And I never tolerated the BS. From day one with him, we've never had the BS. Also adding this: I've never been more secure, happier and ... content ... than I ever have been. I feel like I just met him yesterday, but also that I have known him forever.

                And you know, if he wants to flirt casually with a girl, fine. Don't kiss her, don't go home with her, don't get her number. I just don't think he ever does because I get phone calls every five minutes when he's out without me. He's very needy sometimes.

                And since people are sharing pics ...
                Too shy to give y'all my webshots album page

                ok. readding:
                halloween:
                http://www.snapfish.com/viewsharedph...=SYE/otsi=SPIC

                sunset:
                http://www.snapfish.com/viewsharedph...=SYE/otsi=SPIC

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                • #88
                  Oh mypelin,

                  You should give the link again! You two make a cute couple!!

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                  • #89
                    Moesha--SAY WHAT? Sorry, I don't speak "hood". Didn't quite catch that, darlin.

                    I'll let you married gals get back to counting carbs so you don't flatten your horses or lose your hubbies to the trailer park gal in Palm Beach (a place Moesha has OBVIOUSLY never been).

                    Toodles!

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                    • #90
                      Thanks CHJoker.

                      And i still didn't add the webshots album. just two from snapfish. I'm still safe.

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                      • #91
                        Nice try, sandi!

                        Moesha is in rare form!
                        \"Riding a horse is not a gentle hobby, to be picked up and laid down like a game of solitaire. It is a grand passion. It seizes a person whole and, once it has done so, he will have to accept that his life will be radically changed.\" -- Ralph Waldo E

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                        • #92
                          Of course not you fake wannabe...turn the battery on your electronic friend down a notch or too..it might help you save on the elephant sized pad you have to buy. Wouldn't want to ruin the burlap shorts your okie cousin/brother/husband made for you. But I shouldn't be mean..after all the burger stand only gave you a .25 raise last week. Its ok...you can just tell people that the grease in your hair is a new european frangrance eau des pommes frites...the drunks in the double wide next door to you..won't know the difference.


                          Toodles
                          And Sandi you are wrong..I have driven by the trailers park you live in going back and forth from Wellington to South Beach.
                          "All life is precious"
                          Sophie Scholl

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                          • #93
                            sandi, trust me, you don't want to get into it with Moesha. And don't make assumptions about where he has or hasn't been. You'll end up looking awfully stupid.

                            I think it's obvious that the intent of this thread was to share happy stories. It's just as pointless to come on here and denigrate those who ARE happy in their relationships as it would be for someone who thinks owning a horse is stupid to come on this BB and try to convince us of THAT.

                            Can those of you who DON'T have happy relationship stories to share perhaps just NOT POST on this thread? Truly, it's not hard.

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                            • #94
                              Sandi, What are you trying to prove?

                              Why did you feel the need to come on this thread in the first place? You think you're the only one who has witnessed human behaviour at its worst? Guess what? You are not.

                              Have some respect for the rest of the posters here who have been lucky enough to find a good man or woman. Just because you are so blind and unable to find a good man does not mean that you need to come on here and put down women who are in a good relationship.

                              You dont need to come on here and educate us about how people cheat.Hell you can find that out in high school. Doesnt take some business trips to figure that out. Most of the women on here are probably old enough to be your mother. I know most of them are old enough to be mine. These women have much more experience than you do. Probably about about 20-30 years more. Just because you've flown around to places where there have been other men doesnt mean F@CK ALL!

                              Why do you feel the need to talk about how you travel on private jets etc etc? Like we give a sh@T. Just what does flying on airplanes and eating good food mean? Absolutely nothing!

                              You're right having a ring doesnt make us special, but what does is having a partner who loves us unconditionally.

                              Yeah I really need to count my carbs. Im getting so fat. My 128 lbs on my 5'9 frame.

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                              • #95
                                And Moesha, can you please direct your talents in the non-personal-attack direction? You're free to disagree with what Sandi says, but please don't make it personal.

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                                • #96
                                  <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Erin:
                                  And Moesha, can you please direct your talents in the non-personal-attack direction? You're free to disagree with what Sandi says, but please don't make it personal. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                  Oh, but Erin.... pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaase, just this once, since it is SO richly deserved??!?!? PLEASE??!?!
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                                  We move pretty fast for some rabid garden snails.
                                  -PaulaEdwina

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                                  • #97
                                    Okay, I cannot resist. Mine is a KEEPER !! I met him while managing a feed store. he would come in to buy feed for his lone Quarter horse. He was married before and she introduced him to horses. He bought her a farm and built a barn. In 10 months she left him, stories of her leave me with the impression that she wanted the "WEDDING" and not the "MARRIAGE". Let's all face it, no marriage or relation ship is picture perfect, all partners grate on each others nerves once in a while but it is up to the other partner to give when needed and take when needed. Mr. Heart despite all of his faults ( I have mine too) has been the best partner for the last 22 years. We have been married for 19 years.
                                    Now back to my sappy story. He kept bringing in pictures of his horse, the farm, and his dog. He would stay a little longer, yet never ask me out, so I finally asked him out. We have been together ever since.
                                    Together we have suffered with the effects of my years of diabetes, very difficult pregnancy resulting in an extremely premature baby weighing only 2 lbs at birth ( who is now a healthy strapping 16 year old), then kidney failure with the need for dialysis. He trained and we did our own hemo-dialysis treatments at home. This meant that he had to not only work his normal 40 hour week but the extra hours it took to perform the treatments. He had to learn to insert (2)16 gauge needles into the arterial/venous graft in my arm. How many husbands would stick their wife with a needle the size of a 10 penny nail?? The setting up of the machine, the treatment and the disinfecting afterwards took a total of about 6 hours, and that on top of a 10 hour work day, and this was done every other day. All the time living with someone whom he described as "walking dead for two years".
                                    Then I was called for the transplant. I received a pancreas/kidney transplant, that was 6 years ago. He stayed by my side 24/7 for nearly a month. The transplant did make things better but the medications have played havoc with my emotions and yet he has stood by me all the way. He encourages the horses even when I get depressed because I am not as able as I used to be. Those that have followed my posts also know that he and Son Heart work on the "one for me, one for you plan" He is like the ever ready bunny, ready to do anything that I want and I turn around and support the things that he is interested in. He has also been a Type 2 diabetic for the last 10 years, yet he presses on. We take care of each other. That is what it is all about. Trust, commitment, unselfishness and willingness to put someone other than yourself first when needed.
                                    So, all you " Sandi's" out there who are so self centered, selfish and think you are "all that", you could come and do a naked lap dance on my hubby lap anytime. Cause I KNOW that he would be flattered but he would see you merely as you really are superficial and a trollop and not someone who is worthy of a lifetime investment.
                                    Yeah, much as I complain about the little annoyances, I have got it good and never intend to take it for granted. Oh, I have my horses, can just about buy anything I want( but I don't since is only possessions anyway) and I do not have to work either. Yeah, I revel in my freedom as well.
                                    BTW, I have had the priviledge to travel in Europe, Asia, Africa and the South Pacific and led the jet setters life too. I have worked on the show circuit and witnessed the type of liasons that you describe. Sad as it is, I feel it is a case of the lack of self-respect.
                                    If you do not think enough of yourself, how do you think that millionaire, that can provide that cushie life you are looking for will feel about you getting hold of his millions???
                                    "With courage you will dare to take risks, have the strength to be compassionate, and the wisdom to be humble. Courage is the foundation of integrity. "
                                    ...Keshavan Nair

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                                    • #98
                                      Since someone has labeled the posters in this forum as 'married gals,' I wanted to clarify something: I don't even have (or need, for that matter) a ring, but that means diddly-poo. Finding a guy that would tolerate me and my quirks was paramount, and lo...found him at work 8 years ago! Lucky me! Now I have someone to experience life with, and that's what matters to me. So don't pee on my little red wagon, Sandi And keep those carbs coming...I need all I can get to keep this 6-foot body working at peak efficiency.
                                      "I'm a quitter. I come from a long line of quitters. It's amazing I'm here at all.

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                                      • #99
                                        <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by sandi in florida:
                                        ....
                                        I'm sorry if I sound bitter to you gals...
                                        <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                        Bitter? No. Pathetic and sad, yes.

                                        (I know, I know Fessy's Mom...you were right three pages ago...but maybe it's my 'bad' marriage that causes me to comment )

                                        ANYWAY, everyone's pictures wanted me to share some of ours! As I've posted many times before, Mr. S is terrific. We both put a lot into our relationship and we get a lot back out as a result. But he's moved with me several times for the benefit of the horses and built or repaired countless stalls, run-in sheds and even a small barn, miles of fencing and stood out in the pooring rain, ice, sleet, snow, and ankle deep mud on several occasions tending to sick or injured horses (not to mention the various other down and out creatures that 'follow me home' on a regular basis), all while taking care of our home. He helped pick out the trailer and now maintains it, attends all my horse shows, holds horses, polishes boots, cleans the trailer, and takes tons of pictures. Naturally I support his hobbies too but they aren't nearly as time and resource intensive as any of my afflictions. So here's a silly picture of us trying to take our own photograph leaving for vacation not too long ago.

                                        We've been together 10 years, this year.
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                                        • But this is really one of my favorites...my two boys having a moment
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