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VENT - WHY is it so hard to find good help?!?!?

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  • I am not going to PT or use an alias, so this will probably be my last post for reasons that will become clear. You certainly have a penchant for attacking folks when they're down, and this wasn't even your war. Just a place to come and senselessly cause pain. I've tried all my life to fight the good fight. Most of you hunter jumper folks know me. I've been around since dirt. I was blessed with great horsemen and horses to teach me along the way, and a measure of success when at the top of my game. I try to remain professional but compassionate on this little farm of mine. The pensioners and financially disadvanteged, oh hell, poor kids, recieve the same attention as the fancy green prospects and AA riders. My clothes come from GoodWill, and I'll forego a nice horse show if the money is needed for my prairie dog rescue, or a big vet bill for the old mare. The battles I chose aren't picked flippantly..and I am sincere in my beliefs. I also try to bring a sense of grace and humour to it all..God help me. [Just a turn of phrase! Nothing against the Atheists]. ...and I want to thank all the great folks here who've done the same.

    Today my best old friend Fatty Pearl [a prairie dog] is going to Rainbow Bridge..so I was shakey anyway. This is a family farm, and my mother just called and has decided my beautiful father, who, without understanding it, supported my horse show career with everthing he had all my life, will be taken by ambulance to Hospice this afternoon. This is the man that instilled in me the characteristics you take such joy in denigrating. Please just leave me alone and be a monster elsewhere.
    http://community.webshots.com/user/racetb

    *Save The Prairie Dog*
    \"Jean Louise, stand up. Your father\'s passing.\"

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    • My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your dad and Fatty Pearl today, Racetb.

      I came back to this thread to ask for a dinner invitation but I think I should maybe bring you a casserole and a nice half gallon of ice cream...
      Shall I tell you what I find beautiful about you? You are at your very best when things are worst.
      Starman

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      • No JoZ...Gin will still be fine! I refrained from a couple if choice adjectives, so my assumption that I'd be banned may have been premature. I'm just feeling so distraught and didn't need any more ugliness. This too shall pass. Fatty's here in my arms..and I know my Father will be at peace soon. To all the PINKO POSSE gang, a million thanks for the PTs and good thoughts. Get out those CMF pumps and old Che Guevara tee shirts..let's get crackin'. Attached a picture of handsome Dad in WWII
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        *Save The Prairie Dog*
        \"Jean Louise, stand up. Your father\'s passing.\"

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        • What on earth is immature about getting fired up about the topic of racism? Nothing would ever get done if nobody got all fired up about it, and I don't see a damn thing wrong with it.
          Somewhere in the world, Jason Miraz is Goodling himself and wondering why "the chronicle of the horse" is a top hit. CaitlinAndTheBay

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          • .....and Candle has a seat of honour at dinner! These are the questions that scream through my mind when I read these accusations, but I am sometimes rendered mute and inarticulate in the face of it all. Thank you for the voice of reason.
            http://community.webshots.com/user/racetb

            *Save The Prairie Dog*
            \"Jean Louise, stand up. Your father\'s passing.\"

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            • Racetb - my heart cries for you on this day I don't think you have any need to explain yourself or your posts to anybody. Your posts were honest, articulate, and passionate. Without passion, this world would be a sad place indeed.

              On a happier note, I will wear fishnets and red spike heels to the soiree. I don't want to feel out of place
              Lapeer ... a small drinking town with a farming problem.
              Proud Closet Canterer!

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              • Oh, Racetb,

                I'm so sorry to hear about your darling dad and dear little Fatty Pearl.

                Though I don't know you, your dad and his influence on you can be inferred from many of your posts that I have read over the last few years. And I haven't just gone back thru your profile and read these things. They are the bits and pieces that have stuck in my mind that form my impression of you (as fellow posters do to identify each other in their heads). Your unbounded generosity and compassion for those less fortunate (animal and human), your sense of humour, your fierce commitment to your many responsibilities (among, I am sure, many other attributes that I don't even know about) stem from the man who is the ideal of a gentleman and a father. I particularly remember you mentioning his reaction to your Irish trainer's comments about your riding abilities and his unstinting support for your strange obsession with the horse that we all share. This all ties in with your feelings of sadness over the little creature you've looked after and loved, Fatty Pearl. You, your life and how you live it are, and will be, ongoing tributes to the kindness and love he so generously gave you. I wish I had been so lucky.....

                Holly

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                • {{{{ HUGS }}}} to you, Racetb!
                  \"Riding a horse is not a gentle hobby, to be picked up and laid down like a game of solitaire. It is a grand passion. It seizes a person whole and, once it has done so, he will have to accept that his life will be radically changed.\" -- Ralph Waldo E

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                  • I knew I joined this crazed forum for a reason!!
                    Thanks for all the lovely sentiment. Holly'er, that's so sweet you remember my father's "whore of a rider" reaction! ...he's actually perked up a bit and eaten a fudgescicle!! Perhaps with a home-care worker he can remain here a bit longer. Bless you all...now get out the stillettos and champagne!..after you clean the poops, that is.
                    http://community.webshots.com/user/racetb

                    *Save The Prairie Dog*
                    \"Jean Louise, stand up. Your father\'s passing.\"

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                    • I think this thread is a perfect example of why it is so hard to find good help. Everyone is either on the internet and/or whining about not making enough money, instead of actually working.

                      racetb, do you actually have a job or is this all you do? Do you even sleep?

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                      • OUCH!!!!!! Jesus H. Chrysler, leave Racetb alone for a day. She has a very ill father, and still manages to show compassion for an unknown worker. Pick on me if you are feeling vile!
                        Save the Nauga\'s

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                        • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by llt:
                          OUCH!!!!!! Jesus H. Chrysler, leave Racetb alone for a day. She has a very ill father, and still manages to show compassion for an unknown worker. Pick on me if you are feeling vile! </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                          EXCUSE ME? That was my first post on this thread and it seems like racetb has been stirring plenty of poo on her own. Know the phrase "If you can't stand the heat..." I noticed once someone let her have it back she started her sermon on "THIS WILL BE MY LAST POST!" Yet strangely it wasn't... Anyhoo, I only browsed through this and for 10 pages I've seen RACETB picking, attacking, jumping, joking, puking and snarking at ESG and the poster that made the "unPC" comment. About every 2 hours throughout the day as a matter of fact. I can see both sides of the issue here but RACETB is acting like a 13 year old. I understand a little humour but come on...10 pages later she is still offended by the "fresh Mexican" remark/joke. BTW, my husband has one of those...not even fresh anymore...and he's the best damn worker he's ever had. Then of course, he's paid REALLY well.

                          ps: That last part was tongue in cheek for all those who might have trouble getting it.

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                          • Hey Racetb...What a tough day you are having!

                            Just wanted to chime in and thank you for your stance. You ARE NOT alone!

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                            • Oh RaceTB the pic of your dad in his uniform brought tears to my eyes..my dad was a WW2 veteren too..he left us 2 months ago...my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time..and as to this topic..all I can say is...Do unto others as you would have them do unto you..

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                              • Man, racetb, what a rough week. I think your dad has the right idea, though - we should have fudgsicles at the dinner party!

                                In all seriousness, though, I'm jingling for you.
                                "A canter is a cure for every evil." -Benjamin Disraeli

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                                • I will add that I missed the part about racetb's father. I'm very sorry to hear that he is not well. Doesn't change my opinion on this thread but for what its worth, I am sorry.

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                                  • I actually walked out on a job last week, after listening to a very racist conversation. When I heard the phrase: 'he niggered it up' in reference to someone trying to repair a robot, that was it, I couldn't work with people like that. Management didn't seem to find anything wrong with it.
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                                    Hugs to you, racetb.
                                    LESS HARD WORK, MORE FINE DINING!™
                                    complicate, obfuscate, prevaricate.

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                                    • Handsome dad, Racetb. Hugs for all... and it's NICE to see that something smaller than a Jack Russell Terrier gets some attention in this world, too. I took three hamsters (my most "transportable" pets at the time) to an animal seminar, and people would ONLY look at the horses. They're "people", too...

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                                      • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by BelladonnaLily:
                                        but come on...10 pages later she is still offended by the "fresh Mexican" remark/joke. . </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                        well, 10 pages later I'm still offended by it.

                                        and by your following comment also, but let's not muddy the waters.
                                        Nina's Story
                                        Epona Comm on FB

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                                        • When I'm done with singlehandedly caring for 65 animals [most with special needs], 8 horses in training, 9 clients, 2 households, my husband's company's paperwork and pd rescue, tonight..I'll fill you in on my day. OR, I may stick in those adjectives I withheld earlier and it WILL be my last post. Dear Christ, what did I DO to deserve this evil bile??!! ..and to note the times of my posts so you could monitor my use of the computer and denegrate me? Scary. To my friends, Fatty Pearl is happy and whole again at Rainbow Bridge..thank you all so much..she was abused and nameless when she arrived here at Ripton over a decade ago, and won all our hearts. Pic attached
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                                          http://community.webshots.com/user/racetb

                                          *Save The Prairie Dog*
                                          \"Jean Louise, stand up. Your father\'s passing.\"

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