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RIP my first pony

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  • RIP my first pony

    Just got off the phone with my dad. My very first pony was put down this afternoon. I just wrote about her last night as how she made me never want to buy a pony for my children.

    Ponycakes was a welsh/arab cross she was home bred by my parents their arabian stallion and by a friends welsh pony mare. My dad taught her to drive So he and I did that with her until she was old enough to ride. When she was old enough to ride dad also trained her for that. She had your typical pony attitude. I took many trips under trees with her for me to end up on the ground and her running away. When I was 10ish she somehow Knocked me to the ground while I was leading her and I ended up under her I ended up with horse shoe prints on my face.

    She was the one who evertime you did anything with her she'd make sure to step on your foot and rest all her weight on that side. She was not always bad and she did nothing that seemed to be mean/wanting to kill you. She taught me so much but yet thinking of all that she did I sometimes wonder why I still enjoy horses so much. We could hook up sleds to her in the winter and she would pull us all over the trails. I remember years of getting our christmas trees with her dragging them out of the woods. She took me all over the trails during my childhood. She had that go go attitude that I still love of the arabians today.

    Today during feeding she would not even get up to eat. When my parents went back out she was out flat and just not wanting to do anything. We all knew the day was coming as she was lying down much more had little to no spirit left in her eyes. So my parents decided that this was her way of giving up and that it was time. Even the last time I was at my parents house I could see that spirited pony that I knew growing up was no longer in there.

    So RIP Ponycakes my very first love for horses.

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    Awww...

    My first mount was that same combination of do-anything, but also not miss a chance to brush you off on a branch, or step on you...

    Godspeed to what sounds like a great pony who lived a long and well loved life...

    InnisFailte Pinto Sporthorses & Coloured Cobs
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Bits are like cats, what's one more? (Petstorejunkie)

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    • #3
      Hugs from VA for you and your family.
      stained glass groupie
      www.equiglas.com

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      • #4
        So sorry for your loss.
        If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude.
        ~ Maya Angelou

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        • #5
          the ones who gave it all from childhood, who taught all the lessons without being 'bombproof', who while taking care of you, still never missed the opportunity to teach you even more, who let you know, you were sharing with one who had more to give, more to teach..........this one was meant to be 'your' pony, and was always.
          You'll never forget her. You'll know even in years to come, what she brought you to in knowledge and love to continue to share with other equines in your care. She did her job, and you'll forever be changed by her.
          Godspeed Ponycakes. You gave your gifts, without apologies, and they won't be forgotten.
          ayrabz
          "Indecision may or may not be my problem"
          --Jimmy Buffett

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          • #6
            Sounds like she had a full life, and it's great that your family could give her a forever home. Hugs to you and to your Ponycakes.
            I tolerate all kinds of animal idiosyncrasies.
            I've found that I don't tolerate people idiosyncrasies as well. - Casey09

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            • #7
              So sorry for your loss ~ RIP Ponycakes. Thoughts and prayers for all who loved her.
              Zu Zu Bailey " IT'S A WONDERFUL LIFE ! "

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              • #8
                My condolences on your loss.
                Brothers and sisters, I bid you beware
                Of giving your heart to a dog to tear.
                -Rudyard Kipling

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                • #9
                  I'm so sorry, losing your first is hard.

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                  • #10
                    I'm sorry for your loss. I hope your memories of her will soon replace your tears with smiles.
                    There are friends and faces that may be forgotten, but there are horses that never will be. - Andy Adams

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                    • #11
                      *hugs* Godspeed Ponycakes. You've got some amazing company over the bridge this year.

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                      • #12
                        So sorry for your loss. Godspeed, Ponycakes.

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                        • #13
                          I'm so sorry for your loss RIP Ponycakes and hugs to you

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