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  • Love at first sight- when it comes to horses!

    Ok everybody, who here saw their horse for the first time and "KNEW" that they were the "ONE" !? (in person, or in a picture)

    What grabbed you?

    I have just begun my search for a new event prospect and have a few horses lined up to look at next week (at the track and private barns) and i am starting to get excited! I really want to find a true partner this time around, and am praying that i get hit by cupids arrow! (is this even realistic?)

    Stories welcome!!!

  • #2
    So cute - love at first sight.

    I had been leasing a horse and was on the lookout for a new lease when fate intervened and introduced me to Humphrey.

    I got a message from another horse forum with the information on him and I headed up to the rescue to look at him a couple of days later.

    There's no way to explain why I immediately knew he was going to be mine, but I did. It had been raining for a week or so and he was standing in a muddy paddock, looking completely ashamed. He just had this look that said "Get me out of here". I rode him for maybe 5 minutes in a small flat area (they didn't have an actual arena) and hopped off - ready to sign the adoption papers.

    I never had a second thought where with all the other horses I had ever looked at I always left with tons of second thoughts. I didn't even do a PPE on him. I just wanted him home with me and a few weeks later he arrived at the barn and it's been happily ever after since then!

    Through a post on COTH and some kind members I was able to find out his story and show records as a hunter and eq horse in northern california. I'm even in touch with one of his prior owners on facebook now.

    There's no real reasons to explain why I felt so strongly about him. He was underweight, angry, older than I was looking for and couldn't even pick up his left lead. Sometimes you just have that feeling about a horse though - ALWAYS listen to it. This horse is a dream come true for me and I'm so incredibly lucky to have him. We can go from riding challenging eq courses to riding on the trail bareback in a halter and lead rope - I just love that about him.

    On his first day home:

    http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2009-...9/FULLBODY.jpg

    http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2009-3/1337379/FACE.jpg

    And more recent photos:

    http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2009-...ch%20photo.jpg

    http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2009-...9/DSCN5236.JPG

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    • #3
      I fell in love with Sam at first sight... I didn't want a horse for a couple of months yet; didn't really have the money because I was getting married in just a few weeks. Got coaxed into going to look at him by a friend. Wasn't impressed by his pictures she sent me--he was skinny and had bad feet and a dull eye, and a banged tail and roached mane--had just come through auction and a dealer.

      Went to see him and he was standing in a stall gazing out the back window. Overall, he just seemed very sad. Then he turned his head and sniffed me and gave a big sigh and dropped his head while I petted him. He acted like a thirty-year-old rather than a 3- or 4-year-old. My heart started to melt...

      Went for a trail ride on him and anytime something spooked or worried him (he was very very green under saddle, which I didn't realize at the time) he would stop dead and turn his head around and look at me for reassurance. That's when I decided I had to buy him.

      I was going to name him Tristan at first, because he seemed so sad... but I'm glad he didn't, because he turned out to have a totally inquisitive, happy-go-lucky personality once he settled in. I couldn't even imagine selling him... he's my heart horse and I've learned so much from having him.
      "Remain relentlessly cheerful."

      Graphite/Pastel Portraits

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      • #4
        for me, i walked into my friendly neighborhood tack shop one day and there on the counter was a catalog whose cover took my breath away.
        cantering through deep snow was a group of the most beautiful horses i had ever seen.
        blonde manes and tails flying, those haflingers were beyond gorgeous, and i knew i had to have one. this was way before i had access to a computer, so i asked around and read everything i could get my hands on, and within a couple of years had two haffie weanling mares in my barn.
        ten years later and i'm still a huge fan, and find their size, personality and athleticism the best horse for me. sadly i lost one of my mares a few years ago, but her sister is the best, most fun and most willing pony ever, and a total blast to ride.
        Last edited by suz; Dec. 13, 2009, 04:07 PM.

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        • #5
          Yep, I had that love at first sight experience with my current mare.

          I wasn't horse-shopping at the time. I had another gelding I needed to sell first, he was a great guy, but we weren't a good match for each other and after a couple years I decided it was time to find someone different for both of us.

          I was having a rough day- one of those pity-party days! I was coming back from an injury that was taking forever, didn't have anything to ride, etc and I was 'window shopping' on dreamhorse. Just to 'see what was out there' I saw her ad, went to the website of the barn where she was at and watched all her videos and was completely in love. She was 10 hours away, but I knew that if she was the same horse that was described in the ads, I'd be buying her!

          She was everything that had been described, and then some. We did a pre-purchase exam with lots of x-rays and she cleared everything with flying colors! It was just last January that I bought her. Things went amazingly until this fall when she developed a mysterious lameness problem. We're off to see a specialist tomorrow!
          Cascadia- OTTB mare. 04/04-05/10
          If love could have saved you, you would have lived forever

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          • #6
            my horse the one that I have now we took her on a one week trial before we bought her.

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            • #7
              My love affair is no secret and started on COTH a couple of years ago. I'd wistfully drool over pics and stories of another member's big chestnut gelding. Thankfully his owner was more amused than annoyed by my cyberstalking. Eventually I met him in person and it was like re-uniting with a long lost family member. Not long after that, he came to live with me.

              Who wouldn't love this:
              http://good-times.webshots.com/photo...04109739PucpPn

              So often horses do not live up to our expectations or ideas.... Dan was everything and more. Not sure I'll find it again though I do hope so...

              I know you're resting peacefully, big guy.
              We couldn't all be cowboys, so some of us are clowns.

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              • #8
                I have only been in love with 2 horse's, and both were love at first sight, in 1991 I saw a 2 year old gelding that had such a sweet look, I could not do anything but think of him, so I bought him, I had him for 7 years and because of a marriage and no where to put him I sold him as a polo pony to my vet, I still keep in touch with the vet, and the horse is now about 20 years old, I miss him everyday! In 2008 I found a skinny little 2 year old filly, I went home without her the day I saw her, but the very next day I went back and brought her home, I Love her so much, she is my best friend, she is a trouble maker, but I love to see her happy, I would do anything for her, just recently I had decided to give her away if she kept jumping our 5' fence, but we put up hot wire, and so far so good, but it was love at first sight.

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                • #9
                  The pony that fell into my lap a month ago was love at first sight. I was riding in my lesson and I was talking to my instructor about the horse I was selling and she said, "You know, that white pony up there needs a home. Her owner can only afford another month's board." After my lesson I went to the fence of her pasture and gave her some scritches. My instructor, the owner of the barn, and another student were watching me. One of them said, "Go out in the pasture with her, let me get you a carrot." The pony had walked away a bit, but I walked right up to her. She wasn't crazy about getting scritched, but she didn't walk away. When I ran out of carrot I walked back to the fence and she followed me. I knew then we were meant to be. My three onlookers' jaws were all dropped. I didn't know it at the time, but this pony didn't let anyone touch her.

                  How could I have not fallen in love with this face?

                  In this last month we've gone from her barely having had anyone on her back to walking and trotting, steering, stopping and we went on her first trail ride (she acted like she's been doing it for a million years.) I think it's funny that I feel safer on this green broke pony than I did on my highly trained show horse
                  Pam's Pony Place

                  Pam's Pony Ponderings

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                  • #10
                    I was at a stable to look at a lovely Trakehner mare. As I walked in the barn I passed a stall with a grey Trakehner gelding wearing a cribbing strap....I kept walking...I wanted a mare...I didn't want a grey, a gelding and certainly not a cribber.

                    So, I looked at the mare...rode her and another mare. I kept going back to the gelding.

                    Yep, he walked out of the stall and was the one. Then I rode the boy...yep, even better. Then I jumped him...woohoo! big bascule over a 4' stone wall and his mom was the full sister to Abdullah.

                    He was the horse of a lifetime, dead too soon of a colic.
                    "Sic Gorgiamus Allos Subjectatos Nunc"

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                    • #11
                      The stallion that is currently our herd sire was definitely like that for me.

                      On the advice of someone I had bought a pony from previously, I contacted a particular farm in Scotland asking if they had a stallion quality colt for sale. They sent me photos of one.... and he just was not "it". (Though interestingly, he was later purchased by a friend of mine in England and he was fabulous, just not what I wanted at the time.)

                      I wrote back to them thanking them for the photos, and said that he wasn't what I was looking for. I said "I'm not looking for something good, I'm looking for something great!" And they replied with the photos I'm attachng. It took about 1.2 seconds to know I HAD to have him. I couldn't dial the phone fast enough!!!

                      He has been a dream come true. I look at him every day and still have the same <gasp> "That is the most beautiful pony I've EVER seen" response - even after all of this time.

                      He has been phenomenally successful for us, winning 2 National Championships and over 150 championships in the breed ring -- not to mention an absolutely fabulous and unusually prepotent sire.

                      Can you tell I love him?!

                      Below are the two photos I purchased him from.
                      Attached Files
                      Family Partners Welsh Ponies - Home of Section B Welsh stallion *Wedderlie Mardi Gras LOM/AOE http://www.welshponies.com
                      Click here to buy: A Guide To In Hand Showing of Your Welsh Pony

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                      • #12
                        For me, it is when a name pops up as soon as I see the horse. Years ago, I saw a horse at the track, and in my head I thought,"As I live and breathe, I believe that is Doc Holiday!" He just was, and months later he was for sale and I bought him. My present horse I saw as a three month old foal, out of my mare, so I was partners with a friend, and a name popped into my head..." a hah, and you would be Paladin, wouldn't you?" I bought my partner out when he was a three year old, this year, and , ofcourse, that is his name.
                        Last edited by Claudius; Dec. 13, 2009, 08:03 PM.
                        "Over the Hill?? What Hill, Where?? I don't remember any hill!!!" Favorite Tee Shirt

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                        • #13
                          I've had 3 I've fallen in love with at first sight.

                          The first was a little mare I passed on my way through a barn to look at their sale prospects. She was standing at the back of her stall and I clearly remember thinking, 'whoever owns her is sooo lucky.' None of the sale prospects were what I was looking for so the barn owner told me, 'well, I do have a horse here on consignment....' and damn if she didn't take me back to the mare. It was raining that day so I didn't ride her, and I bought her anyway. She was one of the best horses I have ever had and to this day I deeply regret selling her.

                          The second was my OTTB mare. I saw her for the first time when I stopped in to see a friend and he said, 'come see the horse we have for sale' I fell in love with her, but her price was way more than I could afford and it took me months before they lowered it enough that I could afford her. Luckily for me she wasn't working out in their lesson/sale string. I kept looking at other horses and then stopping in to see 'my' mare and drooling. She was truly my heart horse and she stayed with me until the day she died.

                          My third is one I found as a youngster. Again I had to wait for his price to come down, but he is my second heart horse and he will be with me until death do us part.

                          Sometimes you just know and some strange power manages to put you together. After selling my first love I learned a valuable lesson and know there are some you just keep.

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                          • #14
                            It was love at 1st sight with my OTTB and even more so the first time I bridled him and he dropped his head so my short self could do it without effort. I knew he was mine forever.

                            The second was not quite 1st site unless ultrasound counts I saw her dam when she was pregnant with her and I said without hesitation I wanted that foal When I actually saw her after foaling, I knew I made the right decision.
                            Epona Farm
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                            • #15
                              Only One....

                              Out of all the horses I've owned the only one that really grabbed me at first site was this one, the moment I saw him canter I KNEW he was the one for us!!!!!

                              And a year later, I can honestly say he's everything I wanted and more!

                              http://good-times.webshots.com/photo...48495570KkBcBy
                              Stoneybrook Farm Afton TN

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                              • #16
                                We needed one more pony horse for the track and a trader brought one for us to try.
                                In the trailer was this little nondescript gelding and I was immediately interested in him.
                                The trader said "you don't want him, he rears badly and almost killed his last owner in the (roping) box, falling over on him, he is still in the hospital".
                                I asked him to let me try him and the little horse went great for me, so we bought him.

                                I used him for our pony horse, to work cattle and he was like a mountain goat in the canyons and never had a single critter outrun him.
                                His only fault was that he had a very rough trot, but I was very young and it didn't matter, we just "loped" more.

                                He loved all, people and horses and was very fond of our stallion, that he adopted and cared for, taking him extra hay flakes when we feed and dropping them in his pen.
                                Guess that he didn't think we fed him enough.

                                Sadly, almost three years later he caught Leptospirosis, it affected his heart and in a few days was dead.

                                There have been a few other horses, some before him, some after.
                                We are lucky if we find those horses and get to share our lives with them.

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                                • #17
                                  Just had one horse that I wanted so badly on just her looks. She just exuded PRESENCE and made you look at her. Not sound, and owner would not price her because she could not be sure horse ever would be sound. Mare was a yearling then, and I told owner that if she decided to get rid of the filly to call me first.

                                  Was several months later, did get the call. Did I still want the filly? Still was lame, unlikely to ever be sound, price was almost nothing. YES!!

                                  Mare did come sound after a few years, extra work. Has been a lovely animal, with the mind, total confidence, to match her beautiful eyes. She was happy to do anything requested, extremely easy to train and live with. We competed her, did family activities with her, have enjoyed her over the years. She has had several foals who all developed into extremely nice individuals. All had her clear air of presence, confidence in selves, are noticed any place they go. People just pick them out of a bunch of horses and come to see them, ask questions.

                                  She is the horse everyone likes best in visiting the farm or when we showed with her. There was always someone, or several someones, standing by her stall looking at her, asking questions. She was just a magnetic attraction!

                                  Still has the lovely eyes, gracious attitude, that welcomes you to visit her! Just the funniest air she wears, that draws people in to visit with her.

                                  Horse was not always sound, WAS always willing to try for you, accepting in some BIZARRE situations, kept us from being killed in competitions in spite of ourselves. Worth the extras needed to keep her going back then.

                                  Only horse I have ever wanted SO BAD, just by looking at her. Didn't care that she was lame, or if she never had come sound. Not the way I usually do things picking pretty face and eyes, so it was odd to choose her. Sometimes I think she chose me too. Still have her after 20+ years, just like LOOKING at her. Retired broodmare status now, but still the most beautiful horse around to me.

                                  Have seen some other horses I considered VERY striking in their beauty or elegance. Enjoyed looking at them a bunch. Just didn't HAVE to have them like this old girl.

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                                  • #18
                                    When I first saw my Dutch gelding, my knees literally buckled, and I couldn't draw a deep breath. I've never seen a man that affected me that way! We were at a 2 day show that had a sport horse auction on Sat. night, and this horse was to be auctioned. So, Saturday night, I drank a beer for my nerves, and bought him. That was 8 years ago, and he has turned out to be more wonderful than I could ever have hoped.

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                                    • #19
                                      Absolutely four times for me !

                                      Absolutely ! Love at first sight * First time was on Christmas Day when I was two years old and I spotted "Bumble Bee" a spotted steiff horse on wheels. Second time ~I was seven ~ I traded my father ~ my broke, dapple gray, shetland pony,"Thunder" when I saw a wild, chestnut and white shetland mare later named "Spice". Third time ~ After long hours of horse shopping ~I knew as soon as they brought him out of the stall that I had found my new show horse, "George". And Fourth time & the most recent - "Zu Zu's Petals" !~ I spotted her in a website photo as a weanling ~~ Zu Zu took my breath away and I knew she would be mine - she was my Christmas present to myself last year 2008 - she is chestnut and white like "SPICE" !!! Couldn't live without her !!! Zu Zu's Petals - from the "It's A Wonderful Life" movie- the petals from Zu Zu Bailey's flower stood for 1. the promise of the future 2. the triumph of the human spirt and 3. the reminder of just How Wonderful Life Really Is !
                                      Last edited by Zu Zu; Dec. 13, 2009, 08:20 PM. Reason: correction
                                      Zu Zu Bailey " IT'S A WONDERFUL LIFE ! "

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                                      • #20
                                        Oh yes, I was a sucker

                                        I was going to a farm where my trainer rode some horses to try a 4 year old Dutch mare. The owner of the breeding farm had not bred this mare and got her really cheap. The mare had not been there long, so the owner had not invested much in her.

                                        I was driving up the loooong field lined driveway and saw a chestnut "yearling" that I decided was going to be mine. As we were walking to look at the Dutch mare, I asked about the chestnut in the front field. It turns out she had just been weaned...very big weanling. She was not for sale. We went into the field and the chestnut came right over to me. I was in love, but I played it cool.

                                        I went to see the Dutch mare. She couldn't be ridden, as she had developed hives. She really wasn't my type. It actually turned out that she had chips in one hock. Obviously I had no idea that she would have bone chips. I just didn't like something about her.

                                        We stopped and looked at my "yearling but really a weanling" once again. I knew she had to be mine. She had fantastic bone, a gorgeous topline, and big ears! When she moved, she was just floating on air.

                                        I made an offer, the breeder accepted, and Rubianna is mine
                                        Beth

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