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  • Poor you, J. Turner.

    It sounds traumatic but maybe it is just the gathering for a big leap. It is so hard to see "big" procedures for these little guys. Still he is a fighter and moving him to the bottle or breast will be great. Many more great snuggling opportunities

    Hope Seamus is feeling better and he doesn't "share" with you.

    Extra jingles for you guys tonight.
    See those flying monkeys? They work for me.

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    • Funny, Jess, you guys have become family...I woke up this morning thinking...Check the Baby....I haven't had one in a crib in 20 years....now you got me wanting to snuggle....
      *************************
      Go, Baby, Go......
      Aefvue Farms Footing Inspector

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      • Jingling like mad for all of you, hugs to seamus for feeling yucky. Praying for you all to get through and have Malcolm home soon so you can allbe together!

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        • Aww, Jess, feel better soon. Going to the Trach may be just what Mr Malcolm needs to give his throat a break from all the intubations.

          I wish you guys had been able to make it up here to Connecticut before Malcolm decided he had to make an appearance in this world. If you were up here I would at least be close enough to give you a hand once in a while.

          Just hand in there and know we are all here thinking of you and trying to send you all the extra support that we can.


          {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Jess & Malcolm}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
          "You are under arrest for operating your mouth under the influence of
          ignorance!" Officer Beck

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          • I'm following this thread and just want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope Seamus feels better soon and you don't get his bug.

            I'm sure Malcolm will take off like a rocket and not look back now that he is more comfortable. Will you be able to breast feed? Have you been pumping? I'm a little confused there.

            The greatest racehorses hang back a bit and wait for the opportune moment to make their move. Maybe that is what Malcolm's plan is.

            Take care of yourself!

            Jingles of my Aiden curb chain for you all.
            "My friends, love is better than anger. Hope is better than fear. Optimism is better than despair. So let us be loving, hopeful and optimistic. And we'll change the world." ~ Jack Layton

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            • Mornin' Handsome...Jess, go BACK to Bed!!! How are the tummies>>
              *************************
              Go, Baby, Go......
              Aefvue Farms Footing Inspector

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              • The trach will be difficult for you to adjust to for a few days, but Malcom can now focus on more important things. This was a big step for both you, and very necessary! You are a bit closer to taking your little guy home than you were before! I read every day to check for updates. My BF and I looked at Malcom's photo album last night and we laughed and smiled so much just looking at that adorable little boy! Thank you for giving me something beautiful to look at at the end of the day

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                • I'm a respiratory therapist, so I deal with this stuff every day. I just saw this thread for the first time, as I don't check in here to often.
                  The trach is a good thing at this point. I cannot believe how many times this baby has extubated himself and been reintubated! I'm actually surprised he was not trached earlier, although he did have to be big enough for the procedure. In addition to all the other positives already mentioned, the trach will make it easier for therapists and nursed to clear all those secretions, which is really important!
                  You have a long road ahead of you Jess, I see parents like you every day. Keep staying positive, and my thoughts are with you and little Malcom.

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                  • c'mon Malcolm!
                    Different Times Equestrian Ventures at Hidden Spring Ranch
                    www.DifferentTimesEquestrianVentures.com

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                    • Hang in there!!! Jess get some rest.

                      I hate to sound stupid but what happens to the hole when they take the trach out?

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                      • Thank God he finally got that awful tube taken out of his little mouth and throat. He must feel so much better! And it sounds like the procedure went very smoothly. I hope you two gets lots of good feeding and snuggling time now!!

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                        • What a roller coaster ride. Hang in there, Jess! It does sound like the trach is the best thing for Malcolm at this time. Hope you and Seamus feel better soon too!

                          {{{{{ HUGS }}}}}
                          \"Riding a horse is not a gentle hobby, to be picked up and laid down like a game of solitaire. It is a grand passion. It seizes a person whole and, once it has done so, he will have to accept that his life will be radically changed.\" -- Ralph Waldo E

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                          • ***JINGLES*** to Malcolm that his trach works out! It does seem like a better choice than intubation, but I am not a medical professional.

                            ***JINGLES*** to Jess and Seamus that you both get over that flu bug without too much trouble.

                            ***JINGLES*** that Mr. Turner doesn't get sick!

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                            • Hi Jess, What a tough night, hope you are getting some rest. Keep your chin up, your little guy is a fighter. As is his Mom!!

                              Hope you and Seamus start feeling better, sending hugs to you and your family.

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                              • 'Morning, baby. Hope everyone slept well. Malcolm, isn't it snacktime?
                                See those flying monkeys? They work for me.

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                                • I'm at work and just had to stop working on these dumb accounting reports and check in on the baby! He feels like family to me! I hope all is going well today. I can't wait for some new pictures!

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                                  • How's the little tiger cub today?
                                    I\'m not crazy. I\'m just a little unwell.

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                                    • Original Poster

                                      Malcolm's doing well ... he does have to go to a CT scan tomorrow for a cystic part of his lung. But he did great on the vent settings today. And we got to move to the penthouse suite! It's a nook, about 10x12, open to the rest of the "pod" in the NICU, but a little more apart and more space. Here are some pics. OH - he also moved to a big boy crib!!!!

                                      1st Day on Trach Morphine bubbles
                                      The penthouse suite
                                      Cuddled in crib
                                      Already happier
                                      Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will. - Gandhi

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                                      • Jess he get even more beautiful everyday...as if that could happen...and he's BIG!!!
                                        *************************
                                        Go, Baby, Go......
                                        Aefvue Farms Footing Inspector

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                                        • Hi Jess, Malcolm is so beautiful - has 'chubby cheeks"! Hope all goes well today, please have a good weekend. Take care of yourself, are you feeling better? Hugs to you, Linneyd

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