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  • i am so sorry for your loss
    please accept my heart felt sympathy.

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    • My heart sank into my toes when I read the new title. I'm so sorry.

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      • Denise, I am so sorry for your loss. It sounded like she was doing better, to have her slip away like that must have been heartbreaking.

        Sincere condolences. {{{{{HUGS}}}}}

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        • Yes, I lost my mom too.

          Hang on, youngfilly, hang on tight. You have alot of people who care about you.

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          • Denise, I am so very, very sorry for your loss, and your Dad's loss.

            What a blessing that you two had those couple of good days after she came out of the coma, and that you were with her at the end.

            In your first post, you shared that you were posting here because this is where you found support. Please know that sometimes, with the distraction of arrangements, setting up funds etc. the days pass quickly and you yourself don't find yourself having to process what has happened to you for a couple of weeks. And sometimes, folks are reluctant to say, "I know it's already been xyz weeks, but I really hurt NOW." If and when that times comes, you just get yourself over <here> and talk and share. We are here for you. A very long, hug and a tear. And Prayers Continue.
            June
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            • Dana Farber Cancer Institute - Make a Gift page

              To save this poor girl the trouble of posting this info.

              My thoughts and prayers are with her and her family.

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              • My deepest condolences and sympathy to you for your terrible loss. I'm glad you could be with her. I know it helped her and comforted her as she went to the other side. God Bless You.

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                • I am so sorry for your loss.
                  My mom has been fighting ovarian cancer for 4 years, and I lost my dad to pancreatic cancer in 2001, I know how much you are hurting.
                  My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
                  Susan

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                  • Denise-

                    I am so sorry for your loss. My family and I send our deepest condolences. I can relate- loosing Alan was a real reality check for me. I never imagined it would be that hard. I have his picture framed right above me (well, above the computer) on the desk because it's where I spend a lot of my day. He "watches over me".

                    Know that you're not alone, we're all with you.
                    May your dear mother rest peacefully...
                    -Beth

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                    • dear Denise, I am so sorry for your loss.. I can only echo what everyone else has said, and especially what June just said... we are here for you.. today, next week, a year from now. take care dear.
                      xo Gail
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                      • Denise,

                        I want to offer my condolences to you and your family. Currently, my "future" mother in law is rapidly deteriorating from her cancer.

                        The last few months have made me think a lot about life-- living and dying. I will hate to loose Ann, but I wish that she doesn't continue to suffer. It is terrible watching someone you love get weaker and weaker. Her cancer is not curable.

                        Last week as I was waiting for Remington & Squall to finish eating, I was kneeling in the run-in with a kitten on each knee and Willow playing with my hair. I watched the darkness slip to night and I realized that no matter what happens...daybreak comes gradually fades to night and they cycle repeats itself. It stops for nothing- not life, not death, not even world events like 9-11.

                        I felt (and feel) truly blessed to be able to spend my life with creatures (and people) that I love. I appreciate this gorgeous place that we live in and truly enjoy life. I also hope that when the time has come for my life to end, that it will be quick and not drag on and cause great suffering. For now, I want to enjoy life to its fullest and enjoy its simple pleasures.

                        Denise, hugs from MD. MKB...

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                        • I am so so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

                          Dana, Les and Skylar

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                          • So sorry about your mother's death. I am glad that you were there with her. Deepest and heartfelt condolences.

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                            • So sorry for your loss. Glad you could be with her at the end, but I know going on without someone you love is not fun to get used to. You've had a rough few weeks, hope you can find some peace and rest soon.

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                              • Original Poster

                                Thank you all for the kind words. This is the address to send it to:

                                In Memory of
                                Kathleen A. Perrotta

                                Dana-Farber Cancer Institute
                                10 Brookline Place West, 6th floor
                                Brookline, MA 02445-7226
                                ATTN: Contribution Services

                                Please also include a note with your check to including my mothers name in honor/memory of her and the name(s) of the person(s) you would like them to notify about your generous gift.

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                                • I am so sorry to hear about your mother. Please know that we are all praying for you.

                                  "Put dat in yer book."
                                  I would like to think I will die an heroic death...

                                  But it's more likely I'll trip over my dog and choke on a spoonful of frosting.

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                                  • I am so sorry. May you find peace.

                                    Rose

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                                    • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by mkbrown:
                                      Last week as I was waiting for Remington & Squall to finish eating, I was kneeling in the run-in with a kitten on each knee and Willow playing with my hair. I watched the darkness slip to night and I realized that no matter what happens...daybreak comes gradually fades to night and they cycle repeats itself. It stops for nothing- not life, not death, not even world events like 9-11.

                                      I felt (and feel) truly blessed to be able to spend my life with creatures (and people) that I love. I appreciate this gorgeous place that we live in and truly enjoy life. I also hope that when the time has come for my life to end, that it will be quick and not drag on and cause great suffering. For now, I want to enjoy life to its fullest and enjoy its simple pleasures. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                      mkbrown, what a beautiful passage you have written here, and so very true.

                                      Denise, I am so, so sorry for your loss. We are all here for you. God bless you.

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                                      • Denise,

                                        I am so very sorry for your loss...

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                                        • I am so sorry for you loss.

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