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My old stable help passed away last nite.

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    #21
    Thank you, everyone for your kind words. Our family was richly blessed to have known Charles, and I will print this out to share with them.

    Although I grieve his loss very much, I take great comfort in knowing he is no longer in pain. His bad leg is healed, he can speak clearly and his mind is whole. The troubles that followed him in this life are no more. I truly feel that God meant for our paths to cross, so that Charles could have a better life here on earth.
    Crayola posse~ orange yellow, official pilot
    Proud owner of "High Flight" & "Shorty"

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    • #22
      Absolutely wonderful eulogy for a gentle soul. RIP Charles. Isn't it just a glorious gift to have known (and appreciated!) someone who is so 'in the moment' - has no huge, unrealistic expectations and who enjoys the beauty of simple things? Aahh, we all could take a lesson from these special few...

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      • #23
        Originally posted by Coreene View Post
        What a moving tribute to a kind and gentle spirit. You were very blessed to have such a dear friend in your life. Thank you so much for sharing Charles with us - your love for him shines. I am so sorry for your loss.
        I can't say it any better than that, but my feelings are the same.
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        a 501(c)3 organization helping 501(c)3 equine rescues

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        • #24
          Your post made me smile! You're both blessed to have known each other.

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          • #25
            Thinking of you in your sorrow. It is examples such as this that help to restore my faith in humankind now and then. Thank you.

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            • #26
              Just Wow. A wonderful tribute to a very special man. How lucky your family was to have known and loved such a true gentleman.

              I'm so sorry for your loss. Yet uplifted by what each side gave to each other.

              God Speed Charles.
              "Aye God, Woodrow..."

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              • #27
                Beautifully written - I was in tears. The blessings flowed both ways between Charles and your family.

                Lori, thank you for adopting John - what a wonderful, wonderful thing! I have so much respect for you and your family.
                In memory of Rebuff (1974-2009)

                Rest in peace, my sweet man

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                • #28
                  A truly moving tribute, and your love for this man shines through every word.

                  My condolences on your loss, but how enriched and blessed all of you were to have known each other.
                  Homeopathy claims water can cure you since it once held medicine. That's like saying you can get sustenance from an empty plate because it once held food.

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                  • #29
                    Godspeed Charles, bless you HuntJumpSC and family.
                    where am I, what day is it, am I still having a good time?

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                    • #30
                      What a moving post, you were ALL lucky to have each other.
                      http://www.blackberryhill.webs.com/

                      Sometimes you have to put your foot down to get a leg up!

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                      • #31
                        Wow.



                        Thank you for restoring my faith in humanity a little today. Thoughts and prayers to your family & Charles'.
                        InnisFailte Pinto Sporthorses & Coloured Cobs
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                        Bits are like cats, what's one more? (Petstorejunkie)

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                        • #32
                          A gem in the rough

                          Charles was just one example of a person who could have been lost to the world without someone giving him a chance in life. There are so many individuals who are diamonds in the rough, there but for the recognition and chance! Sometimes serendipity steps to the fore and wonderful things happen, as they did with you and Charles.

                          Geez, I'm turning into a total mush. I cry easily these days when I read such beautiful and sincere words. Would love to learn more about him.

                          Godspeed gentle soul.

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                          • #33
                            ?

                            I was a little confused by your wording; referring to him as "old stable help" seems a bit degrading to me. I'm about the least politically correct poster on these forums, but I still found that to be an odd choice of words to describe the poor man, esp. after reading the rest of your post.

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                            • #34
                              Bad date

                              Your post had me in tears. My mom died last year on August 9th, from colon cancer. I usually think that I am okay with her being gone, since she isn't suffering anymore, which is the important thing, but this really touched me.

                              I don't think I can really offer you much in the way of comfort except to say that he is with Jesus now, and you can't do any better than to have Him taking care of you.

                              God bless

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                              • #35
                                It makes me feel good-- knowing someone like Charles is now across the Rainbow Bridge, caring for, and waiting to care for all of our beloved horses who have crossed,or will cross. They now have someone taking most excellent care of them.
                                Godspeed Charles.
                                The only difference between a runaway and a fast gallop is nothing but a SMILE
                                Most horses cross the Rainbow Bridge, but TEDDY JUMPED IT!!!
                                Member of the COTH Enabler Clique

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                                • Original Poster

                                  #36
                                  Originally posted by springer View Post
                                  I was a little confused by your wording; referring to him as "old stable help" seems a bit degrading to me. I'm about the least politically correct poster on these forums, but I still found that to be an odd choice of words to describe the poor man, esp. after reading the rest of your post.
                                  Springer~ let me clarify a bit for you. When I said old, I meant former. Yes, he was 71 years old, but I meant that "old" in the sense that he was "retired".
                                  Crayola posse~ orange yellow, official pilot
                                  Proud owner of "High Flight" & "Shorty"

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                                  • #37
                                    Originally posted by HuntJumpSC View Post
                                    Springer~ let me clarify a bit for you. When I said old, I meant former. Yes, he was 71 years old, but I meant that "old" in the sense that he was "retired".
                                    I guess it was the combination of words, not just the "old" part. Maybe it's a southern thing. (Although I am a native Floridian!)
                                    Anyway, I really am sorry for your loss. I just think I would have worded it differently. Maybe, "I just lost an old friend today", rather than "I just lost my "help" today"

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                                    • #38
                                      What a wonderful story about Charles as a member of your family. Thoughts and prayers for his family and your family. RIP Charles - You were loved by many !
                                      Last edited by Zu Zu; Aug. 10, 2009, 08:08 PM. Reason: spelling
                                      Zu Zu Bailey " IT'S A WONDERFUL LIFE ! "

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                                      • #39
                                        HJSC...your post made me reflect on the similar men I have had the opportunity to cross paths with working in barns. It would always touch my heart to see men whose lifes had not been easy, having a tender moment with a big horse (or little pony). Sometimes stroking a cheek softly because they are unsure of how much pressure to use. Beautiful eulogy to a man lucky to walk into your barn.
                                        There are stars in the Southern sky and if ever you decide you should go there is a taste of time sweetened honey.

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                                        • #40
                                          Sorry for your loss!! Happy your paths were able to be crossed!!
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