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  • Nursing & horses

    After everything I've been through with my husband's illness and now having to face caring for my horses and my son on pretty much one income (he has a small retirement which gives us health insurance & there is some social security), I'm considering a career change. I'd love if I could stay home (had a post on that a few days ago), but also looking into the reality that that might not be feasible. I'm trying to think things through and rationally look into all of my options.

    The nurses that I encountered really moved me... so compassionate, caring, & professional.

    Between caring for horse injuries & taking care of my husband, I feel like nursing is something that I'd enjoy and maybe even gained some practical experience from the horses.

    I've actually talked to an advisor at a local college about pursing my RN... looks like I'd only need a few pre-req classes before I could apply for the nursing program. Then it would be two years of full time classes. So... it's on the list of possibilities.

    I'm wondering for the nurses out there... how do you like your job? Pros? Cons? Does a nursing career still allow you time to balance family & horses? Does income potential allow enough financially to comfortably afford horses/showing? Feel free to send me a PM.
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    • #3
      Love my job! I do private duty wound care for one patient, I get to set my own hours, and that works well around my girls riding. I love helping others, I love knowing that what I do makes a huge difference.
      I do know that getting your RN in two years , is a REALLY full time commitment but it can be done and it seems like you have the motivation to do that.
      I personally don't LOVE hospital nursing, mandatory over time, dealing with miserable Dr's, and not having a lot of "say" in what gets done bothered me. You will probably have to start out there, to gain experience, but I left as soon as I could find another job that fit my life and schedule better.
      GOOD LUCK the world can ALWAYS use a few more good nurses!
      Kim
      If you are lucky enough to ride, you are lucky enough.

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      • #4
        Florence Martingale

        I've been a nurse for 15 years and a horseman for, um, nearly 50. Right now, I work 3 12-hour shifts a week and that gives me plenty of time off to keep other things going. I have 17 horses and a 35-acre farm.
        Having worked with horses so long gives one a different perspective and allows you more patience with frustrating patients (I'm a psych nurse - this comes up a lot!).
        The education process can be ponderous and it's not as easy to get a job as it once was. You will be overworked most days and underappreciated all the time, but really, if you gotta work, it's a pretty good deal.
        Feel free to PM me if you have specific questions.

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        • #5
          Not a nurse, but have been a full time student/full time parent since my daughter was 3 months old (she is now 14 and I should have my PhD by the end of this semester, all the gods be willing!). I've also been a single parent through most of this, and that was...interesting, although truthfully sometimes not as difficult as juggling the needs of a sick husband AND a baby (I've done that, as well, although my husband did recover, thank goodness). I also had horse through some of this, although there was a 5 year stretch when I didn't, mostly because of finances.

          I just wanted to offer some words of encouragement for that route. It is possible, and my daughter loved (and still loves) the college experience. She didn't go to class with me when she was small (although she does from time to time now), but our college did have a daycare center, which was a huge help. Now that she's older and I work on campus she loves coming to work with me (and they've always been GREAT about having here here - they give her stuff to do and she gets typical teenage stuff to do like getting coffee and sorting and shredding). I teach now and she comes to classes with me, and spends most of her summers on campus.

          Studying has always been a challenge - there were so many other things to do, but I learned to get it done quickly so I could get back out to the horses and family. I just had to block out time and get it done, and I did. I always had great grades, although the dissertation process has been a little difficult because it requires even greater self-discipline.

          I suppose the reason I went back was that I wanted to have a real passion for my job, and the counselors at school made me feel that I could do it, while not minimizing how difficult it would be. I did it on my own except for the past 4 years (I recently remarried after my divorce 10 years ago), but I made do with financial aid and work study, as well as with part time on campus jobs (some of these can be great - I worked as a tutor a lot and they'd let you study when no students were in the lab).

          I also wanted to say that I am very proud of you for being so forward thinking and for considering all your options in this difficult time.

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          • #6
            Five years ago a friend of ours did that, at age 40. She has a daughter now entering her teens and a very supportive husband. She was a personnel administrator at a large telecom corporation and got fed up with the bureaucracy. It was two+ years of hard work and sacrifice, and she graduated at the top of her class.

            She's been in nursing three years now, working the ER at the local hospital, and loves it. She's the happiest we've ever seen her. She says that after the Bravo Sierra she had to put up at the telecom job, surly doctors and pissy patients are a walk in the park. Besides, she laughs, she gets to give those pissy patients IVs and injections! Paybacks are Hell!
            The inherent vice of Capitalism is the unequal sharing of blessings. The inherent virtue of Socialism is the equal sharing of miseries.
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            • #7
              You can find your niche in nursing - I worked in the hospital when I first graduated (many moons ago) and loved it. Returned to this country about 10 years ago, returned to the hospital and HATED it!! However, I went back to school, got my MSN and now work at a long term care/rehabilitation facility as assistant medical director and LOVE it. I have taught nursing as well. It is a profession that you can really think outside the box when using your experience. I know nurses who have transitioned to management, consulting, information technology, teaching. You really can do anything, and often name your schedule. Good luck in everything you do -

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              • #8
                If you go for RN, make sure you go to a school that gives you a BSN degree. That is the one that will let you get promoted and become a nurse manager or continue school later to become a nurse practicioner. My DH is a pediatric nurse practicioner and works in a graduate school of nursing, which provides a nice workable schedule plus a decent salary.

                A BSN ulitmately gives you more options.

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                • #9
                  A BSN is great, but you want to look at the practicalities too. You may need to break it down into smaller chunks. Find out what your state requirements are - do you have to have a BSN to take your state boards, or can you become an RN with a 2-year associate degree? If so, you can also sit your LPN boards after 1 year of school. So do that - go to school for a year, get your LPN, and work a year or two as an LPN before continuing for the RN. Then work as an RN and decide whether for you it's worth it to continue for the BSN. Or maybe by then some other aspect of heath care or admin will appeal to you, and you can get that certification instead.

                  DH is an RN in a specialty unit at a big hospital. He has seniority so has a very regular schedule that can accomodate all showing needs, and the income is good. The one thing that would be a problem with his schedule would be if he had sole responsibility for horse care as well. With that schedule you need someone else to share feeding, etc, or you need to board.
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                  • #10
                    I am in the same situation so this has been a really helpful thread. Trying to decide between a M Ed and Nursing School because I love both.

                    Good luck with your decision.

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                    • #11
                      Just wanted to wish you good luck and give you a thumbs up for taking action and looking at all your options.

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                      • #12
                        horse_loverz (of Stick Art fame) is also an RN, maybe she can also advise?

                        We have a nursing school here, so if there is any info I can help with (though I am not formally associated, just the same campus), let me know!
                        Last edited by DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho"; Aug. 2, 2009, 09:21 PM.
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                        • #13
                          I just graduated from nursing school and passed my boards. I'd love to say it's great, but I live in the medical mecca of the US (Boston) and cannot find a hospital job to save my life right now. This is all very shocking to me, especially considering I have multiple connections in a few of the very LARGE hospitals, and over 2 years as an internal employee at one of them (I worked as a tech through nursing school). The economy is definitely awful and nurses aren't leaving their jobs and it's a tough time around here for new grads.

                          That aside, I think nursing is a fabulous career. It can be very flexible, and there's definitely a niche for everyone. I love the feeling of helping people and making a difference. Right now as a tech, I work in a fabulous ICU with a bunch of great people. The nurses have a ton of autonomy and are really part of the health care team. The doctors truly value their input and I think that's great.

                          So, I would say that the pluses are good scheduling, certain niche for everyone, great opportunity to move up.

                          The minuses are the vast majority of nursing jobs are 24/7 365, so that means you will probably work nights and holidays. The mandatory overtime thing would suck, but to be honest I've never worked somewhere that had this.

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                          • #14
                            My mom is a nursing professor, I'll have her send you a PM later- so check in a bit!

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                              Riley, thanks for sharing the info. That's my area, too, and it is a little scary to hear that jobs are tough to come by. I thought that with so many large hospitals, there would be a need for nurses, especially with the expansion of Mass. General.
                              Hmmm. Your post is food for thought. Thanks again for sharing.

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                              • #16
                                I have been a nurse for the past 8 yrs (wow time has flown!) and even though it has it challenges with scheduling, any job has that! IF you have any specific questions don't hesitate to ask. You can always give me a call....send me a PM and I'll send you my number. Oh, I just saw you are in MD, so am I, I live in Carroll County. We could even get together if you want!
                                Last edited by horsey nurse; Aug. 2, 2009, 05:09 PM.
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                                • #17
                                  I am going back to school now for an ADN and will graduate in May 2010. I already have a BSBA from a top ACC school and worked in HR for 15 years, stayed home with the kids for 12. I've looked at going for FNP and with my existing bachelor's degee, I can go straight in and skip the BSN, though I'd still have to take the appropriate nursing courses that I didn't get with the ADN. I understand that in the area the pay isn't really different for the two year vs. the four year degree as an RN. I'm not sure that I'll go on ~ I will need to work a year before going on if I decide to.

                                  There are many former teachers in my class and two people with master's degrees and at 48 I am definitely not the oldest in my class. Part of what attracted me was the flexible schedule and most of the nurses I've met at least like what they do.

                                  Also, I had missed the deadline to apply one year, so spent the next year taking the corequisites, so while I am classified as a fulltime student, I am only taking the nursing classes, so no more than 10 (very hard) hours a semester.
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                                  • #18
                                    I am not a nurse but I just wanted to wish you good luck in whatever you do. A few weeks ago, I read your journal with tears in my eyes. I admired your strength and ability to focus while going through such a crisis. Indeed your cross was a heavy one. Again, I'm sorry for your loss. Best wishes for good things to come in this new chapter of your life. You deserve it!

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                                    • #19
                                      Originally posted by Susan P
                                      I'm confused, you said you wanted to stay home with your son, now you say you want to go to school full time. How can you do both? I understand you are looking at the future but when he starts school you will have more time to get your education, even in preschool you will have a few hours, you could possibly find a day care/preschool that will allow you to keep him there for a few full days rather than half days. It's really a hard challenge to raise a child. I tried to stay with my sons as much as possible but I know finances are very important. If you are paying for school and he spends most of his day time in day care and you will not only not have an income but be spending money on school and day care (which I realize will pay in the future).

                                      Sorry, I'm sure I'll get flamed for this but I'm offering my honest opinion.
                                      Susan, I think if you re-read the OP, you will find she says that she'd prefer to stay home with her child, but is facing the reality that that might not be possible... and thus is researching other possibilities.
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                                      • #20
                                        Our college has a subsidized learning (day care) center (that's where the elementary ed students do their practicums, btw) so it didn't cost me anything. I don't think all colleges have this but it would be worth looking into, and it was right there on campus so I could stop by and see her when I had a break between classes. I was only physically at school for 4-5 hours a day anyway - the rest I did at home. Bless online classes, too .

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