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  • #21
    Originally posted by InWhyCee Redux View Post
    And for the record, this look goes really over well with men of a certain age....
    Maybe it is just the high black boots and whip?????
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    • #22
      I'd be afraid to wear nice jewelry to ride - I'd wind up casting my pearls before equines.
      I'm not ignoring the rules. I'm interpreting the rules. Tamal, The Great British Baking Show

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      • #23
        Don't think I can't see what you did there, Paint.

        I seriously don't know how people stay clean at the barn. I look at a horse on TV and get dirty.
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        • #24
          Maybe she rides somewhere that's full service? My lesson barn is and I can walk out of there clean after a lesson (minus the sweaty helmet head.) At home, where I'm doing the work, I'm a filthy mess ALL the time.

          I live in a fairly horsey area, too and saw someone with her helmet on in the grocery store. I thought the same thing, dang, even if you don't have a ball cap, you're really going in the store with a helmet on??? I mean, it's nothing to see people in breeches & boots or half chaps, but the helmet was a little much. People were looking at her like she was from outer space.

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          • #25
            Originally posted by pAin't_Misbehavin' View Post
            I'd be afraid to wear nice jewelry to ride - I'd wind up casting my pearls before equines.

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            Of giving your heart to a dog to tear.
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            • #26
              Originally posted by Arizona DQ View Post
              Maybe it is just the high black boots and whip?????
              Of course — there's no allure in wearing paddock boots and half-chaps.
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              • #27
                Originally posted by InWhyCee Redux View Post
                And for the record, this look goes really over well with men of a certain age....
                I used to eschew ALL jewelry at the barn, including wedding ring, after it caught on a stall latch one day and cut my finger.

                Then one day I stopped at Kohl's on my way out to the barn. It was near Christmas and the line was quite long. A nice-looking middle-aged man began chatting me up as we waited. He wasn't offensive in any way, but he was definitely flirting. I was wondering what the hell was up (I was in my 40s at the time and no one had flirted with me like that for years.) Then I realized it was probably the full riding regalia -- tall boots, breeches, T-neck and riding vest -- plus no ring.

                I took my ring in to have the edges beveled and resized the next day. And I NEVER venture out without it. EVER. Especially not in tall boots.

                Bad one, p'Aint.
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                • #28
                  Originally posted by InWhyCee Redux View Post
                  Of course — there's no allure in wearing paddock boots and half-chaps.
                  That's what I was thinking..lol Not necessarily an Equestrian, but perhaps another profession and a client who fantasizes about.... well, you get the idea.
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                  • #29
                    Originally posted by mp View Post
                    Bad one, p'Aint.
                    I can't help it. Turning into my dad (king of the groaner) as I get older.
                    I'm not ignoring the rules. I'm interpreting the rules. Tamal, The Great British Baking Show

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                    • #30
                      Originally posted by InWhyCee Redux View Post
                      Of course — there's no allure in wearing paddock boots and half-chaps.
                      Oooh, not necessarily. I walked into a Walmart one day while frantically trying to find someplace that still had the digital picture frame in stock that I was trying to find for my boyfriend's mom for Christmas.

                      Well, I had on breeches, half chaps, and paddock boots, and let me tell you, I have NEVER gotten such wonderful service from the Walmart staff. I hate going into that store, but that day I was surrounded by lots of young men working there that apparently thought my half chaps + boots + breeches combo was QUITE alluring, hahaha.

                      Perhaps it's just the thought of a female that rides horses that does it. Perhaps the freakishly stretchy tight breeches? Or maybe the thought of crops and such... Who knows? Males are weird.

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                      • #31
                        If was who loshad and I board with (and it sounds like it is), she does groom and tack up her own horses.

                        I always get such odd looks when I stop to get groceries on the way home. Then again, riding clothes probably look a bit more normal out in horse country than here inside the beltway
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                        • #32
                          If you've never seen this before, you clearly have never been to Furman University I came back from the barn during freshman orientation wearing half chaps, boots, breeches, looking like I had jumped in the mudpit with my horse (the year I was a freshman, was the same year that all the hurricanes came through SC). All the other riders at the school were coming back as well, since we had just a few windows of opportunity to go ride. ALL of them had on breeches, perfectly polished tall boots, pearls, spotless polos and were clean as could be. I remember thinking: Did they ride, or just go for coffee? Oh yeah, they rode, and this was the norm for all the years I was there. Some people just have an ability to stay clean. It is an ability I will never have...

                          ETA: I always wore my diamond studs, year round, 24/7, riding, exercising, everything. I miss them. My darling dog ate them and despite searching (Oh yes...), I never got them back...

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                          • #33
                            I have flaked on riding attire more times than I can remember. Yes, even the helmet.

                            Mine's comfortable so unless I'm overheating can wear it and not realize I am. Kinda like the sunglasses on my head I can never find. Halfchaps too.

                            Full chaps OTOH, I always remember I have on. I'm too damned fat these days and they remind me of the extra poundage with every breath. Only worn in 'publilc' when I'm flying to/ from barn & rides.

                            I usually don't judge others attire. But some of them sure are fun to look at.

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                            • #34
                              Awww, she's just a kid, right? The kids crack me up at the barn. They actually take the time to look nice and even color coordinate with their horses; matching polos and saddle pads. Probably made sure that helmet looked just perfect before she left for the barn. I think its great. Now that my friends and I are old fogies we can barely get out the door with our hair brushed much less take an extra look in the mirror. Ah youth and spare time, where did it go?
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                              • #35
                                Originally posted by pAin't_Misbehavin' View Post
                                I can't help it. Turning into my dad (king of the groaner) as I get older.
                                Haha. My dad was a punster, too.

                                I think someone termed puns the lowest form of humor. That had to be before the Jackass Show.
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                                • #36
                                  Does anyone remember the Thelwell cartoon, where the immaculate little girl in jodphurs sets out to grooming her filthy horse, and the pony ends up looking incredible, and she's a walking pig pen?

                                  ...that's me!

                                  You know what...? I have several pairs of boots (all weathers, all conditions) and I have no pearls. What does this say?
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                                  • #37
                                    Originally posted by mp View Post
                                    I used to eschew ALL jewelry at the barn, including wedding ring, after it caught on a stall latch one day and cut my finger.

                                    Then one day I stopped at Kohl's on my way out to the barn. It was near Christmas and the line was quite long. A nice-looking middle-aged man began chatting me up as we waited. He wasn't offensive in any way, but he was definitely flirting. I was wondering what the hell was up (I was in my 40s at the time and no one had flirted with me like that for years.) Then I realized it was probably the full riding regalia -- tall boots, breeches, T-neck and riding vest -- plus no ring.

                                    I took my ring in to have the edges beveled and resized the next day. And I NEVER venture out without it. EVER. Especially not in tall boots.

                                    Bad one, p'Aint.

                                    HAHAHAHAHAHA.....as long as you don't touch!

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                                    • #38
                                      Originally posted by DressageGeek "Ribbon Ho" View Post
                                      Does anyone remember the Thelwell cartoon, where the immaculate little girl in jodphurs sets out to grooming her filthy horse, and the pony ends up looking incredible, and she's a walking pig pen?

                                      ...that's me!

                                      You know what...? I have several pairs of boots (all weathers, all conditions) and I have no pearls. What does this say?

                                      HAHAHAHAHAHAHA, get ye some pearls! They mike nice fake ones you can hardly tell from the real thing from a distance!

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                                      • #39
                                        I work in a corp 9-5.30 job, my office is only a year old, and situated in Salamanca, a yuppie square, full of Uber trendy bars, clubs, resturants.

                                        I usually have a dressage lesson on a Friday after work during the summer, leaving work at 5:40, where the sidewalks outside the bar / pubs are packed with people drinking and having a good time.

                                        I have to walk past them in full riding gear to get to my car, as it's quicker to change at work then leave.

                                        The wolf whistles, cat calling and carrying on when I walk past...
                                        I seem to provide all sorts of amusement to drunken young guys.

                                        I usually forget to take of my earrings or necklace when I change, as I'm normally in such a rush, many a time have I ridden in dimonds and once or twice pearls.

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                                        • #40
                                          I've only worn a helmet in a public place twice... and both times were to dash over to Dunkin' Donuts between divisions at a local show to grab a coffee. Didn't want to have to redo my hair, and the DD was only a minute drive away! I definitely got weird looks, but I didn't know anybody there, so I didn't really care .

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