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Update on Baby Aiden...Mr. RolexH's Birthday, 12/03/02

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  • when Aiden is calling out "watch Me!" and going down the slides, and jumping in the pool a few years down the road, you can sit there with a drink in hand, watch him and contemplate all that went before he turned out to be a happy, and now - healthy - child.
    What you and Joey went through to get him to this stage and just how far he has now come.

    Dream that dream Lisa, of Aiden as a toddler and as a young child, playing with other kids in the neighborhood, learning to ride his first bike. It IS all possible and it WILL happen for him. And all of the bad things and tension that you are going to will soon fade into the past, only to be remembered as you sit there and contemplate things and watch your little boy growing up.

    There is a wonderful light at the end of this tunnel Lisa. Your journey may well be hard, and you may doubt at times that you are going to make it WITHOUT the grey hairs (!), but you will all get there eventually.

    Take care and as always, give the little darling a big hug from all of his aunties and uncles!

    "Spot"

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      [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img] I have even better news!! The transplant team is calling insurance and apealing to be able to test another person in this time. SO two at a time.

      We all know that the blood test is the easiest to get through it is that darn CT scan we can't get past. I am not going to get my hopes up, because I just KNOW we are going to get a liver soon. One way or another. It is going to happen.

      I was talking to Eqchick, and I was saying I tend to break down or crash more, when things are stable and even sometimes good. I guess it makes sence though. I have a little room to de-focus off of Aiden and then focus on ME. I think it is time for some candles, soft music, and a littel cry-fest....

      Or better yet a laugh-fest..... I think I will give some friends a call. It is time to hear about their lives for once.... [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img] [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img]

      You guys mean so much to me. JREED as usual you made me cry. Spot, Fred, hitch, all of you say the prettiest things. Thank you. So when is the Book of Inspirations coming out?? I mean it someone could write a story about this! I see books all the time being plugged on the Today Show. And they hav the dumbest topics, this is actualy good. I can see it now. A group of us on the the Today show, plugging a book of inspirational letters. [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img] Okay I am really getting silly now. Have a great night everyone. XOXOX

      ~~Lisa~~
      Save a life, be an organ donor
      ~~Lisa~~

      www.caringbridge.org/fl/aiden

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      • That is fabulous news! I am keeping my fingers crossed that everything else works out with Jenn's tests. [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img]

        Lisa, I think we are about the same age (24), and I can't believe that someone so young is so amazingly strong and courageous. You inspire me every day. Aiden is so lucky to have you as his mommy. [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img]

        Definitely take some time to do something for yourself...take a bath, give yourself a pedicure, watch a girly movie...whatever it takes to recharge your batteries.

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        • [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img] [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img] [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img]

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          • It's good to be getting good news these days! I do agree that it's about time to take time for yourself and reeelaxxxx [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_cool.gif[/img] You and your family are so brave, courageous, determined, and loving, and I greatly admire that. All this stress and all these hardships will pay off someday when you can look into Aiden's eyes and see a happy, healthy, grateful boy. Hang in there, take each day at a time and don't forget how many people there are that love you all. [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img]

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            • Lisa, I'm so happy to see good news. I like to think my parents (who earned a high place in heaven by raising me!) have been his latest guardian angels.

              While you have a chance, do something to treat yourself. Read a trashy novel, try a weird nail polish or watch an old movie you always heard of but never saw. Once that all important call comes -and it will- things will be crazy for a long time.

              Remember, you have friends here at COTH who are thinking of you, your family and your courageous liitle boy.


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              • Have a good weekend and definitely take some 'me' time - even if it's a 30 minute hot bubble bath! Give Aiden, Joey and yourself a big hug from all of us!!

                Fingers are crossed the rest of the testing goes well!!

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                "Every day is a great day for hockey." - Mario Lemieux
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                • Keeping up with this thread has come to have real meaning in my life. To witness you and your family, Lisa, and the responses here is such an extrodinary glimpse of humanity.

                  Something you said earlier today about faith has been running through my head all day. Someone once explained to me that God never gives us more of a burden than we can manage to carry as long as we have faith in Him. What a high opinion God must have of you and your family, Lisa! And what wonderful planning and love on His part to place Aiden in your care.

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                  • fabulous news!

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                    • Keeping everything crossed that the CT test gets as good results! [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img]

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                      • Great news to carry all of you into the weekend! Prayers that the next step will also have positive results.

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                        • You guys mean so much to me. JREED as usual you made me cry.~~Lisa~~
                          Save a life, be an organ donor
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                          Lisa, if I made you cry, gosh did I mess up. The last thing you need are tears! I don't want to make you cry and I am so sorry!!!!

                          Perhaps this will make you smile. Sunday I am going down to Hershey where Mom makes her home. She and her sister have a very successful jewelry business called Carrie Richmond. Her sister, Gerry (who celebrates her 50th wedding anniversary today with her husband) have plotted and sent home with Mom a slew of GOOD horse jewelry and Sunday I will be taking photos of all of it to put into the Auction for Aiden. And photos of that pipe (the story behind the pipe is as spicy as anything I have ever heard [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img] ). So we plug along here. I am so sorry I made you cry-I never meant that, I apologize.
                          love, June
                          \"The world\'s greatest achievements often happen on the edge of chaos\"

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                          • Fingers crossed and curb chains jingling! {{{hugs}}}

                            *EMMA*

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                            • YIPPEE!!! All jingle jangles going and have a nice weekend, little one and family!

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                              • Keeping everything crossed that the next step goes well! Hopefully the insurance will ok another individual being tested now. THAT would be wonderful news!

                                Go take a hot bath, light some candles, and just relax! You deserve it and it'd help give you a little release of tension!

                                The jingles continue for Aiden! Hugs & kisses!
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                                • Keeping my fingers crossed for ya'll & jingling away! [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img] SUZ

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                                  • As someone who has just found out she is getting a divorce, I can testify to the whole taking time for yourself thing. I have been in complete shock and devastation for the past few days, and this evening while at Target I decided that every evening I possibly could, I would light a candle, put on relaxing music, and soak in an aromatherapy bath. I bought the stuff, started this evening, and it was wonderful. It is also a really good time to pray, meditate, and reflect. I highly recommend it Lisa.

                                    I have been following your story closely and praying for little Aiden and you and your husband. Your strength is amazing to me. But you need to refuel sometimes and take care of yourself.

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                                    The hardest to learn was the least complicated.
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                                    The hardest to learn was the least complicated.

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                                    • Hope everything works out, and glad to hear the good news!

                                      This is the first time I've posted, but I've been following all the posts-- I've been jingling the curb chains every day! (Dumas has too, even though he won't admit it!)

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                                      I guess that's just the cowboy in us all.
                                      (Tim McGraw, "The Cowboy in Me")
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                                      I guess that's just the cowboy in us all.
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                                      • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by kt:
                                        As someone who has just found out she is getting a divorce, I can testify to the whole taking time for yourself thing. I have been in complete shock and devastation for the past few days, and this evening while at Target I decided that every evening I possibly could, I would light a candle, put on relaxing music, and soak in an aromatherapy bath. I bought the stuff, started this evening, and it was wonderful. It is also a really good time to pray, meditate, and reflect. I highly recommend it Lisa.
                                        I am so sorry. If there is anything any of us can do, you holler, Off Course is the kitchen or living room for me, and tell me about your horse or riding so we can meet here. Big hug, big HUG.
                                        June

                                        I have been following your story closely and praying for little Aiden and you and your husband. Your strength is amazing to me. But you need to refuel sometimes and take care of yourself.

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                                        The hardest to learn was the least complicated.
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                                        • June-- Thank you so much. You've got to lean on someone in times like this. But I know that this situation, just like Aiden's and everyone else's too, will eventually work out for the good.

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