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Update on Baby Aiden...Mr. RolexH's Birthday, 12/03/02

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  • It is wonderful that your husband has the bravery [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img] to join our board and share and IMO it is a good thing. but I can also relate to the idea that so many folks here are bonded to you and that there might be things you share here about your own concerns that you might be reluctant to share with anyone else . To the extent we are women here, women share differently sometimes than they share with a mixed audience. but, you always have our private emails and phone numbers remember! And I think Joey being here, if it helps <him>, is what we are all about [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img]. Thinking of all of you so much, big hug and love!
    June
    \"The world\'s greatest achievements often happen on the edge of chaos\"

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    • Good morning and Happy 7 Months! I hope that is a sign of wonderful things to come. Still praying and jingling for all of you - Joey - welcome to the boards!

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      • Aiden:

        Auntie Knowonder here--I'm so glad it's your 7 month anniversary of the day you gifted this globe with your very special presence. I feel truly blessed that you and your mommy and daddy are in my little realm of the world.

        We'll leave the fishing to your daddy--you can go with him after mommy and I take you to the barn to see your pony! [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img]

        Please give your wonderful, amazing, brave, courageous mommy and daddy a big hug for me and then give yourself an even bigger one.

        I love you punkin [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img]

        Proud Member of Wood Hill Farm who's motto is "I'm not going sober!"
        Proud Member of Wood Hill Farm who's motto is "I'm not going sober!"

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        • Hippo Birdie to Ewe ..... And MANY more

          We Lofffff You
          See those flying monkeys? They work for me.

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          • Happy 7 months, Aiden! We all LOFF you [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img]

            Jingling that Jennifer's tests go well, and that Aiden gets his new liver soon!

            I saw on the news this morning that a 15-year-old boy in my area was killed when he was hit while riding his bike by an SUV. His organs were donated, and his liver went to an 11-month-old boy. Made me think of you guys...and I sent out an extra loud, extra long jingle [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img]
            "These are my principles. If you do not like them, I have others." --Groucho Marx

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            • Happy birthday, sweet little Aiden. We all love you!



              nhwr, I love that Boynton card. I say Hippo Birdie to people and they think I'm nuts. Well...um...they might be onto something...


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              • Happy Birthday to Aiden!

                7 months and every day a gift [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img]

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                There is nothing so grand as to fly on the back of a horse!
                ~* Be kind to one another *~

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                • Happy 7 months Aiden!!! Lisa I think both you and Joe could use the boat and the horse. Daddy can take Aiden out fishing and then you can take him out riding!!! [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img]

                  Just another day!!!
                  I want to be like Barbie because that bitch has everything!

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                  • We love you!! [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img]

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                    • God willing you will have many many more!

                      Hugs and happy songs and prayers!

                      Brenda

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                      • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by shmon:

                        I saw on the news this morning that a 15-year-old boy in my area was killed when he was hit while riding his bike by an SUV. His organs were donated, and his liver went to an 11-month-old boy. Made me think of you guys...and I sent out an extra loud, extra long jingle [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img]<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                        While I think it is fabulous that Aiden is 7 months old and feeling better this week, comments like this make me shudder. Someone else's little boy died in this accident, and while I know everyone means well and just wants Aiden to get better, jingling away because some other little boy died and donated his organs seems a little callous. And the smilie face was definitely uncalled for. Let's not forget that I'm sure someone else is suffering quite a bit today because of that accident.

                        Anyway, happy 7 months, Aiden!

                        *Be grateful for luck. Pay the thunder no mind---listen to the birds. And don't hate nobody." -Eubie Blake*

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                        • [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img]

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                          • First of all, Happy Birthday Aiden--what a brave boy you are! You have the most wonderful family and are so loved. I try to check the board first thing every morning to see how you are doing and my husband has asked me to call or e-mail him at work whenever there is a change. You have so many people here praying for you.

                            I don't think the above post was meant to be callous. We have a close family friend who received a kidney transplant on Thanksgiving several years ago. Due to the time etc. the family was pretty sure who the kidney came from--a motorcycle rider who died in an accident--and it turned out they eventually found out they were right. I don't think it is lost on anyone that in certain situations living donors just don't work and the gift of life is given by those who are unfortunately taken from their loved ones who have the grace, strength and selflessness to give such a wonderful gift. I read the big jingle as being one to hope that in the event of such a terrible tragedy, the family would be given the grace and strength to help another family in crisis. I just didn't read it as being so cold. Just a thought.

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                            • [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img] [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img]

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                              • Jingling and jangling continue!

                                ***My horse bucked off your honor student!***

                                ~~ Founder: LOFL (lawn ornaments for life) clique~~

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                                • FionaJ,

                                  I also don't think that the post was MEANT to be callous, but it was. I truly do hope that Aiden lives, and I will be happy if he does live because someone chose to be an organ donor.

                                  I cannot WISH that someone in good health is killed in a tragic accident though, and if they are killed, it is a bittersweet thing that the misfortune of one family will be the salvation of someone else.

                                  To me there is a certain sadness to being able to live at the cost of someone else's death. It is not wrong, but the price was high for another family. And it does require tact and sensitivity towards those who lost, yet were generous in their grief.

                                  Mel

                                  PS. Happy Birthday Aiden! Good luck little man, and as a mother, I can only begin to imagine the pain that Lisa and Joey are dealing with.

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                                  • I too wish you sweet Aiden a [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img] Birthday! Congradulations!

                                    ~~~~~ "There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miricle. The other ias though everything is a miricle." Albert Einstein
                                    ~~~~~ \"There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.\" Albert Einstein

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                                    • That may be true, I tend to see it as a lack of clarity and lack of being able to see intent and inflection due to the computer medium being used. I guess we have a difference of opinion.

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                                      • Or as Boynton said: "hippo birdie two ewes!"

                                        And Lisa, tell Joey to 'fess up... He really thought you were nuts every time you talked about the COTH board, didn't he? [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img]

                                        "In America, anybody can be president. That's one of the risks you take."
                                        Adlai Stevenson (1900-1965)

                                        Your crazy is showing. You might want to tuck that back in.

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                                        • Happy Birthday, Aiden (picture many b-day balloons dancing here)

                                          I hope there are many more to come.


                                          Mr. RolexH, if RolexH buys you a Bass Boat (the cadillac of fishing boats) does she get a Schoolmaster (of her choosing)??? [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img]

                                          Aidens fishing pole is a perfect first pole (nobody is better than Snoopy)

                                          Have a great day together

                                          PWBTB@WC (People who browse the BB at Work Clique)

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