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Does your age (older) ever stop you from purchasing (Update - He's mine! Pics! pg4)

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  • #41
    So Happy to Hear this from all of you

    I am so happy to hear all the input from you on this, as 3 weeks ago I purchase a 5 year old (he will be six tomorrow). He is well broke, and I am still very active, I did have reservations about buying so young but now that I read all of this I am glad I did it.

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    • #42
      Jeeeeeeez really, I am 60 and just bought a 2 year old. You are thinking far to much for a young person
      ... _. ._ .._. .._

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      • #43
        Hehe I am going to have to tell my husband that he is almost at the 'older' stage since he is 35 and I am 25

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        • #44
          Originally posted by LouLove View Post
          He is 5. I am 37. So that means, when he is 30, I will be....ummm...67LL
          Let's see. I was 43 when I bought a 2 yo. So to answer your question - No my age did not stop me from buying my horse.
          \"You have two choices when a defining moment comes along - you can either define the moment, or let the moment define you.\" Tin Cup

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          • #45
            A friend at the barn has a 2 yr old and she is 51. As long as I am physically up to it, when it is time for the next one, I'll be buying. I just make sure I have money set aside and statements in my will just in case.
            www.specialhorses.org
            a 501(c)3 organization helping 501(c)3 equine rescues

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            • #46
              If you're concerned, why don't you adopt from a reputable rescue that will take back the horse if you can no longer care for it? After two bouts with cancer, that's one of the reasons I adopted a horse through SRF. My family is not horsey, so there is no one to pass the horse onto. It isn't just age - in this economy, it makes me feel better knowing he has a place to go if jobs are lost.

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              • #47
                When I am 72, my horse will be 28 and we will have a combined age of 100.

                Now he is twelve. I took him off the track at age 5 when I was 50. I hadn't ridden in almost two weeks when I went to the barn at dusk a few nights ago and got on him bareback and rode him around the yard (in my helmet and vest). What a joy!
                Last edited by lizathenag; Mar. 6, 2009, 12:00 AM.
                A man must love a thing very much if he not only practices it without any hope of fame or money, but even practices it without any hope of doing it well.--G. K. Chesterton

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                • #48
                  We just lost a fixture around here. This gentleman was 101 and still rode around the Park on his horse on a regular basis. Bless him.
                  Proud member of People Who Hate to Kill Wildlife clique

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                  • #49
                    The way things are going, I won't be able to afford my own horse until I am in my 50s ...
                    Love my "Slow-T T B"
                    2010 OTTB, Dixie Union x Dash for Money

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                    • #50
                      Life does not always go according to plan - I had my lifer (bred her) but she went lame so now I have her son to bring on. The mathematical plan was that when I was 75, she would be 25 so we would see each other out. Funny thing is, that now she's been off for two years foaling, she might just be able to come back to pack me around gently. Originally I didn't see the day would ever come that I didn't want to go further, faster, higher - but it has.
                      Proud member of People Who Hate to Kill Wildlife clique

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                      • #51
                        I'll be 42 in June and my mare is due to have my next competition horse in early-mid April. My hubby keeps saying he's going to take over my gelding, I tell him he has to share for the next 3 years at a minimum until mine is grown enough. Which will put me at 45 with a 3 yr. old just going under saddle.
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                        "Life's a bleach and then you dye"
                        "Some people walk in the rain, others just get wet." Roger Miller

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                        • #52
                          Gee, you guys are just babies. I broke my first horse in my 40's. I will be 65 this month and just leaned over my almost 3 year old's back today. I don't plan on breeding any more babies for me as I have a 13, 8 and coming 3 year to ride. Should keep me busy. I plan on being around when the 3 year is old. You just can't give up on owning horses because the years are gaining. Over the years I lost a 32 and 25 year old and a 4 year old and a 5 week old baby. There are no garantees so get a horse and have fun.

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                          • #53
                            My friend got a new mare (8 year old) for her 80th birthday last year! She has 4 horses she can ride and 3 retirees, "it's not the years in your life, it's the life in your years"

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                            • #54
                              My 43 year old self is *insulted* that you characterize yourself as "older."

                              I've backed babies, and I honestly don't feel any more "fragile" than I did 20 years ago.

                              Cowboy up!!! :-)

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                                #55
                                I am in love

                                UPDATE on the horse:

                                Well - I have decided that life is too short to deprive oneself of love.

                                I met Mr. Right last weekend. He is 5 and a Standardbred! I had never really even met an OSTB before. They are really nice horses. He looks like a warmblood x and acts like a 20 year old packer. He needs a lot of training under saddle, but I did a little round-penning when I was there, and he was so willing. And trot...really nice trot.

                                I am still working on the convincing of DH. My Lou cost us a lot in vet bills and he is gunshy. But I think he will come around eventually. Mr. Right (not real name - will give that info up later) is coming to me through an off-track adoption agency. I love the idea of adopting. I couldn't do thoroughbred again because my mare was one-in-a-million. But wow, these Standardbreds are really neat, especially if you have some time to invest in retraining. Never thought I would do an OSTB in a million years. But once you see one in action, they really are something else.

                                Sigh. I feel like a teenage girl with a crush.


                                LL
                                Member of the Standardbreds with Saddles Clique!
                                LouLove - OTTB - 1992-2008...miss you my pretty red girl...
                                Wilde! NEW - OTTSTB - 2004 Gelding...my heart's new journey...

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                                • #56
                                  LouLove, I'm keeping my fingers crossed that everything works out for you! Somehow I think you'll win Mr. LL over...you'll have to keep us updated. And of course, once everything is settled, we MUST see pictures.

                                  I also wanted to thank you for this thread (which I just now saw - where have I been?). I'm 33 and have been thinking that it will be a few years at least before I consider getting another horse, and I'd like to adopt an OTTB or the like...but I'll be in my late-30's and won't have ridden for more than a decade. I'm feeling much better about my chances now! There are some truly awesome women on this board.
                                  In memory of Rebuff (1974-2009)

                                  Rest in peace, my sweet man

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                                    #57
                                    Originally posted by lovemyoldguy View Post
                                    There are some truly awesome women on this board.
                                    I know! When I started this thread and got the amazing stories and responses I was just overwhelmed by how many of these riding women (and men too ) take life by the horns and just do it. Thanks for your response. You will know when it's right.
                                    Member of the Standardbreds with Saddles Clique!
                                    LouLove - OTTB - 1992-2008...miss you my pretty red girl...
                                    Wilde! NEW - OTTSTB - 2004 Gelding...my heart's new journey...

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                                    • #58
                                      Breeding horses

                                      I bred my first horse at 46 and my second at 47. They are now under saddle but green. My problem isn't as much my age as my confidence with working green horses without a ring and with no one around. Oh, and I adopted an OTTB and restarted her at home by myself at 44.
                                      Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Goethe

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                                      • #59
                                        Don't worry, he doesn't know how old you are! Go for it!

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                                        • #60
                                          I love the idea of your adopting as well. We wish you much joy!!!!
                                          www.specialhorses.org
                                          a 501(c)3 organization helping 501(c)3 equine rescues

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