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Does your age (older) ever stop you from purchasing (Update - He's mine! Pics! pg4)

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  • #21
    O.K. I just re-read your post.
    You will be fine.
    For me if I get any other horses I'd like to look at horses near their 20's, so we match.

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    • #22
      I'm 57 and if I could afford to buy & keep a horse, I certainly would. Right now, I'm lucky to have found a private barn where I ride. I ride the same horse and treat him like he is my own--for the most part.

      At 37, you're a sping chicken. Buy the horse and have a great time. Remember, Eat, Drink & Be Merry, For Tomorrow You May die. (not trying to be maudlin, just stressing the importance of today)

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      • #23
        God you made me feel old.

        I thought you were going to say you were almost 70!

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        • #24
          LouLove, I like the way you think! I'm the same way, calculating my age now (42) and thinking about all my four-legged babies of various persuasions and whether I would take on another long-lived baby (horse or, say, parrot [love birds too]).

          Like everyone else, I think you're too young to worry about it. If you are blessed with this one for 30 years, you would likely be very well able to take care of him in your 60's.

          But most importantly, none of us can predict the future. Any of us can go at any time. Don't let your age stop you from forming relationships. Fix up a trust/will or make arrangements with an adoption group, and then get on with living!

          Again, you have my admiration for caring and thinking before making a lifetime commitment ...
          If thou hast a sorrow, tell it not to the arrow, tell it to thy saddlebow, and ride on, singing. -- King Alfred the Great

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          • #25
            Originally posted by LouLove View Post

            He is 5. I am 37. So that means, when he is 30, I will be....ummm...67.

            LL
            Pssst... He is 5. He will be 30 in twenty-five years. In 25 years you will be 62, not 67.

            Get the horse. Enjoy. Life is too tenuous to worry (excessively) about what the distant future holds.
            "Some people are born on third base and go through life thinking they hit a triple” – Barry Switzer

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            • #26
              I'm 53. I have a 36 year old, 28 year old, 23 year old, and two 11 year olds. I have every horse I've ever owned, either still alive or buried on the farm. Life without horses wouldn't be life as I know it. When I'm much older, I probably won't be able to climb aboard the big TB, but my pony should be totin' my old butt around til I'm 70.
              It's 2018. Do you know where your old horse is?

              www.streamhorsetv.com -- website with horse show livestream listings and links.

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              • #27
                Who in the world thinks 37 is old? I'm 40 and if I said I was old amongst some of my friends they'd slap me silly. I do not feel 40. Okay, sometimes I do but mostly I do not. I have a coming 2 yr old, a 6 yr old, an 11 yr old and a 24 yr old. The most rambunctious of my crew is you guessed it, the 24 yr old. Enjoy life, as you've got one chance at going through it. Just be realistic at looking down the road in regards to what you have in your care. I think owning a parrot would be something I'd not do as they will outlive many owners.
                "Sometimes you just have to shut up and color."

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                • #28
                  Last year, at 55, I bought a 6 year old gelding. I plan on riding until I'm in my 70's, at which time he'll be in his mid-20's and the perfect age to pack around a little old lady! If I can't get on I'll teach him to drive. At least, that's the plan.

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                  • #29
                    You're a spring chicken, fer Pete's Sake!

                    I'm 52, and have a coming 11 year old mare--whom I plan to BREED next year (or the year after), and (with luck) her foal will be my last horse...And yeah, my husband thinks that I am plumb crazy, but what the hell...There will always be young students who can fill in for me and take over the ride while I'm recovering from my broken hip...
                    "Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies."

                    "It's supposed to be hard...the hard is what makes it great!" (Jimmy Dugan, "A League of Their Own")

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                    • #30
                      There is a guy at our barn who started riding in his 60s, bought two young horses, brought them along himself... and now pushing 80 he still rides 3-4x a week. He's awesome.

                      I've always felt blessed that my passion was horses-- something I could do and be involved in for my who life.

                      So LouLove, don't worry about your new boy being on the young side. You guys will have many happy years together I am sure.

                      And don't forget to post details about your new guy...
                      We couldn't all be cowboys, so some of us are clowns.

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                      • #31
                        58 here with 10 yo and 8 yo horses; 29 yo and 18 yo donkey, 29 yo mule. I plan on riding for a long time. Right now I am doing Novice eventing, maybe some training. I am lucky, my daughter rides, is trustworthy, and I have given her instructions as to who can be sold, leased out, or she has to keep. This is interesting, I like to hear of others who are riding and active in 50-100 year range. Gives me optimism for lots more good riding years.

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                        • #32
                          I thought you said you were "old". At 37??

                          I've outlived way too many horses since then.
                          Some riders change their horse, they change their saddle, they change their teacher; they never change themselves.

                          Remember the horse does all the work, we just sit there and look pretty.

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                          • #33
                            Oh - you are toooo funny - 37 and worrying. Look to those who inspire - our Hunt whip at 73, Denny's student (didn't start riding until he was 60 and goes prelim - someone fill in that story). I'm a senior and have a 2008 Irish Sport Horse colt to get doing in due course.
                            Never say never - arthritis might slow you down at 40, but given health you can go on for ever. I feel the same way about succession though ..... but I have kids. If he is the right horse live your life right now. It will be ok.
                            Proud member of People Who Hate to Kill Wildlife clique

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                            • #34
                              I'm the same age until next month. My youngest ones are 2yo's that I raised and will have more coming this year. What was I thinking? LOL

                              My best friend who is twenty years older than me (less two days...hehe) bought herself a new horse last fall and she is 8, I believe. She also plans on breeding her down the line, as well, and they have foals coming this year, too. Her hubby, also my friend, is a few years older and still breaking the youngsters they bred for ranch work. He just got back from a five day clinic out of state and took his homebred 5yo gelding that he started. They both recently had shoulder surgery also, same shoulder about six months apart so chores could still be done. They also raise beef cattle.

                              So I say go for it!! You only live once.
                              A Merrick N Dream Farm
                              Proud Member of "Someone Special to me serves in the Military" Clique

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                              • #35
                                You. Are. An. Infant.

                                But kudos to you for planning ahead.

                                I'm 55, with a 14 yr old Top Eq horse and a broken ankle.
                                I've got a 28 year old son and Buried a 24 year old Daughter.

                                From who I learned that Life is TOO short to deny yourself Anything.

                                I'm looking at 120,000 mi on my truck and wondering if I will outlive a new puppy or kitten.

                                Wanna Trade??
                                *************************
                                Go, Baby, Go......
                                Aefvue Farms Footing Inspector

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                                • #36
                                  I guess I am the oldest here, turned 67 yesterday!! But horses I have!! My old riding horse is 24 and I have retired broodmares at 20 and 14 but still have 2 broodmares at 14 and 10 and both of these girls will be bred this year so we can have new foals in 2010. I have a show horse in training too and look forward to seeing him in the ring this year. Maybe I will bring him home to be my hubbys riding horse, since hubby is 71!! Crazy are we??? I dunno, guess some probably think so but I'm not ready to sit on the sofa, eat bon bons and watch the soaps (if such things are still on TV??)
                                  http://www.talloaksfarm.net ---"Success is not final, failure is not fatal; it is the courage to continue that counts." --- Winston Churchill

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                                    #37
                                    Wow I am just so honoured

                                    ....to be in the company of such amazing athletes and horse lovers. All of you are just great. I suppose we could argue that horses keep us young :P?

                                    I know that I sound overly cautious. I just never expected Lou to leave me yet. And I also never expected to be presented with an opportunity so quickly.

                                    I will keep everyone updated.

                                    And keep on riding and horsing you incredible people.

                                    Cheers - and will post info when everything works out.

                                    LL
                                    Member of the Standardbreds with Saddles Clique!
                                    LouLove - OTTB - 1992-2008...miss you my pretty red girl...
                                    Wilde! NEW - OTTSTB - 2004 Gelding...my heart's new journey...

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                                      #38
                                      Originally posted by mswillie View Post
                                      Pssst... He is 5. He will be 30 in twenty-five years. In 25 years you will be 62, not 67.
                                      Ta da!!! That's it. That has just made me feel better. So really - I am in my 50s if he only made it to 27. Damn! I still could have another after him!
                                      Member of the Standardbreds with Saddles Clique!
                                      LouLove - OTTB - 1992-2008...miss you my pretty red girl...
                                      Wilde! NEW - OTTSTB - 2004 Gelding...my heart's new journey...

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                                      • #39
                                        Age never plays a part in it I'm 58 and just bought a three year old I'm pretty sure the horse will out live me. Whem I'm dead all the horses go to my wife if I out live her they go to my kids I'm sure either way most will get sold.
                                        Quality doesn\'t cost it pays.

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                                        • #40
                                          Dear LouLove;
                                          U R A Puppy!

                                          I got my last horse when I was 54... nearly 5 years ago
                                          I am still seriously wanting to add a driving pony to my "herd" of 2.
                                          I figure since I still feel 18 mentally we will all do just fine.
                                          I do my best to ignore the splat that has replaced the bounce when I come off.
                                          Actually I do my best not to come off!

                                          My DH started riding at 56yo. He showed H/J and did some lower level eventing until he passed way at age 70.
                                          If he were alive today, I know he'd still be riding.

                                          Enjoy your horses!
                                          *friend of bar.ka*RIP all my lovely boys, gone too soon:
                                          Steppin' Out 1988-2004
                                          Hey Vern! 1982-2009, Cash's Bay Threat 1994-2009
                                          Sam(Jaybee Altair) 1994-2015

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