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Proof your non-horsey SO loves you...and maybe even your pony

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  • Proof your non-horsey SO loves you...and maybe even your pony

    Last night, I asked my boyfriend if he would take mne to SAM's club. He has a membership and I don't. I wanted to buy Desitin in bulk for the old grey mare's bottom, because she has melanomas that are ulcerating.

    Not only does he take me to Sam's club, but then walks around the store, asking clerks where we can find Desitin, where the baby supplies are, etc. Sadly, they didn't have any, BUT I still thought it was sweet.

    Takes someone pretty special to go shopping for Desitin for your mare's bottom.
    Strong promoter of READING the entire post before responding.

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    He doesn't complain (much ) when the horses get fed before he does.
    He doesn't complain (much ) about my at-home attire which is 99.9% chosen for horse chores that have been done, will be done, or should be done.
    He knows that any property we buy for our retirement must be horse-friendly.
    As I look around my office, I have lots of pictures of our horses and dogs but none of him. I really should rectify that......
    He DOES like the fact that our four legged mowers take care of the yard in the summer.
    He enjoys being able to use horse terms in a conversation. He has described me as an "easy keeper".
    He knows he can't leave me because he'll have to pay horse support. I don't know what he'd drive anyway, the F-250 diesel is really mine, I just let him use it.

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    • #3
      My boyfriend was out of town for nearly a week. Hours before he finally got back home, I went on a trail ride. I rode one horse and ponied my 6 year old. The 6 year old decided to munch a cholla cactus and ended up with a mouthful of stickers. I was waiting for the vet to arrive when my boyfriend pulled up in the driveway. The first thing he did after a 6 hour flight? Come to the barn to give my baby boy a kiss!

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      • #4
        1. He bought me a farm and he is the most non-horsey person I know.
        2. I forgot our wedding anniversary three years ago and went horse camping instead. He hardly complained and we had our anniversary dinner at a picnic table at the campsite.
        3. He is changing jobs to work at his Dad's golf course March 1st and said he'll take our 6 yo son to work with him when I'm doing my 'horse thing'.
        4. He sometimes pays for grain and hay for me.
        5. He loads/unloads hay and grain for me into the barn.
        6. He let me purchase a new horse trailer.
        7. He helps me with chores if I need it.
        8. He took me on a horsey vacation. His intention was to hunt while there but he went riding with me one day anyway. He crushed his nuts when the horse picked up a trot. Poor baby.
        9. He doesn't complain when the boarders want to use our bathroom.
        10. He pays for all the maintenance and repairs to all my farm vehicles.

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        • #5
          My partner often does all the barn chores for me. Especially if he knows I had a very full day so I can just spend a little time in the barn playing with the horsies and not shovelling poop!

          He also practically never says "no" to a new horse purchase and gets genuinely excited about meeting the new girl (because I only look for new broodmares ).

          He comes to shows with me, and laughs when he thinks about the new house/farm. Renovation budget: $10K in the barn/indoor arena. His garage? $1,500.

          I love him!
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          • #6
            I've got one! My BF grew up with a mother and sister that not only had horses, but ran a horse show club. I never ever have to explain terms such as "trot", "liniment", "gelding", "beet pulp".... and the list goes on. We bought a piece of land and HE built my barn on his weekends. He is a carpenter by trade, but took the time to learn how to run a mill and frame post and beam so now I have a barn constructed with most of the trees we felled on the property.

            He will throw hay when I am getting home late or have to go to work early. He is always ready with the tools when needed. He even came home from work last week and asked my geldings were... they had a scuffle the night before just as I was leaving for work. This was the first thing he asked about. And.... he loves to tell the cashiers in Walmart why we are buying FOUR INDUSTRIAL SIZED CONTAINERS OF TUMS. He gets a kick out of the fact they never believe him!

            While the F-250 Deisel is his, he is generous with letting me haul the trailer with it or head to the grain store. He will do hay. He will haul grain. He will chip ice. And he is my self-appointed plow guy.

            Back ladies.... I am never letting this one go!
            Gone gaited....

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            • #7
              when we were first married we still boarded my Appy about 45 minutes away from home. winter started quickly and I didn't expect it. I was super busy with kids and other things at home and couldn't get away.

              *without my mentioning it*, husband came to me at 800pm (it was a work night, mind you) and said "it's going to get really really cold tonight, Dax needs his blanket on. I am going to drive it out to the barn and put it on him."

              this man had never seen a horse in person until he met me, only a year before this incident.

              you could have just knocked me over with a feather.

              fast forward a few years and he suggested we buy some acreage and move the horse home. he smiled as one horse became two and then four and now eight. he loves them ALL. loves to feed the kitties and does all the barn and property repairs. loves to ride the tractor and mow. lets me park my F350 dually in the garage and actually cleaned the garage so that there was room. when my pony mare was so sick and we didn't know what to do, he gave me $800 to pay for her medications and vet bills. he lets me use the entire tax refund to buy my yearly hay supply.

              he's a KEEPER!!

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              • #8
                I've got a keeper!

                Most recently my gelding has been on medication 3x's per day (oral & rectal) for a lung abcess. I travel for my job, and the BM gets up so early that I did the 11pm medication. WHile I was out of town DH happily gave horsie the meds and mints at night! And one of those nights when murphy's law kicked in and I was a few hundred miles away (and the BM was away) and poor horsie had a gas colic. DH went up to check on him in the cold at 11pm & 1am (after vet cleared horsie) to be sure everything was OK since the BM wasn't on the premises that night. I got updates on poo and whether or not there were shavings in his tail from laying down and how messy the stall looked.

                Poor husband hadn't had anything to do with horses prior to meeting me. And I don't count a boyscout nose-to-tail trail ride when he was 12.

                He's a keeper! I love him!
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                • #9
                  My BF loves me and my horsey so much... he wants me to give him LESSONS so that he can ride with me

                  He wants us to have land, barns, and a nice big truck *someday*...

                  AND he wants to learn how to hunt (the horsey kind, not the 4wheelers 'n high powered rifles kind )

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                  • #10
                    I know he loves me because anything I have been asking him to do around here for the last 10 years continues to be ignored but if it is related in any way to Dumplin' or Katie it is done IMMEDIATELY.
                    I Loff My Quarter Horse & I love Fenway Bartholomule cliques

                    Just somebody with a positive outlook on life...go ahead...hate me for that.

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                    • #11
                      My hubby! I can say that, we got married on Feb 14th 2009 so I'm all official now.!

                      Anyhow, he's deathly allergic to hay. Yet will help load 15 tons of hay a year and willingly feeds every evening.
                      Doesn't 'do' horses, but comes to every endurance ride, and show when me or the oys are riding. Proudly calls himself a walking horse post - since he's usually the horse holder during showing, at rides and shows.
                      Originally posted by ExJumper
                      Sometimes I'm thrown off, sometimes I'm bucked off, sometimes I simply fall off, and sometimes I go down with the ship. All of these are valid ways to part company with your horse.

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                      • #12
                        mine's a great one!

                        I married a city boy 30+ years ago and one of the first things he did for me was move out of the nice house he owned in town and into a singlewide rental trailer out in the country so I could have my horses with me.

                        We lived there for a year before finding some horse friendly property we could afford to buy, we've since sold that and now have a peaceful 30 acres devoted to my animals.

                        He let me quit my job several years ago so that I could be full time horse and dog mom and caretaker of the farm.

                        He never has to mow a blade of grass or pick up a weedwhacker but he does help me with the heavier jobs or anything that rquires climbing a tall ladder. I don't DO ladders!

                        He's got 2 horses of his own that he rarely throws a leg over, but he does like to brush them and feed them peppermints.
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                        • #13
                          He's spending every weekend helping me rebuild the barn that Ike took down. And not complaining about it a bit!
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                          • #14
                            He has spent every weekend building my backyard barn - thats about 6 months without a day off (I help of course). He was out picking up supplies for work today and stopped home with a water trough- said feed store was on the way home and knew we would need this. I'm really a lucky gal!!!

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                            • #15
                              You know your non-horsey SO loves you when you tell him that if you get married you'd rather a pony than a shiny rock and he agrees.

                              Few weeks later I get a call '...does a miniature horse count?' He was just driving and had past a 'Miniature Horse For Sale' sign

                              Had to break his heart and tell him no a miniature horse would not count as a pony as I had to be able to ride said pony and I can't ride miniature horses
                              *The Quietman ~ Irish Approved Gr.1 Stallion
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                              • #16
                                Yes, good men are hard to find - we had better be prepared to put up with a few male idiosyncrasies and view the whole picture. Especially rare are those men who love the horsey girls.
                                Proud member of People Who Hate to Kill Wildlife clique

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                                • #17
                                  Hubby doesn't mind that he pays all the house bills and all the money from my part-time job goes towards my pony...lol

                                  He is so non-horsey, yet he went to the barn 2 weekends ago and took off my mare's blanket because it was getting warm.
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                                  • #18
                                    My boyfriend always asks if I'm going to put my mare's blanket on when the temps get cold. He also calls her by her nicknames like I do. The first time he called her "piglet" I was tickled pink!
                                    Tell a Gelding. Ask a Stallion. Discuss it with a Mare... Pray if it's a Pony!

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                                    • #19
                                      He bites his tongue while I spend more money on my horse each month than some people pay in rent because he knows it's something I enjoy (and that the horse was here first! ha!). But he's the first to grab a peppermint to feed to my horse when we get to the barn and is always asking if I've got the right blanket on him for the current weather forecast
                                      "Farming looks mighty easy when your plow is a pencil, and you're a thousand miles from the corn field." --Dwight D Eisenhower

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                                      • #20
                                        Yesterday afternoon, when we had the chance to take a nice long run together OR clean out the run-in shed from a long winter's neglect before spring rains begin ... he insisted on helping clean out the run-in shed.

                                        AND, he insisted that I drive the tractor and he did the heavy-lifting with the pitch fork. This from a Yankee writer who just a few short months ago did not own a pair of jeans and was afraid of horses.

                                        Plus ... ever since he learned that Elijah loves peppermints, he unabashedly fills his pockets from the "free candy dish" at restaurants. And, without shame, he ASKS for extra peppermints for "the horse" whenever the waiter brings them around. Surprisingly, the waiters always smile and oblige. One even brought us a whole bag!

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