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    BarbB

    Ummmm, so what's your point?? [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img] [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img]

    It's all about ME, ME, ME!!! (The only signature worthy of a real DQ.)
    "And I'm thinking you weren't burdened with an overabundance of schooling." - Capt Reynolds "Firefly"

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    • I get BarbB's point... but not sure I agree with it. I believe that you make time for what is important. While I *hate* the "test ride" type dating and therefore do not make time for it preferring to putter at the barn instead, I do enjoy having the one special person in my life and would make time for that.

      Unfortunately, I guess I need to work on the former in order to get to the latter, eh? [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif[/img] [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img]

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      YEA RED WINGS!!! 2002 STANLEY CUP CHAMPIONS!! HOCKEYTOWN FOREVER!!

      If Dressage is a Symphony... Eventing is Rock & Roll!

      Survivor thoughts -- Thailand here we come. BTW PICK ME FOR S6!!
      ************
      "Of course it's hard. It's supposed to be hard. It's the Hard that makes it great."

      "Get up... Get out... Get Drunk. Repeat as needed." -- Spike

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      • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by xcjumper:
        And for us other singles that didn't post a picture for Reed, Well some of us have to work to pay for our habit!!! [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif[/img]

        Run fast, Jump high. What else is there?<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>


        God - good thing I don't!!!! Don't you have a money tree???

        *Behind every good woman lies a trail of men*

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        • But the gardener said next year I can hope for a better crop, Hundreds!!!! [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img]

          Aqha Clique
          Can you stress-fracture your brain?

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          • Serial dating isn't something I would make time for, but a meaningful relationship is. Too bad I haven't seen meaningful relationships on sale lately... [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img]

            I think finding an SO may be much like finding a horse. You look at lots, are disappointed in many, and the right one usually ends up being something you didn't know was on the market but was found through a friend (or trainer or friend of a friend or whatever).

            Hehe, maybe I'll just have someone imported! [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img] [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img]

            The Panchen Lama of DQs! (Second only to Velvet, the undisputed Dalai Lama of DQs.)

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            • Hey Sister, do you think we could find any importing deals? You know... "buy this beautiful 16.2 hand bay Australian TB mare who's ready to do prelim with 4-star potential and get her 6' blue eyed groom free!" [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img] [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img]

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              YEA RED WINGS!!! 2002 STANLEY CUP CHAMPIONS!! HOCKEYTOWN FOREVER!!

              If Dressage is a Symphony... Eventing is Rock & Roll!

              Survivor thoughts -- Thailand here we come. BTW PICK ME FOR S6!!
              ************
              "Of course it's hard. It's supposed to be hard. It's the Hard that makes it great."

              "Get up... Get out... Get Drunk. Repeat as needed." -- Spike

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              • yea, but i'm swooning over the horse!
                Dont Worry Reed--We wont hurt you, just hand over the horse and nobody will get hurt [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img] [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_razz.gif[/img]

                "Beer. Now there's a temporary solution."--Homer
                FairWeather
                CANTER West Virginia

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                • tle, that's *exactly* the kind of package deal I'm looking for!

                  The Panchen Lama of DQs! (Second only to Velvet, the undisputed Dalai Lama of DQs.)

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                  • Original Poster

                    Oh, I understood BarbB--I was being sarcastic. [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif[/img] I know, you're all in shock. [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img]

                    After all the comments and the description of Reed's lifestyle (which mine resembles), I think I need to find a guy who rides horses. [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img]

                    It's all about ME, ME, ME!!! (The only signature worthy of a real DQ.)
                    "And I'm thinking you weren't burdened with an overabundance of schooling." - Capt Reynolds "Firefly"

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                    • I want a cowboy. I really do. Someone with a few good working cutting and roping horses, and thousands of acres of ranchland. And a big truck and trailer! [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img]

                      The Panchen Lama of DQs! (Second only to Velvet, the undisputed Dalai Lama of DQs.)

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                      • Get a QH, start showing the citcuit...lots and lots of cute single cowboys with ranches...The Congress in in Ohio in October and the Worlds are in Oklahoma(right?) in November!!!

                        Aqha Clique
                        Can you stress-fracture your brain?

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                        • I've got a breeding stock Paint, and I'm in the right area of the country! But I think I would want a real, working cowboy, as opposed to a guy who shows on the western circuit. Since I'm not sure, I better try both! [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img]

                          The Panchen Lama of DQs! (Second only to Velvet, the undisputed Dalai Lama of DQs.)

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                          • and there's the other side of the coin...i had a friend who is an O rated dressage judge, rode all the time, etc. has a big farm, breeding stallions, the whole nine yards including a husband that was long listed for the 1974 (okay, so i'm dating myself here) olympics. nobody could have been more horse involved (still are, to some extent) and they FIGHT like crazy. And I mean real battles...All the time. Seven days a week. They fight about whom to geld and whom to leave a stud, which horses to sell, training techniques, who's ruining which horse,etc ...after spending time with those two, i swore i would find a nice guy who would support me emotionally and financially (if i need the latter) but who was not involved. i found the guy and it's great, but my friends are still at each other's throat. (and ironically, still together) but it can't be much fun to live like that.
                            www.judyreenesinger.com

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                            • Sister, IME, if you stick to the penning, roping and cutting guys, you'll do better than with the WP, Halter and trail types guys (same as with bull and bronc riders vs. the roping guys at rodeos). Dated a bull rider for a while and have been to Congress so many times... it's like seeing a Wanna-be DQ vs. the real thing. [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif[/img]

                              personally, I want a Kieffer Sutherland in "The Cowboy Way" type (or just Kieffer himself!) [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img] [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img]

                              ************
                              YEA RED WINGS!!! 2002 STANLEY CUP CHAMPIONS!! HOCKEYTOWN FOREVER!!

                              If Dressage is a Symphony... Eventing is Rock & Roll!

                              Survivor thoughts -- Thailand here we come. BTW PICK ME FOR S6!!
                              ************
                              "Of course it's hard. It's supposed to be hard. It's the Hard that makes it great."

                              "Get up... Get out... Get Drunk. Repeat as needed." -- Spike

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                              • Showing my ignorance: is Congress in the same place every year, or does it move around?

                                The Panchen Lama of DQs! (Second only to Velvet, the undisputed Dalai Lama of DQs.)

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                                • Congress is ALWAYS in Columbus Ohio! It is the best show ever!!! I love it! And the beauty of alot of the QH people is that while they do the fancy-pants shows, they also have real live working ranches...

                                  Aqha Clique
                                  Can you stress-fracture your brain?

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                                  • Original Poster

                                    beammeup,

                                    Often those are good relationships on the inside, even if they are ugly on the outside. It's weird, but sometimes that works for certain people and they would miss it if it was gone.

                                    Hey, some people like whips and spurs, and don't care if it's during verbal intercourse--or the other type. [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_eek.gif[/img] [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img]

                                    It's all about ME, ME, ME!!! (The only signature worthy of a real DQ.)
                                    "And I'm thinking you weren't burdened with an overabundance of schooling." - Capt Reynolds "Firefly"

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                                    • When I bought my horse, I thought she was registered AQHA. Having a papered horse didn't matter to me though, so I never asked to see them. So, I buy her and it turns out she's Paint breeding stock (although with her conformation, she will NOT be bred!), and I find that even if I did want to show her on the breed circuit I pretty much can't. This is yet one more reason why I must have another horse! [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img]

                                      The Panchen Lama of DQs! (Second only to Velvet, the undisputed Dalai Lama of DQs.)

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                                      • Original Poster

                                        I must be either perfecting that "come hither" look, or it's just my "I don't give a damn and I want you to know it!" look (the one that attracts the guys to the ugly women I've known who think they are all that and a bag of chips). Something is different today. I am NOT dressed well at all and have my hair up, and yet some guys on the street were making bold eye contact with me...for once.

                                        Now if I could only figure out what I was doing (other than the clothes, they are part of it, as I've mentioned before, but there must be something in the expression). [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif[/img] [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img]

                                        It's all about ME, ME, ME!!! (The only signature worthy of a real DQ.)
                                        "And I'm thinking you weren't burdened with an overabundance of schooling." - Capt Reynolds "Firefly"

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                                        • Velvet obviously hasn't seen the pics we posted in all the mens rooms........

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