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  • #21
    Riding lessons! I started back taking riding lessons in preparation of my youngster. Now that I have her to ride when ever I want some times weather and schedule can get in the way so I still have my lesson every week.

    It keeps me riding! It doesn't hurt that you can ride year round here also!
    No hour of life is wasted that is spent in the saddle. ~Winston Churchill

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    • #22
      I haven't had a lesson since before the holidays...I am such a slug...

      I think I have used every excuse known to man since then. It's been literally a high a 10 degrees every day or it has snowed, iced or otherwise crapped from the skies and with my MS, being out in the cold just does bad freaky things. I know, I know...I CAN ride. I shouldn't make excuses. It is the best thing in the world for my confidence, strength everything. But I just keep putting it off.

      I'm just blah...blah, blah, blah.
      I Loff My Quarter Horse & I love Fenway Bartholomule cliques

      Just somebody with a positive outlook on life...go ahead...hate me for that.

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      • #23
        I not only cantered in my lesson last night and today...but I jumped! For the first time since my last accident!

        It was pathetic, yes, they were itty bitty crossrails...maybe ~18" max...but I jumped! Getting better all the time. The lessons help keep me motivated for sure - I would feel badly about cancelling on the trainer....

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        • #24
          I joined tonight just so I could say thanks, now I know I'm not alone. Career change, kid in college, me going back to college, another career change and all the sudden 8 or 9 years have flown by without horses.

          By sheer dumb luck I recently started riding again. I'm 49, out of shape, and I don't bounce like I used to. But the horse is kind, if green, I have an indoor available to use, and spring really will be here before we know it. In fact next week on the east coast looks like a veritable heat wave is coming.

          I'm getting out, getting some (much needed) exercise, and making new friends.

          I'm off now to visit the "womanly sized" rider forum. Nothing fits anymore.
          "Some people are born on third base and go through life thinking they hit a triple” – Barry Switzer

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          • #25
            Great job all of you re-riders!

            Welcome mswillie. This is a great board for support for re-riders and people who fit the category "the rest of us!"

            This is a tough time of year for those of us in cold climate. I applaud all of the re-riders that stick it out all winter. There are so many times when it's so cold, I contemplate taking a pass on riding. I usually overcome it and ride, but some days are a struggle!
            F O.B
            Resident racing historian ~~~ Re-riders Clique
            Founder of the Mighty Thoroughbred Clique

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            • #26
              As a 40 something re-rider I live for my lessons! They keep me motivated. After my nasty fall this summer and the ensuing 8 weeks in a cast, I feel like a beginner again My biggest problem is the "fall" has taken over everything I do! But I had a breakthrough a couple of lessons ago and jumped a fair bit higher than the dinky crossrails I've only managed to get up the nerve to do. I HATE being chicken! The good news is I've been offered an amazing opportunity with a totally free ride! Now I'll have no excuse for not having the legs for the shows! I just spent the last 2 hours freezing my a** off getting to know her(a grooming session made in heaven). Probably won't hop on her for about a month, she needs some groceries on board first.
              I can't wait for spring and I swear the first one who complaines about the heat is getting a road apple to the head!
              *PPP Member*
              "Official" Couch Critic

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              • #27
                Well, I am the obsessive re rider. I not only came back but with more drive and obsessive desire to compete than I did as a junior. Apparently 25 years of not sitting on a horse was more driving then I had thought. I know it took me a good year back to feel like I had any strength, position or eye. Most people won't ever want to show or ride the way I do now....but I think the problems are the same for adults who juggle jobs, kids and other responsibilities. I guess take it one step at a time. Don't get down on yourself and remember that you ultimately do this because you love horses and being around them. You can only do your best. Some people simply cannot rearrange their lives to ride all the time....so be realistic about what you can handle. I have an angel of a husband and son - both of whom have willingly made A LOT of sacrafices to give me the time and space to ride. My husband helps take our son to school in the mornings 4 days a week so I can go ride my horses in the morning before work. I am sitting at a horseshow for 2 weeks running my business out of a camper (ha) while my husband and son hold down the fort. When I get back we will take a weekend and do something around my son's interests to give him some special time. Just do your best to have fun and not make riding yet another pressure in your life. For me, it is the ONLY place I am not stressed out and therefor it has become again an enormous importance to me. It took me 25 years of working to find a way to afford it.....but I came back appreciating the little things in a way I had never imagined. Good luck!!! It will work out
                http://good-times.webshots.com/album/557433725gtOAuC

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                • #28
                  Originally posted by Linny View Post
                  Great job all of you re-riders!

                  Welcome mswillie. This is a great board for support for re-riders and people who fit the category "the rest of us!"

                  This is a tough time of year for those of us in cold climate. I applaud all of the re-riders that stick it out all winter. There are so many times when it's so cold, I contemplate taking a pass on riding. I usually overcome it and ride, but some days are a struggle!
                  This is why I signed up for two riding lessons a week for a while. It's really helping to motivate me to ride during these cold, cold days. Without these scheduled lessons, I probably wouldn't be riding half as much.

                  This is a jumping week for us (we alternate weeks, jumping with dressage/flat) and I'm having a blast. We've been doing some gymnastic work and also my trainers have started to raise my jumps a little bit too. I think I'm finally making some progress, so I'm actually a little excited about my riding now.
                  -Debbie / NH

                  My Blog: http://deborahsulli.blogspot.com/

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                  • #29
                    Flash- THere are MANY styles of driving. Primarily what I learned the basics of (if that)was achenbach (sp) My teacher's teacher(John) who set me up with my teacher(Susan) is/was an old style carriage driver. I haven't been able to keep up with Susan and I haven't seen John since he moved his business(he does leather work now and builds western saddles), IE it's been years since I"ve seen either of them (pre husband and first wee child) Driving is an expensive habit is the only downside to it in my opinion. Hence why Mr. C and I will be driving our GRAND kids around.

                    My lessons have been really enjoyable. THey are a good treat. I had planned to ride today... I nixed that idea though when I woke up to snow on the ground. :-P Freak'n BRRRR. But bewteen work, the house, the kids, the busband, adn the animals... well... there just isn't enough time to get everything done that I want to do. Oh well... the baby is only a baby for a very little while and I'm throughly enjoying having someone to snuggle with. :-) Soon enough we will all be heading out to the barn to ride together.

                    Mom dad and sis all love horses... if we have to, we'll guilt the little boy into riding with us ;-)
                    If i'm posting on Coth, it's either raining so I can't ride or it's night time and I can't sleep.

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                    • #30
                      Another re-rider here! I just started back after a good 20 years away. I'm a lot more out of shape than I was then so its going to be a slow progress.

                      Its been deathly cold but I'm super committed, one week I took lessons at 3 different schools because the original school's outdoor ring was iced over. Now I'm down to two lessons a week.

                      I love it but its sometimes frustrating because I used to be able to jump and now I can't even hold a good canter. It will come, I tell myself.

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                      • #31
                        riding and driving

                        I wanted to get into driving when as a re-rider at age 40, I met this 90 yr old at a Christmas party who told me she got into driving more often after having a bad fall during a foxhunt. That fall occured when she was 75 yrs old. I thought.. heck! I may not be able to ride at 75 but I could drive perhaps :-)
                        Pao Lin

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                        • #32
                          That is a very cool story paohatch - I want to be hunting at 75!!!

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                          • #33
                            Checking in.

                            With all the crappy weather we've had lately (below zero temps so indoor was frozen... and yes, I know... I'm lucky to have an indoor at all but doesn't do me any good if it's frozen) and then the snow/ice storm that knocked power out for a week, I haven't been riding lately.

                            But will start back up tomorrow. For me, what sucks, is if I take even a week or so break. I'm back to square one.

                            I've only been able to take 3 lessons since the first of December where I normally take them weekly. Between the holidays, frozen indoor, bad weather, and trainer traveling a little bit... it's just not been possible.

                            And I agree... Lessons are what keep me motivated and give me something to work on during the week until the next lesson.

                            All the goals I had for this winter to work on? Welp, haven't even really started. *sigh*

                            But warmer weather is on it's way... even if only for a short time. So this will give me the kick in the pants I need.

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                            • #34
                              Originally posted by LSM1212 View Post
                              But will start back up tomorrow. For me, what sucks, is if I take even a week or so break. I'm back to square one.
                              That's how I am too...and why I get so down. I really NEED to get my butt in gear.

                              Seeing my DD walking around breaking in her new Ariat field boots (half price at VTO! Think Heritage II's for the same price as PLEATHER!) motivates me because she passed her hand me downs to me. I finally have REAL boots! (of course I have to take them to the shoe guy and have zippers put in and a little more cough, cough elastic)
                              I Loff My Quarter Horse & I love Fenway Bartholomule cliques

                              Just somebody with a positive outlook on life...go ahead...hate me for that.

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                              • #35
                                Old goal: to look beautiful on the horse. New goal: to stay on the horse
                                Old goal: lovely 20m circle posting trot. New goal: to post for 20 meters in ANY direction without looking like a frightened goose tied to the saddle.
                                Old goal: cantering smoothly on the lead that I asked for. New goal: cantering. Eventually.

                                I have one lesson a week and the trainer rides 2x per week. One time to make progress and the other to fix my horse from my riding!

                                Very frustrating. And some times I just don't feel like riding. In fact, those days, the thought of going to the barn makes me depressed. So I tell myself, you know, you don't have to ride if you don't feel like it. Just go to the barn and spend some time with your horse. And about half the time I'll feel better when I'm there and go for a ride. I've gotten so now that I don't beat myself up over the other half.

                                Well, hell's bells. Who am I trying to impress anyway?
                                "Uh, if you're going to try that, shouldn't you unplug it first?"

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                                • #36
                                  I took 35 years off and started riding again at 51 (I'm 54 now) so I don't know if I can claim to be a re-rider, since the interval was so long...

                                  Boy, do I know that back to square one feeling. If it isn't physical issues (when my back bothers me, I have to stop lunge lessons and my attempts to learn to jump), it's confidence issues. I can lose confidence over the most inane things, like cantering a horse that my friend fell off of and broke her arm while cantering. Even though I have a much stronger seat than my friend. One week I'll feel great jumping 18" and the next week, it looks huge to me and I don't want to go over anything more than poles on the ground.

                                  And sometimes, I think I'm just losing it altogether. Over Christmas, I got a new dressage saddle with a big flap. The first couple of times I tried mounting with the new saddle, I got myself all twisted up trying to get over that flap and I fell off, sort of, onto the mounting block. Then I transferred my klutziness onto my old saddle, which I have never had problems with. I just couldn't remember how to mount. I think I've finally gotten it again, but it's taken over a month.

                                  It's frustrating feeling like you've taken 10 steps backward. I can't imagine how frustrating it is to my trainer...

                                  Anyway, what I'm working on when it is warm enough to ride is being comfortable with a really forward canter. I can do it on the left lead but not on the ride lead. I have to say that my trainer has the patience of Job.

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                                  • #37
                                    Checking back in too. It's weird how the confidence thing comes and goes, isn't it?

                                    I've been re-riding for about 5 years now. For the first couple of years I absolutely lived from lesson to lesson. I still try to lesson once a week, but because I can ride our own at home, the impetus has not been as great. And then the weather is off, or the ground is bad, or the horse seems a little off, or some such excuse, and pretty soon I've not ridden for a week again.

                                    A bit discouraged lately because I did want to start showing again. I lost most of last year when my horse had a medical problem. He's fully recovered, but we had just started doing single fences again at the time of the first show on our local circuit in December, so we decided to skip it - he wasn't legged up to do full courses, even for the wimpy 2' "fences" I do, so I told myself we'd wait for the January show. In January, of course, we cancelled at the last minute due to the really rotten weather. Keeping my fingers crossed for this month!
                                    Incredible Invisible

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                                    • #38
                                      Lessons were what I really enjoyed too. I rode in a group lesson with the kids and loved it. They enjoyed it because who knew what was ever going to come out of my mouth!

                                      One of the funniest comments came as I was entering the ring one night for my lesson. One of the group's younger sister (4) was talking to her little friend, telling her who each of us was. As I rode by, I heard her whisper "and that's the old lady" My coach was holding the arena door and was horrified. I thought it was the funniest thing and got the biggest laugh. One thing about being a rerider . . . we can really laugh at ourselves and then just a keep on going!
                                      \"Tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it.\" Anne of Green Gables

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                                      • #39
                                        Originally posted by Rienzi View Post
                                        Old goal: lovely 20m circle posting trot. New goal: to post for 20 meters in ANY direction without looking like a frightened goose tied to the saddle.
                                        I'm glad I'd put the coffee down before I read this. I'm presently in the process of *cough* rediscovering my posting trot. Thanks for the image.
                                        I'm not ignoring the rules. I'm interpreting the rules. Tamal, The Great British Baking Show

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                                        • #40
                                          Originally posted by Rienzi View Post
                                          Old goal: to look beautiful on the horse. New goal: to stay on the horse
                                          Old goal: lovely 20m circle posting trot. New goal: to post for 20 meters in ANY direction without looking like a frightened goose tied to the saddle.
                                          Old goal: cantering smoothly on the lead that I asked for. New goal: cantering. Eventually.

                                          I have one lesson a week and the trainer rides 2x per week. One time to make progress and the other to fix my horse from my riding!

                                          Very frustrating. And some times I just don't feel like riding. In fact, those days, the thought of going to the barn makes me depressed. So I tell myself, you know, you don't have to ride if you don't feel like it. Just go to the barn and spend some time with your horse. And about half the time I'll feel better when I'm there and go for a ride. I've gotten so now that I don't beat myself up over the other half.

                                          Well, hell's bells. Who am I trying to impress anyway?
                                          Now that was funny.... I don't care who you are. You sound just like me.

                                          I'm doing this for fun, right? It's a good day if I end my ride w/ a leg on either side of my horse.

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