I hope this is an okay place to put this kind of post!
Unfortunately my mare hasn't had a very stable life the past few months. I moved her "home" (aka rented a stall from my neighbor) in October to cut costs and obviously have her closer. Things started out okay until neighbor brought her expensive race horses home for the winter and we had to move things around a little bit. Sydney started barreling through or jumping over the fences. "Thankfully" she always jumped into a different pasture, but I became increasingly alarmed at her jumping the wrong way and ending up in the road. Neighbor became increasingly annoyed at her fences getting torn down.
So I moved her to a barn near by with board fences. She stopped jumping the fences, thank goodness, but the barn is not long term affordable for me. It was more of an "its November and everybody already has their hay measured out for the winter" situation and this place was the only one with room.
I am moving her again at the end of this month to a barn that will hopefully be her permanent home.
When I first moved her to my neighbor's house she got super disrespectful towards me and got very buddy sour. It was zero fun, but we weren't really there long enough to get things sorted out between us. When I moved her to the current barn I started her on Mare Magic, and we did manage to get things sorted out between us. Things have been trucking along since December. In Janurary she got diagnosed with PSSM and I attributed her poor behavior to possible PSSM related discomfort.
This past week the BO at the current barn brought home three broodmares and put them in with Sydney. She removed Sydney's buddy from the pasture as well. I am pretty annoyed because we are leaving in two weeks and it doesn't seem fair for Sydney to have to get reestablished in this group, and then have to do it again in two weeks. These three mares are total witches towards her, and I now have to carry a whip with me to chase them away. They come after Sydney any time I try to remove her or bring her back into the pasture.
Sydney's bad attitude has started up again. I had a rather scary ride on Monday that ended in a 45 minute free lunging session where I couldn't seem to get Sydney to focus on me at all, join-up, or really show any signs that she had an ounce of good will towards me. Yesterday she seemed to be doing better, I mounted up, but then had to hop back down because my pads had gotten all goofy, and she took off before my feet had hardly even hit the ground. Took me forever to catch her, and then I took her into the round pen and put her to work. Making her move when I said, turn when I said...etc etc. Except this time she was even less interested in playing the game than Monday. I finally gave up because it was getting dark.
Free lunging has worked in the past, but is obviously not very productive this time. What are some things people do to help establish themselves as the herd leader? I am worried that in two weeks I am going to have to start all over again as well.
Unfortunately my mare hasn't had a very stable life the past few months. I moved her "home" (aka rented a stall from my neighbor) in October to cut costs and obviously have her closer. Things started out okay until neighbor brought her expensive race horses home for the winter and we had to move things around a little bit. Sydney started barreling through or jumping over the fences. "Thankfully" she always jumped into a different pasture, but I became increasingly alarmed at her jumping the wrong way and ending up in the road. Neighbor became increasingly annoyed at her fences getting torn down.
So I moved her to a barn near by with board fences. She stopped jumping the fences, thank goodness, but the barn is not long term affordable for me. It was more of an "its November and everybody already has their hay measured out for the winter" situation and this place was the only one with room.
I am moving her again at the end of this month to a barn that will hopefully be her permanent home.
When I first moved her to my neighbor's house she got super disrespectful towards me and got very buddy sour. It was zero fun, but we weren't really there long enough to get things sorted out between us. When I moved her to the current barn I started her on Mare Magic, and we did manage to get things sorted out between us. Things have been trucking along since December. In Janurary she got diagnosed with PSSM and I attributed her poor behavior to possible PSSM related discomfort.
This past week the BO at the current barn brought home three broodmares and put them in with Sydney. She removed Sydney's buddy from the pasture as well. I am pretty annoyed because we are leaving in two weeks and it doesn't seem fair for Sydney to have to get reestablished in this group, and then have to do it again in two weeks. These three mares are total witches towards her, and I now have to carry a whip with me to chase them away. They come after Sydney any time I try to remove her or bring her back into the pasture.
Sydney's bad attitude has started up again. I had a rather scary ride on Monday that ended in a 45 minute free lunging session where I couldn't seem to get Sydney to focus on me at all, join-up, or really show any signs that she had an ounce of good will towards me. Yesterday she seemed to be doing better, I mounted up, but then had to hop back down because my pads had gotten all goofy, and she took off before my feet had hardly even hit the ground. Took me forever to catch her, and then I took her into the round pen and put her to work. Making her move when I said, turn when I said...etc etc. Except this time she was even less interested in playing the game than Monday. I finally gave up because it was getting dark.
Free lunging has worked in the past, but is obviously not very productive this time. What are some things people do to help establish themselves as the herd leader? I am worried that in two weeks I am going to have to start all over again as well.


3 steps walk, stop, 2 steps back, 5 steps forward, 8 steps jog, stop, 4 steps walk. Just keep switching it up until she is completely focused on you. No turning circles, if she gets in front make her back up fast. Don't play nice guy. It sounds like she just doesn't respect you at this point, as in you are not over her in the herd.
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