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Should I tip? How much?

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  • Should I tip? How much?

    Dear Dobbin is stuck on stall rest at the vet's for the next week +. He's loaded on "horse Xanax" and I get out to hand walk him for at least an hour every day. Unfortunately, he's still stall walking/weaving. This is really only an issue because it makes stall cleaning a mess for the guy who does stalls (Manuel). He's having to strip it every other day. Dobbin is the only horse in the barn with this issue. All the others are stock breeds who are perfectly content to stand around all day and doze. On top of this, Dobbin gets a special mix (pre-bagged and labeled) of grain and has to have meals thoroughly soaked. He's not super high maintenance, but definitely more so than the other horses in the barn. So, do I tip Manuel? Wait to see if I'm charged extra for the work (unlikely, my vet is very reasonable)? If I tip, how much would you think is reasonable?

    FWIW- I don't actually see Manuel often, but he is taking good care of my boy and I'd like to thank him.
    "Je suis Pony Owner."

  • #2
    You can if you want to, as a thank-you for taking care of your horse.

    But if this guy does stalls at the vet's for vet-boarded ill horses, this is probably par for the course, regardless of whether them other current "patients" are easy to take care of.
    Proud Member Of The Lady Mafia

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    • #3
      I would think extra care is far from unique for horses boarded at the vets.

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      • #4
        I don't think the situation is unusual. But I'm sure a gesture of thanks wouldn't go amiss! Cash would be appropriate, but a plate of cookies(or other goodies) and a card would probably also be good option.

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        • #5
          I think it's important to reward good service. I'd probably give $20 for each week he's been there in a card. It may not be above and beyond his realm of responsibility - but if feel like he is deserving of a thanks, then do it.

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          • #6
            No.
            In loving memory of Laura Jahnke.
            A life lived by example, done too soon.
            www.caringbridge.org/page/laurajahnke/

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            • #7
              I would tip. Not out of a feeling of necessity but as a feeling of gratitude.

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              • #8
                I would not tip because you feel like you have to tip, because you most certainly do not. Your horse is most assuredly not the first horse who makes a mess, he just happens to be the only one in the barn at the moment.

                Instead, I might give him a thank you card with $40 or something at the end of the week. I have sent cookie baskets to my emergency vet before when they have gone above and beyond. (Like calling in a friend-of-a-friend vet tech to handle putting my delicate bunny under!) Not because it's a "tip", but more of a thank you, if that makes sense.

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                • #9
                  In addition to any monetary, baked or verbal "thank yous" you choose to give to Manuel himself, please be sure to mention the great job he is doing to your vet and the barn manager - even better to write your appreciation down and send it in an actual card or letter to the office!
                  "So relax! Let's have some fun out here! This game's fun, OK? Fun goddamnit." Crash Davis; Bull Durham

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                  • #10
                    I don't think you should feel you have to tip, but if you want to, I am sure he wouldn't be offended! A twenty in a card telling him how much you appreciate his care of your boy would be fine.

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                    • #11
                      You don't have to, for sure, but I've always found copious gratitude and tips to be useful tools in the horse world. When marsie had a foot-long gash across her shoulder down to the bone, then burst all her stitches so that her shoulder was just sort of...flopped open, I couldn't handle seeing it for the first few days and completely relied on my BM to do the twice daily rinsing of the wound (I eventually got used to the sight/smell and took over). It was horrible and stuff that looked like melted mozzarella would come pouring out. You would not believe the gifts and cash I showered upon her....

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                      • #12
                        I worked at an equine hospital for many years, and yours is neither the first high maintenance horse they have ever boarded, nor will he be the last. Stop worrying about it so much, a tip is not necessary (and may not be allowed), but a thank you card for the team with some delicious goodies will endear you and Dobbin with Manuel and the whole staff!

                        PS - I wholeheartedly agree with Miss Ariel's advice about the specific letter of appreciation!

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                        • #13
                          I would write a thank-you note to the veterinary hospital for their great care of your horse, and specifically mention Manuel. It's the rare person who remembers to thank the barn staff. And maybe something like a plate of sandwiches for the whole staff!

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                            Thanks for the advice, guys. This is my guy's first major vet experience and I wasn't sure what protocol was.
                            "Je suis Pony Owner."

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                            • #15
                              I haven't tipped barn workers at vet hospitals but I am amazed that I'm virtually the only one at at good sized facility that tips the barnmen at the holidays. Not much, $20 a guy and a little more for the head guy. Each year, they act like its a million dollars and my horses get great care all year. A little kindness goes a long way.

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