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Finishing a schooling session - the mental "disconnect"

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  • Finishing a schooling session - the mental "disconnect"

    I'm not quite sure what to call it, but I'll give a description.

    I do yoga and have done so for many years. One thing I love about yoga is savasana (corpse pose) where at the end I have a slow let-down after the work and it gives me a chance to mentally and physically disconnect from the practice and then re-enter the normal world. I've done pilates classes and that's one thing I didn't like about them - you do the work and then you're done. To me it is sort of an abrupt transition.

    So I was thinking about that yesterday after I worked with Princess Fancy Pants. I try to keep the work varied and interesting for her, with short segments of different things. Yesterday was leading over a flower box, leading in general, walking the trails, grooming and hoof work, and working with the lunge whip (just desensitization stuff so I could swing it all around her and over her head and on the ground on either side of her while she'd just stand still and focus on me). At the end when I put her back in her paddock, I just felt like it was too abrupt. Even though the work we were doing was calm and quiet, in leaving her I felt this weird breaking of energy, like she had connected with me mentally and my turning her out was sort of just "dropping" that connection that she wasn't ready to give up yet. So after I hung up her halter, I went in her paddock and gave her some more pets.

    I don't know, I'm sure it sounds woo woo to some people, but here are a couple of questions.

    Do you find you experience this more with mares? (she's my first mare)

    Do you have any sort of "let-down" process that you go through (other than a normal cooling-out and grooming) when you're done working with your horse?
    "A horse's face always conveys clearly whether it is loved by its owner or simply used." - Anja Beran

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    Nope. Do our work, untack, shower or brief grooming as necessary, treats and turnout. None of mine seem to be suffering and most of them I have bred and raised.

    Now, when I have a horse at my trainer's place and don't see them every day, I so try to hand graze them for a while before I turn them out. But, at home I really don't see the point of doing that.

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Pocket Pony View Post
      I'm not quite sure what to call it, but I'll give a description.

      I do yoga and have done so for many years. One thing I love about yoga is savasana (corpse pose) where at the end I have a slow let-down after the work and it gives me a chance to mentally and physically disconnect from the practice and then re-enter the normal world. I've done pilates classes and that's one thing I didn't like about them - you do the work and then you're done. To me it is sort of an abrupt transition.

      So I was thinking about that yesterday after I worked with Princess Fancy Pants. I try to keep the work varied and interesting for her, with short segments of different things. Yesterday was leading over a flower box, leading in general, walking the trails, grooming and hoof work, and working with the lunge whip (just desensitization stuff so I could swing it all around her and over her head and on the ground on either side of her while she'd just stand still and focus on me). At the end when I put her back in her paddock, I just felt like it was too abrupt. Even though the work we were doing was calm and quiet, in leaving her I felt this weird breaking of energy, like she had connected with me mentally and my turning her out was sort of just "dropping" that connection that she wasn't ready to give up yet. So after I hung up her halter, I went in her paddock and gave her some more pets.

      I don't know, I'm sure it sounds woo woo to some people, but here are a couple of questions.

      Do you find you experience this more with mares? (she's my first mare)

      Do you have any sort of "let-down" process that you go through (other than a normal cooling-out and grooming) when you're done working with your horse?
      My riding "ritual" ALWAYS includes grooming and inspection, tack up and ride, LONG relaxed walk to warm up and LONG relaxed walk to cool down, followed by another soft, light grooming and turnout with a treat to end the session. They always know what to expect because we ALWAYS do things pretty much the same way.

      The after-ride grooming also allows you to do early-detection for any back soreness, grabbed heels, tendon filling, chafed mouth corners, etc. that may have resulted from your training session.

      This is basic good horsemanship from Ye Olden Daze.

      It's always a GOOD sign if your horse seems to want to see more of you, not less.

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      • #4
        Horses need to be cool down, relaxed and then put back in their stall/paddock.
        No matter if it's a gelding, a stallion or a mare.

        I don't like when people are rushed to put back their horse in their stall as fast as it was brought out for a quick hard ride. That's how horses get sour from work.

        As for the let-down process, in your situation, I think it is more for you than for your horse.
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          #5
          Yes, I have the same ritual (although no tacking up for the pony, but yes for grooming before and after). And, no, I don't think she's suffering . . . not in the least.

          It was just like she either didn't want to be done, or she just didn't realize we were done - or maybe she expected some food! I don't know, it was just sort of hard to explain. I've just started formally working with her more (I always handle her every day, but I'm doing more "stuff" with her now) so perhaps she simply didn't realize class was over.
          "A horse's face always conveys clearly whether it is loved by its owner or simply used." - Anja Beran

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          • #6
            Probably. I just usually bring her home, fix her up and give her a pat and wait for her to wander off - which she is happy to do in her own time. She is not the cuddliest, although she appears to like human company, but the field or hay calls louder.

            I think I get what you mean about disconnecting - that is where the ritual comes in. When her trainer rides her, she knows when he is getting ready to finish and her eyeballs start to look for me for her treat. Before that she's focussed on him.
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            • #7
              Yes, I walk for a while on the buckle. I let the horse wander all over. He starts to walk faster and faster and I slow him down. I am looking for that zen moment at the end, just like in Yoga. There is a rhythm to walking, there is a breathing, and finish in it. Then, I swing off him, hit the ground, and we go through our finish ritual, such as, he tries to rub sweaty head on me, and I don't let him; he gets a treat from pocket; he stands around on three legs while I chat to trainer or some other person on the ground; we walk together a long walk back to the stable; standing in cross ties, or hosing down first, grooming, putting away, carrots, hay, whatever comes next. Its what you are talking about. There is no abrupt end to the work, whip off the tack, throw out in a field and done. There is always some kind of slow down, grooming, ritual, even if I go through it fast for time's sake, some basics of the ritual are there.
              My warmbloods have actually drunk mulled wine in the past. Not today though. A drunk warmblood is a surly warmblood. - WildandWickedWarmbloods

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              • #8
                People are including cool down but to me that is part of the "work." Who in the world stops cantering, hops off, untacks and throws their horse in the pasture?

                I took the OP to mean something other than your usual routine of good horsemanship.

                I answered "no" but then said I work (which includes a cool down walk either in the arena or out and about on my property), untack, quick groom or shower as necessary, treats and then turnout. To me that isn't some "special" end. That is just normal good horsemanship. And if I am in a time crunch, the cool down may be a lap or 2 around the arena on the buckle instead of a 10 minute trail ride around the property.

                But, I would never work hard, not cool down the horse, untack in 30 seconds and throw the horse out. Again, who does that?

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                  #9
                  Maybe I'll come up with some official "we're done!" thing . . . like a few cookies in her bucket after I put her back in her paddock. I did that today and it seemed like a good way to end the session. Cookies given by hand cause more problems than they solve, unless I *really* need them for bribery.

                  I suppose it is more I who need something like that, it just seemed like yesterday she wasn't mentally ready for me to leave her. Hard to describe.
                  "A horse's face always conveys clearly whether it is loved by its owner or simply used." - Anja Beran

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                  • #10
                    Yes, if mine start to get pushy about treats (which one is starting to...again) then I will throw a few treats in the feed bucket when I turn her out. I think that is a good reward and a signal for them that they are done for the day. Or you could hand graze her for 5-10 minutes before you turn her out, if you have a place to do that.

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                    • #11
                      If you don't want to do cookies, how about a good scratch in her favorite itchy spot before parting ways?
                      "When life gives you scurvy, make lemonade."

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                      • #12
                        I dunno if this would work for you, but when I took the bridle off, I would take a cloth and do a thorough head rubbing. Since I don't allow horses to rub themselves while under tack at all, this was a "we are done" signal the horses came to understand and most appreciated. You can take as long as you like. But that doesn't sound quite like the mental uncoupling you are looking for.
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                        • #13
                          I turn my horse to face me as I'm removing the halter and formally thank him for whatever way he saved my butt today. Or for learning a new thing or doing old things fabulously or just for letting me ride him...you get the picture. He seems to like this and waits until I have finished speaking before moving off. He is quite the gentleman. I have always done this or rather I don't remember starting it.
                          My horses have always seemed to like it and I like the formality of acknowledging them, it makes me feel the ride has finished.
                          And yes....I am aware I have trained my horses to 'like' this and to wait until I have finished speaking my few words before leaving but it doesn't matter to me. It makes me feel good and I feel like I have finished properly
                          I don't care if it's woowoo either lol.

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