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  • What would you do?

    I've owned my gelding for 13 or so years now and the other threads about e-mailing the breeder/seller got me thinking. Would it be weird to e-mail his breeder/seller now after all these years to let her now that I still have him or would she enjoy getting it? From what she said when I bought him, he was her favorite and she really didn't want to sell him.

    She also came to visit him a couple of years after I bought him (she had to travel to another island to see him). I thought she might enjoy to know that I still have him, but maybe it is creepy after so long? I have had no contact with her sense that last visit (11 years ago). I also just found her web site/e-mail, before that I did not have anyway to contact her. I just don't want it to be weird. What do you guys think? Am I nuts?

    Thanks for any input.

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    Honu, I think she would be thrilled to hear from you. It would be a really nice thing for you to do, especially if he was a favorite of hers.

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    • #3
      OMG, I'm sure she would be THRILLED to get an update. I know that if it were me I certainly would!! Very cool of you.
      Founding Member of "I Kept 'Off Topic Day!' Open"

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      • #4
        I think you should totally go for it!
        Just explain what you wrote here - that you recently found her email address after having lost it for so long, and you thought she'd enjoy hearing about how well one of her old favourites continues to do!

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        • #5
          I always wonder about the horses we bred and then sold! I would love to get an update on any of them, particularly if it were good news.

          I recently discovered the wereabouts of a horse I had from the time he was 6 months until he was about 9. I lost track of him after I sold him in 1989. Then earlier this year, I was reading an article about search and rescue in the mid atlantic area and sure enough, there was his picture and name, and a small mention that he had retired from active rescue searches. I almost cried to see that he had a new owner who clearly loved him and had given him such a great life!

          Go for it!

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          • #6
            Oh PLEASE DO SO! My last foal would be 13 now - I would love to hear from the few i have lost touch with - What a kindness!!!
            "If you don't know where you are going, any road will take you there"

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            • #7
              You can un-creepify it by just dropping a little note saying "Hello, I came across your website recently and thought I'd drop you a line about [horse's name]. He's doing great, blah, blah, blah. (Briefly, though. If she wants his entire "life story", let her invite you to tell.)

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              • #8
                You have no idea how god it makes you feel to hear that a horse you have sold has done well and the opposite is true. I think nice people like to hear that a breeder remains interested in an animal he or she has bred.

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                • #9
                  Definitely do it and send a photo if you can. As a breeder, I love hearing about where my horses have gone and how they are doing. They don't even have to be personal favorites!
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                  • #10
                    I googled my horse's breeder last fall and called her. I wasn't sure what the response would be, but she seemed to be very excited to get the call. When I told her where I lived and how I'd found him, she stopped me and said "Wait a minute, let me write all this down".

                    We talked for about fifteen minutes, and she offered to email me baby pictures of my gelding along with photos of his dam, sire, and siblings.

                    Definitely call or email. What have you got to lose?

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                    • #11
                      I know my BO is thrilled to hear from former students, boarders, and, particularly, the owners of her babies. So please, make the call or send the email-- you may make someone's day.

                      Be prepared, however, to send pictures and a written update-- we always request that from "old friends" so we can put their stories on our website!

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                      • #12
                        Go for it. I love getting updates on the ones we've bred and sold. I always worry about them and would rather know good or bad. I sold one of ours to Arizona. I love all my foals so loading Paddy up and sending him off was very sad for me. I heard from his owner a few times and then nothing. I e-mailed and called her as I was wondering how he was doing good or bad. I was so concerned and worried about him and finally came to the conclussion that something must have happened and that she did not want to tell me.

                        Fast forward to summer 2008 and I got an e-mail from his current owner. I was so happy to hear where he was and what he was doing.

                        Every breeder I know would be thrilled to know. Don't forget most of us have planned that foal, waited with anticipation for 11 months and then had the joy of helping them into the world. We spend time with them and get them started in the right way so that they can be a wonderful partner/companion for someone down the road.

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                        • #13
                          Oh, please do so. I only bred two colts, one I kept, so I know how he is. . . the other I sold to an eventer-in-training, who did marvelous things with him. She owned him for about two (or 3 ?) years and contacted me then to see if I wanted to buy him back. I could not do so at the time, so she sold him on to someone else. In this terrible economy, it weighs heavily on my mind that he might need me once again, and I can not find him anywhere. I would love to know if he's ok, would now take him back in a heartbeat if I could. . .

                          So, if anyone here knows of a 14 year old TB (non-raced) dark bay gelding who did eventing in the Carolinas a few years ago, being trained at Farewell Farm . . . his JC registered name is Golden Harp's Eoghan ( don't beat me up for that). His barn name was Scooter, but Shanna showed him under another name, which I don't recall, I'd like to know.
                          Last edited by Over the Hill; Jan. 12, 2009, 11:45 AM. Reason: Added info on horse
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