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  • Looking to be a Re-Rider

    I will apologize in advance for this book of a first post.

    About me: I rode consistently from the time I was 9 until I was 35. For about 15 years of that, I rode 4 to 6 horses per day. Sometimes more. I briefly went pro in my early 20s and realized it just wasn't for me.

    I am ready to start riding again after 10 years off.

    And I have no idea where to start.

    I started in the h/j/eq world, but switched to dressage when I was 30. I was competent to 3rd and playing with up to PSG movements w/a little P&P for fun.

    I almost want to go back to h/j/eq land to get my confidence back from the fences and galloping out. Then transition back to dressage.

    I am now keenly aware of the fragility of my body.

    Has anyone else had a similar experience? How were you able to regain your abilities and confidence?

    Or should I just buy a little QH and have fun on the trails?

    The competitor in me wants to get to GP dressage, but a little voice tells me my best days are behind me.
    Last edited by Ammy; Mar. 24, 2015, 04:03 PM.
    Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth

  • #2
    It sounds like maybe you should start by finding a great trainer and perhaps even taking some lessons in a few different disciplines to see what you like best. I would perhaps just take some lessons or do a lease before jumping into buying a horse again, that way you have some time to figure out what you're most interested in doing and you can get your confidence/fitness back on some safe schoolies.

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      #3
      Don't worry. I won't be buying a horse until I am competent again in whatever I wind up doing. I am still on good terms w/my former trainers and have open invitations to ride.

      I'm just, well, so unsure of myself and think some advice & success stories from other folks might help.
      Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth

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      • #4
        i took 20 years off from riding; when i went looking for barns to take beginning adult classes, i was met with open arms everywhere. i think you should find the nearest general lesson barn and take a few months to get back into gear with just being on a horse, and then start expanding after that. welcome back!
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          #5
          You know, taking lessons at a lesson barn where knows me might be best. No pressure to live up to my former self.
          Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth

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          • #6
            No way your best days are behind you! You are just getting started!

            Imo, dressage is better suited to us folks north of forty because one can keep perfecting forever and see many in same age group as peers. Of course one can jump a dressage horse too, and take them on trails.

            Only advice I can give is buy a good confidence builder when you do buy, and enjoy!

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            • #7
              Eh, you're a mere child. I rode from 11 to 35, then took 20+ years off to raise my twin sons. When they flew the coop, I bought myself a horse as an empty nest present at age 57. A 3 year old. Unbroke. And then started learning about dressage and we've dabbled in a few other things as well. I don't think I went about it in exactly the best way I could have, for a number of reasons, but I have had major fun with my $300 CraigsList horse.

              Soooo, use this time to take a look at other disciplines that you might not have tried before. ACTHA rides, driving, western, cattle sorting, whatever you can find locally. Plan to have FUN! And then see where it goes.

              I would not have enjoyed my horse nearly as much if I had tried to re-live my saddle seat princess youth. I want different things out of my horse life now - and you may too. Give yourself a chance to think out of the box and ENJOY!!

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              • #8
                I have returned to riding after more than 15 years away. I wish someone had advised me to spend a few months working on my fitness level before my first riding lessons. I was stunned how much more physically demanding riding is now that I am in my late 40s. When I first started riding I did not have the stamina, core strength, or flexibility that I needed just to canter around the arena twice, let alone to jump around a course. In hind sight, I wish I had begun my return to riding with a dressage trainer and done some serious flat work before getting involved in a hunter/jumper program. I suspect that I would be further along now if I had been more fit from the start and if had more foundation work on the flat before I started jumping again. Even though my progress has been slow, I am loving every minute of it!
                "An education isn't how much you have committed to memory, or even how much you know. It's being able to differentiate between what you know and what you don't."
                -- Anatole France

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                • #9
                  You like jumping, you like dressage. Eventing would be a great discipline for you. Best of both worlds. You can do your flat work, and little jumps to get back in the groove.
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