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  • Neighbor's mare alone and not doing well

    First of all, there is nothing I can do about this other than try to make it easier on my retirees. The neighbors have a mare. At first they had a mare that had lived there by herself for years, and then one of their family members moved off of acreage and brought a second mare. The first mare died. Now the second mare is constantly calling and running the fence because she can see my two geldings. They do not share a fence line. I'm having issues with mine now - sometimes they can't focus on their food because they are so interested in what is going on next door, but I know neighbors have no plans to acquire another companion for her. Really it is just a vent more than anything - I feel badly for all concerned, especially the mare who clearly doesn't want to be alone where she can see other horses. I know she was kept alone before she moved there, but then she couldn't see other horses and maybe that helped.
    I feel bad that her being able to see them is causing problems.

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    Could you loan them one of your horses? Some folks up the road from me had a horse and pony and way more grass than their pony needed and their neighbors had two horses on a very small lot so they traded the pony for one of the horses that could use some more groceries. Everybody retained ownership but Pony got to live without a muzzle and skinny horse got fat. Win-Win.
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    • #3
      Well, maybe the owners of the mare think that is good, she is kept exercised.
      Depending on how upset she may be, that is not necessarily bad.

      Then, your horses are more alert, other going on in their lives than normal.
      That also may not be necessarily bad, if they are not suffering with that.

      You could contact the mare owners and mention that she is upset alone and yours are worrying about her, could you do other, maybe put her across a really good fence from yours, where all may see each other better, not have to worry so much?
      Or whatever way all of you find to make the horses happier all around.

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        I would loan a horse if I could, but I've just got two and they're attached. Maybe it isn't bad for her, though. I guess it does exercise her.

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          Can you integrate her in your herd so there are 3 together and just use her turn-out to rotate and not overgraze your fields? You may want to add gates to make moving them between the properties easier.
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          • #6
            If the solo mare is running around calling, think of how annoying it is for the neighbors who have to live on the property with her.

            I guess I have had Fjords for too long as NOTHING would make them ignore food. Are your horses not eating because to the mare? If that really is the case, then perhaps you can feed them in another location where they won't be distracted, like in a stall.
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              Originally posted by IronwoodFarm View Post
              If the solo mare is running around calling, think of how annoying it is for the neighbors who have to live on the property with her.

              I guess I have had Fjords for too long as NOTHING would make them ignore food. Are your horses not eating because to the mare? If that really is the case, then perhaps you can feed them in another location where they won't be distracted, like in a stall.
              She is actually on the far edge of their fence line, so I actually don't think it is probably bothering them much.

              I do definitely feed mine grain in stalls. One is just kind of an ADD type of animal.

              Unfortunately there just isn't anything that can be done on my end. I had offered to take the first mate as a companion, and they declined. My area that is safely fenced is pretty small, and their fence is barbed wire, which I would not feel comfortable with, so it is kind of an it is what it is situation.

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