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CREEPY answer to sales ad...UPDATE--the villain emerges!!!

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  • I like Fish Gordon!

    I've been following this but was too busy to post the other day. Let us know what is going on - this is like a soap opera or detective movie. Intriguing!

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      jester---just for the record....I AM FEMALE!!!!

      sheesh---I don't need you stalking me too

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      • Don't worry flsh. I'm too busy dreaming up ways to kidnap cachet's baby donk, Festus.

        (But seriously, that guy who played Flash in the movie was pretty darn hot, but then again I think I was in 3rd grade. I also thought Jimmy Carter was cute back then too...)

        AND, to keep this in line with your original message, here's hoping they were just crank yankers. Heard anything from the police?

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        • But you are blonde...you are a more modern super hero! And apparently, your first mission is dealing with crazy horse thief type people!

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          • flsh... good to hear! And regarding your name... I always want to ADD the 'A'! ROFLOLOL

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            • Good luck with this. I'd be creeped out if I were in your place. Me and Gary (the BO) would be staked out in front of Sneakers, and Chester's stalls with shot guns and cooler full of beer. Keep us posted and hopefully they'll catch the sicko's!

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                well......the COTH sleuths have done it again! (ONE sleuth to be exact--thanks Bea for all your help! )

                I believe that the person has been located....we shall see...and may possibly be a teenage girl. After Bea tracked the IP to it's origination, she then did a lookup for the supposed name and voila....a probable match. Then the lucky part---a separate phone number at the same address for the parents!

                So I just finished conversing with the mom about said teenager. She was genuinely shocked to hear from me I believe and said that she would be really surprised if her daughter could do something like that but she would definitely talk to her when she got home from school today. She sounded seriously concerned. She also threw in some bit about "well I know some of her friends had her password at some point and were pretending to be her but I think she changed it"....nice try mom but I ain't buyin' it!!! Mom also said she didn't think that daughter had been on the computer much lately, BUT I have it on pretty good authority that she was using that email as recently as this morning.

                SOOOOO...if anything else happens, I'll share. Maybe I'll get an email apology, who knows!!! I did find out something cool in all this though---if you want to block your caller ID from showing up on someone else's phone, you can dial *67 at the beginning of the call--COOL!!!

                ps....thanks to everyone who PT me and offered help--you guys are great!!!!!!!
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                • hahaaha wow.

                  Mom knows that there's a police report involved, right? LOL

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                  • WHAT was that girl thinking? I dont' know what she thought she was going to get out of it, its not even entertainment at that point... What's wrong with kids? (spoken from a 21 y/o)

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                    • That child has WAY to much time on her hands. Needs a hobby-maybe needs to go help the less fortunate-spend sometime scrubbing floors, feeding the hungry-that will keep fingers busy-off the keyboard. Keep us posted-things like this are truly scary and make you feel very uneasy and not safe-even when they turn out to be fake.

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                      • BEA!!!!!!!!!!!! You rock!!!!!!!!! Go,Bea, it's your birthday, we gonna party like its your Birthday! Perhaps it should be suggested to this little gal that her time would be better spent on the BB being a TROLL! If she isn't one already.....

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                        • Three cheers for Bea!

                          Hip hip hurrah!
                          Hip hip hurrah!
                          Hip hip hurrraaaaah!!!

                          (I thought you were fishgordon also )

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                          • Just in case anyone's wondering. I don't work cases involving personal relationships or Nigerians. Too dangerous for me! Other cases I might consider.

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                            • Good job, Bea.

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                              • Bea, I personally award you the title of the COTH BB SUPER SLEUTH. Wear it with pride

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                                • Bea . . . you're the bomb!!!

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                                  • Oh my. Well. Thank you. Don't know what to say (and then she leaps eagerly up onto the stage and into the spotlight and launches into a very long story).

                                    Yesterday afternoon flshgordon sent me the properties information of the e-mails she has been receiving. I noticed the yahoo address also had a real looking name as a tag. As we all know, many people do put real looking but fake names on those accounts. But it seemed trying to confirm first whether this was real or fake made sense.

                                    I googled the name in various ways, nothing. I did a reverse look up for the ip number and that gave the name of a town in MI. I looked up the area code for that town. I pulled up the phone book for MI and did a search for all listings for that last name. Found a listing for the last name with a first initial that matched the yahoo name in the same area code for the town the ip number had listed.

                                    Called the number, just to feel out if it was animal, mineral, or vegetable. If someone had answered I planned to say 'sorry I've dialed the wrong number'. Got an answering machine with an adolescent girl's voice saying, "hi, you have reached ____(different first name from the e-mail address but starting with the same letter). Mmmmm…. A young female horse thief?

                                    Went back to the phone book. Lucked out and found another listing with the same last name, different first initial, but listed at the same address. Household with parents and separate phone lines for offspring? Called that number. Got a parental sounding answering machine. Mmmmm…. I thought, I think we've got her.

                                    But, I didn't feel we really had enough evidence. And I would hate to have some youngster wrongly accused of internet harassment.

                                    So. And here's where it might walk the ethical line. I sent an e-mail to the address flshgordon had. By the way, using the yahoo account I have set up purely for the purpose of shopping online with its corresponding avalanche of junk mail. And I thought. What could I say that a young girl would be completely unable to resist. And that a proper horse thief might at most take the time to tell me to fuh off but generally would probably ignore.

                                    So, here's what I sent
                                    'Hi, I could be wrog but are you _____(using the first name from the answering machine) who I met a while ago? You probly don’t remember me. My name's Billy. Let me know. Sorry if im wrong. Billy '.

                                    I felt any self-respecting adolescent boy would misspell like that.

                                    Within one hour I got back a very careful e-mail saying
                                    'I might be who you met. Where is it that you met me?'

                                    Well, I thought. Firstly, why would horse thieves bother replying to my message? And secondly, thank god she's being cautious with boys on the internet!

                                    So that's when I thought I had enough evidence to turn over to flshgordon.

                                    And I did have moments of wondering if I was ethical to reel her in that way. But then I thought. A police report containing her e-mail address has very rightly been filed. Perhaps with today's homeland security these reports actually get entered into a date base. Maybe one day she would go to a job interview. And they would actually perform a background check. And that police report would come up.

                                    Better, I thought, to think a boy is interested in you than to have the above scenario.

                                    I didn't reply to her message. And I got another e-mail from her this morning saying, ' 'Where is it that you think we met?'.

                                    Young thing is wriggling with curiosity. And, as I've said to flshgordon, she deserves extra credit for not only using her spell check but her grammar check as well!

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                                      Bea--you're positively devious!!! (we should have a smiley with horns!)

                                      I am just dying to know if Mom busted her or not though and if so, how will we ever know??? maybe Billy should email her for a date and when she says she's grounded we'll know. I thought about leaving contact info with Mom but didn't want them having my phone number. At least I'd like to know to be able to close the police report!

                                      Bea---I'm hearing the mission impossible music in the background, aren't you?
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                                      • I know what you mean flshgordon. And we do still have her on the hook . . .

                                        Mmmmm....maybe the collective minds can think of someway to wrangle a confession and apology out of her.

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                                        • Bea, wonderful!! Mucho kudos!

                                          Perhaps a simple... "well, we met online when you sent me messages pertaining to your husband coming to pick up my horse. Interesting that your mom, who I spoke with on the telephone at XXX-XXXX, doesn't know you're married or that you're insisting on buying a $10,000 horse for $1,000." Might not be the BEST way, but I'd LOVE to see the look on her face when she read it.

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