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  • #21
    <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by peterving:
    AHEM... </div></BLOCKQUOTE>
    Quick hint about picking up girls: "Save the attack Tatas" is a turnoff for most women. Just thought I would get that out there.
    -Grace

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    • #22
      Aw, I think it's cute.
      Don't tell me about what you can't do. That's boring. Show me what you can do. - Mom

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      • #23
        My son's 24 and single. And while he was involved in Pony Club as a kid, and still sits a horse well, you'll have to search far and wide to find him. Tomorrow, for example, he's heading off from his home in Prescott, AZ, to Sun Valley, ID to serve as a TA on a backcountry skiing course (he's a Prescott College student). Just before Christmas, he spent 80+ days reenacting John Wesley Powell's first exploration of the Green and Colorado Rivers by raft through the Grand Canyon. And while his Spring Semester will take place back in Prescott, he'll be interning as a backcountry ranger in Alaska this coming summer. He climbs, skis, mountain bikes, whitewater rafts, forecasts avalanches, loves kids, loves horses, appreciates brew pubs, is Wilderness First Responder-certified, is a talented jazz drummer, is handy mechanically, loves to cook...

        ... but he just announced while home for Christmas that he has a girlfriend.

        Sorry.

        http://community.webshots.com/user/helenofnc
        "We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give." - Churchill

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        • #24
          I have told my older son to take riding lessons when he gets a little older. All those sweet young girls - it would be like shooting fish in a barrel.
          Don't tell me about what you can't do. That's boring. Show me what you can do. - Mom

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          • #25
            <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Emryss:
            Look - a fella of the male-type gender!

            Run, peterving, run!

            Oh, wait, he's a starving student. Throw him back 'til he (and his wallet) gets bigger... </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

            He also has too much time on the internet... 567 COTH posts in 10 days?

            Steph

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            • #26
              Helen of NC that was totally unfair...

              to think, that for a moment, you gave hope to us pitiful single women.

              they're all taken.

              Oh well, time to lower the standards I guess.

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              • #27
                You'd think that the guys would have figured out that riding is the jackpot for girls - the guy/girl ratio is ridiculous (at the lower levels), they should be taking advantage of that, not forcing us to hunt!

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                • #28
                  Well, in peterving's defense, a great deal of his posts occurred on the weekend and were quite short...besides, any red-blooded male would hang out and enjoy the gaggle of girls who flocked to his greeting post!
                  Don't tell me about what you can't do. That's boring. Show me what you can do. - Mom

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                  • #29
                    <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by TheOrangeOne:
                    <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by peterving:
                    AHEM... </div></BLOCKQUOTE>
                    Quick hint about picking up girls: "Save the attack Tatas" is a turnoff for most women. Just thought I would get that out there. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                    Maybe there is a reason that I have that down there...
                    \"Save the attack tatas\" Clique

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                    • #30
                      <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by spacely:
                      Well, I found my now fiance at the barn 5 years ago! </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                      I (we) need details!?! PLEASE&gt;&gt;&gt;
                      Horsezee

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                      • #31
                        julanleb,

                        I will speak for myself. As I guy that rides, I have dated plenty of women that ride. It is not all that it is cracked up to be. At the same time, many of the men I ride with are married or date women that like horses but tend to only ride for fun. My girlfriend rides and love horses but she has many other interests that take presidence.

                        Reed

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                        • #32
                          <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content"> Stop playing on COTH where there are only 400 guys and 20,000 women and go outside.
                          </div></BLOCKQUOTE>There are 400 guys on COTH? Where?

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                          • #33
                            I am hoping the new Polo fields going in later this year; hopefully; will be the hot venue for meeting mature men on horses, carrying big sticks, and all of this thanks to Propped Up!!!

                            Horsezee

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                            • #34
                              <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Adagio2016:
                              Well if you are looking for a "horsey man" I'm afraid those are few an far between. If you're looking for someone who will not get jealous of all your barn time and the love of your horse (s) I'd suggest a musician. They usually are the sensitive sort, so they are pretty easy to get a long with, AND they are usually sooo in love with their music that while they are "playing" or "composing" you can sneak out to the barn without being noticed! lol Atleast that what I do to my husband all the time. He's the greatest, and I've found that a lot of his friends, who are also musicians, are very similar and they all seem to really like animals too. Maybe just my bunch, but it's a pretty big bunch! Good luck ladies, my advice, when you find a good one, don't let him go! Even if he has a few annoying quirks, like leaving his socks in a pile by the lay-z-boy! lol </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                              Could not agree more! Most of the boys I've dated have been musicians and were very understandable of my "horsie habit". And the easiest way to find them is go to a club once in awhile and there they are! Although, whoever talked about taking an EMT or welding course, what a great idea! I may have to try that one . Same with polo and track men. Hmm.. Just need to find the time...

                              Honestly, I'd so much rather not date someone in the sport, esspecially in the same discipline. As long as my guy likes horses and is willing to pay for it, it's cool with me . The way I see it, I compete for ribbons, glory, and money, not men But I'd definetly consider musicians...and hot fire fighter prospects
                              *The best sound in the world is coming in from turnout and hearing four shoes clop against the asphalt*

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                              • #35
                                well, this may not be the most well recieved idea, but cops? mine is and his work buddy used to do mounted patrol, and now they want to start a mounted patrol in our town. for some reason, they all think mounted patrol is the "coolest", a close tie w/ motorcycle cop (think CHiPs). he is very supportive, and now wants his own horse. a great big war horse, he said. but, he is as gentle as they come with the ponies, heck, he's referred to as the "Carrot Fairy" at the barn. they also tend to be financially stable-big plus in my book!

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                                • #36
                                  Journalists - they understand deadlines, have the musician senstivity (sometimes) and really can have good listening skills. The downside is well writing isn't the best paying job, but there are always newspapers even in small towns.

                                  Favorite haunts? Bars with good food and cheap drinks?

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                                  • #37
                                    Nooooo. Not the track. No. No. No.

                                    Advice from a (female) exercise rider to a newbie:

                                    "Don't f*ck with any of these f*cking losers because as soon as you're done f*cking, they'll go off and tell all their friends what a bad f*ck you are."
                                    It's a uterus, not a clown car. - Sayyedati

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                                    • #38
                                      Take Sporting Clay or skeet shooting lessons. Try eharmony (I'm not kidding).

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                                      • #39
                                        A firefighter (who also has other interests)! I don't have a horse of my own, and really only got back into spending much time around the horses in the last couple years, but I'm married to a firefighter. It's bad if you hate being alone for 24 hours at a time, or whatever their shift may be, but conversely, I can do whatever I want while he's working, and it doesn't interfere with out time together. It's also harder when you have little kids, and you're a single mom for 24 hours at a time, but otherwise it works out well. Also he loves to golf, so we each have our "sanity savers." Just have to remember to set time aside for us, too, but since I work part time, we get time during the week also when most people are working. We've been married almost 14 years. Of course it's not all wine and roses, like any marriage, but we still get along great!

                                        Warning, you do have to put up with firefighter humor, especially around other firefighters.

                                        But I also know several firefighters who have horses too. Unfortunately for you, they're either female or male and married.

                                        I guess what I would say is that you don't have to have completely the same interests, you just have to understand the time you each want to spend with your interests and make time for each other too.

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                                        • #40
                                          There are 400 guys on COTH? Where?
                                          I was thinking more like 4

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