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My 19 year old son died this morning (short update, p. 37, Alex continues to touch lives)

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  • OH, Evalee, I just don't know what to say....I am so very sorry.

    {{{{{HUGE HUG}}}}}

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    • Evalee, words just can't express the depth of my sorrow for you. What a shocking and tragic thing. Trust in the goodness of the world and know that someday your pain will wane.

      I'm so sorry.

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      • More thoughts and prayers to you from us.

        Hugs,

        Libby

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        • Words cannot express the sorrow I am feeling for you at this time. May God wrap his loving arms around you and give you some peace during this time in your life. You will be in my prayers. God Bless.

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          • I hardly know what to say my very deepest condolences, I am so very sorry.

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            • I am so, so sorry EH. My God - words totally fail me right now.
              Huge {{{HUGS}}}.
              Take care of yourself and I pray that you get the answers that you need as to what happened to him

              "Spot"

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              • I'm so sorry, my thoughts are with you in this heartbreaking time. I could not imagine losing my brother who is the same age.

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                • I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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                  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't know what else to say, but my thoughts are with you.

                    Paige
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                    • I am deeply sorry for your loss

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                      • I am so very sorry. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers tonight and in the difficult days ahead.

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                        • Oh Evalee. Words just don't seem enough. Please know that we all are hear for you at all times.

                          My thoughts and prayers to you and yours. <cyber-HUGS>

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                          I'm just the mom.

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                          • I feel so stupid right now. I have been wallowing in self-pity all day long because this is my first Christmas without my family (I'm in NC and they are in NY). My MIL and SO are both sick as dogs today and basically Christmas consisted of them sleeping while I moped. I should be thankful for all that I have and those that I have. I am SO sorry for your loss, and my prayers will be for your family tonight. Cherish those you have today.

                            Remember...though eagles may soar, weasles never get sucked into a jet engine.

                            Soar like a weasle my friend.
                            Remember...though eagles may soar, weasles never get sucked into a jet engine.

                            Soar like a weasle my friend.

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                            • I can't even express how deeply sorry I am for your loss.

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                              • I am so sorry.

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                                "on ne sait jamais..."
                                GO TARHEELS!
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                                • You and your family are in my prayers.

                                  If wishes were horses... I would be sooooooo happy!!
                                  ~ Kimberlee
                                  www.SpunkyDiva.com

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                                  • Oh Evalee, I send you my heart felt condolences and deepest sympathy. How shocked I was to read the topic title and the news it contained. I can only imagine how you and Bill must be grieving.
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                                    With much sorrow,
                                    Maggi
                                    Cheers, Maggi

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                                    • I know there is nothing I can say that hasn't already been said, but please know that your family and your son are in my prayers tonight.

                                      God must have needed another angel.
                                      bombs away is your punishment/pulverize the eiffel towers/who criticize your government

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                                      • Evalee,
                                        I am speechless...speechless. Please let us know how us BBers can be there for you.
                                        Hugs for you and your family.
                                        Viv
                                        Over what hill? Where? When? I don\'t remember any hill....

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                                        • My heart is in my throat right now. I'm so sorry. My deepest sympathies are with you and your family. You and your son will be in my prayers.

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