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My 19 year old son died this morning (short update, p. 37, Alex continues to touch lives)

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  • Evalee,

    I cannot imagine what you are going through. I have a 19 year old daughter myself. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

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    • Oh, Evalee, I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot pretend to understand the grief you and yours are going through, but if I could, I would, so that you would not have to.
      You are in my prayers.
      It\'s a pity life ain\'t got no warranty for times like now...

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      • I am so very, very sorry for your family's loss...

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        • Freebird put it beautifully.............

          Thinking of you today.

          "He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of his devotion."
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          [i]\"He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be wo

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          • Deepest regrets
            You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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            • Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
              Man plans. God laughs.

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              • My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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                • Rest in Peace Alexander. Thinking of you EH.

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                  • So sorry for your loss....

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                    • Evalee,
                      My deepest condolences to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.

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                      • OH EVALEE.....

                        I am so sorry!!!! There is just nothing we can say to help, BUT we can be here with tons of cyber hugs for you and your family.

                        I lost my granddaughter a couple of years ago at Christmas and it was sooooooooo helpful to be able to know there were people "out there" who would hug and hold me through cyber space...

                        From you entire COTH family, we are all praying for you and your son, just know that for whatever reason, he is in a better place now than this old world.

                        If any of us can help...just post here...

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                        • Im so sorry
                          I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

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                          • You are in our thoughts.

                            There really are no words.

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                            • I'm so sorry.

                              May the Lord comfort you and ease the pain of your loss.

                              I can only conclude that I'm paying off karma at a vastly accelerated rate.

                              "And I'm thinking you weren't burdened with an overabundance of schooling." - Capt Reynolds "Firefly"

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                              • I'm so sorry for you and your family.
                                God be with you and comfort you in the days ahead.

                                Prayers,
                                Jennifer

                                * STRESSED is DESSERTS spelled backwards! *
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                                • Oh Evalee, there are just no words. I am so very very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers. Our deepest condolences.

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                                  • I am so sorry! My thoughts and prayers are for you and your family.
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                                    • I am so sorry.

                                      He must be very special to need to be called home on Christmas Day.

                                      Darlyn
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                                      • We grieve for our loss of companionship, but he has not lost. He is in a wonderful place. He can still hear you, and if you listen very closely, you can still hear him.

                                        Darlyn
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                                        • I am so sorry about Alexander. Some years ago, my brother died suddenly, at age 27. He was at the wheel of his car, stopped at a red light. He just never drove on. We never found a "real" cause of death.

                                          This is a very painful time, I know, for you and your family. It took us all, especially my mother, years to be able to speak about him without tears. But, this peace will come to you too, in its own time, and you will remember him with joy as well as sadness.

                                          {{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}} and condolences - my thoughts are with you.

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