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  • Originally posted by equinelove View Post
    I'm not sure I have any advice but I wanted to share a related experience of my own. I ride at a very well known, reputable barn in our area.I have my own horse. Last summer, "Beau" had been "off" for about two weeks with an injury and I was slowly bringing him back. There was a show on that weekend that I wasn't going in.I decided to go to the barn and watch everyone else ride though. Well, to my shock, I see my horse in the show with another boarder on him! I confronted the BO who basically looked like "oops, i've been caught". She apologized but the trust is gone.
    If that happened to me, I'm afraid I would have cause a horrible scene. Even my husband wasn't allowed to ride my horse without permission/supervision. There is no way a stranger would get away with it.

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    • I wouldn't even bother with any of the legal stuff. I would simply scout around for a smaller private stable that has happy, healthy looking horses and move post haste. No need for further discussion, just move. You will spend more time and energy worrying about whether or not someone is riding your horse and really who needs the drama. You will not be able to trust what they are telling you so there will always be doubt in your mind.
      "The well being of a horse should never be compromised for the ego of a human" dlg 06

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      • Originally posted by Breakaway hAlter
        Should I have an attorney draft a letter and have everyone sign it - then staple a copy to my contract? Have the farm re-write the contract? Any suggestions?
        No you should leave. (sorry!)

        All it's going to take is for someone to ride the horse 1 more time: either the horse gets badly hurt and there goes your horse. Or they get badly hurt, come up with some BS story about how someone said they were allowed to ride the horse, and then they name you in the lawsuit. Or they take him out on the trail, something dumb happens and they fall, and your horse vanishes in the woods.. and of course they won't tell anyone he's gone because then they're busted.

        I like the idea of writing your name & number on the horse.

        Too bad you can't coat the horse in something harmless but annoying. Maybe put a horse-safe dye on his coat where the saddle goes, the same color as his natural fur. When the sneak pulls his/her saddle off him, the dye will be all over the sneak's saddle and britches. Caught in the act!

        Honestly though, it's not worth it. If BO cared, she'd have taken action before now. She could've stepped up watch of the farm, added a closed-circuit camera, or something.
        Veterinarians for Equine Welfare

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        • I would leave, pronto; it will be a pain in the rear in the short term, but a huge weight off your shoulders - and your horse's, in the literal sense! - in the long run.

          Good luck.

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          • Unauthorised riding

            I am a barn owner, I have about 15 boarders. I would be horrified and a very upset if anyone was riding a boarders horse without permission.

            And a barn employee being rude to a horse owner concerned about their horses well being or welfare in this situation would be grounds for fireing them.

            But in defence of the BO in this case, I also have a barn manager to handle all the daily details and I personally am not in the least bit aware of any arrangements my boarders make with each other. SO if I saw a barn employee or a boarder riding another boarders horse I would assume that an arrangement had been made between them. So until the boarder or the BM came to me to tell me that things were happening I would not necessarily know that there was a problem.

            So in all probability the BO was not aware of the problem, but as she is now is aware, I am sure she will deal with it!

            I hope that will be to the OP satisfacton, if it isn't then I would also suggest moving the horse.
            But see what the BO can do first.

            Good Luck I hope you get it resolved.
            MW
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            • Been there done that. I rode at a very prestigious barn with a BNT as a junior. I had a great Junior jumper that maybe was a bit strong for me but a fantastic jumper previous grand prix horse. Said trainer LOFFED HIM he asked my family on many ocations could he ride / use him for his advanced students.

              My mother made arrangements for said trainer to school the horse a couple of Mornings a week for me. No using him as a school horse she ddint want him over jumped. Fast forward .. One day no school going to barn to ride as we come around the corrner there is my horse with a student jumping 1.30 meter fences. I just about jumped out of the moving car. My mom inturupts lesson trainer is horrified that we caught him. Student exclaims ... Ive been riding him for weeks!!!

              Solution moved horse...if you cant trust them get the hell out!!!
              "I would not beleive her if her tongue came notorized"

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              • Originally posted by chai View Post
                You may not like my answer, but I think you should move your horse. If you found a stain and a saddle mark on your horse, and you are a paying boarder in the barn, the BO should have been all over that, finding out what happened, apologizing profusely and making sure it didn't happen again. She bears the liability if somethig happens to your horse, and as the BO, doesn't it sound strange that she is not furious that somoene is sneaking rides on a boarder's horse?

                There are too many unanswered questions, and it is emotionally draining to be worried about your horse all the time when you're paying someone To Take Care Of Him! It is an outrageous situation, and I urge you to find a place where the owner is more on top of things and the barn workers don't have such a nasty attitude. You're a paying customer...you don't deserve that.
                It's time to pack your tack trunk and get going.
                If you are a "high profile client" that happens, they apologize and fix it. If you are not a "high profile client" and your horse is just pasture boarded, he is treated like a second class citizen (as are you), and both you and your horse are frequently overlooked. Happens to me a lot.
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                • Did I miss something? It looks to me like the last time the OP posted in this thread was in March.

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