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  • #81
    Like others, I am sitting here in tears, feeeling and sharing your pain and loss. Oh that we could freeze them all in time, and keep them with us forever physically. Their spirits never leave, and that we can be thankful for.

    I am sure Dutch will be there to greet Lucy, as will all of the past horses in all of our lives.

    I have this vision in my mind of Lucy in the sky, with diamonds. I like it.

    My condolences to you and yours Gail. God speed, Lucy, you are loved and truely blessed.

    Eileen


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    Eileen
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    • #82
      Huggs from South Carolina. I'm very sorry for the pain your going through. It's sounds to me that Lucy has wonderful parents that love her very much. Lucy, you sweet mare go with God and run through the green pastures of heaven.


      Trisha

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      • #83
        Fred,

        My deepest condolences to you. I share your pain; I had to put down my stallion a number of years ago (age 24) because with his arthritis I knew it would be just plain cruel to put him through another Canadian winter.

        Take care.

        Founder of the Olde Farte Clique; Member of the Dented Thigh Clique
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        • #84
          WOW, Lucy was well loved by you here on earth. Her spirit will stay with you forever Fred. I am so sorry for your loss.

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          • #85
            <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by fleur:
            oh fred, {{{{{{hugs}}}}}} here's one of my favorite poems that springs to mind:

            <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR> Do not stand at my grave and weep.
            I am not there, I do not sleep.
            I am a thousand winds that blow,
            I am the diamond glints in snow,
            I am the sunlight and ripened grain.
            I am the gentle Autumn rain.
            When you awake in the morning hush,
            I am the swift upflinging rush
            of quiet birds in circling flight.
            I am the soft stars that shine at night.
            Do not stand at my grave and cry,
            I am not there, I did not die.

            _-mary e. frye_<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

            <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

            Thank you posting this poem Fleur!!! I'm going to print it out for myself.

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            • #86
              Blessings to Lucy and to you. May she become the horse that lived, and may comfort come for the horse that died. equescool

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              • #87
                Dear Lucy, know that you were loved here and know that "up there," dozens and dozens and dozens of our special friends are waiting to welcome you to the herd.

                Godspeed, Lucy. And a very big hug to your hu-mom. You and she and all of us know that she did right by you till the very end.

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                • #88
                  Oh Gail, I'm so so sorry to hear about Lucy.

                  I'll never forget that beautiful face of hers and also wish I knew her at her prime.

                  How fitting that you were there for her arrival, and for her passing, and all the ups and downs in between. I'm sure she never could have dreamed of a life so good. May she live on in your memories and in her beautiful babies. Take care of yourself.

                  ~Mighty TB Clique~
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                  • #89
                    Hugs to you all.

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                    Finally down to a manageable number!

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                    • #90
                      Hugs to you - and here is part of one of my favorite poems, "From Blossoms" by Li-Young Li. I think it is very fitting in many instances - we DO take what we love inside of us, and carry it with us forever.



                      O, to take what we love inside,
                      to carry within us an orchard, to eat
                      not only the skin, but the shade,
                      not only the sugar, but the days, to hold
                      the fruit in our hands, adore it, then bite into
                      the round jubilance of peach.

                      There are days we live
                      as if death were nowhere
                      in the background; from joy
                      to joy to joy, from wing to wing,
                      from blossom to blossom to
                      impossible blossom, to sweet impossible blossom.

                      'O lente, lente currite noctis equi' - Ovid

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                      • #91
                        There is nothing I can say that hasn't already been beautifully said by my fellow bb members. I wish your dearest mare a safe and comfortable passage, and I wish you many hugs from friends and nuzzles from the rest of the horses you take such wonderful care of. As someone else said, I would dearly love to be a horse in your care. You are one in a million, and we are all here to give you big cyber shoulders to cry on.

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                        *Formerly known as LeapOfFaith*
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                        *Formerly known as Seabiscuit*

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                        • #92
                          Fred, your lovely Lucy was in my thoughts today even though I didn't have time to post. I'm sure that Silver, Willem, Showbiz and a host of others were waiting to greet her and show her how the rainbow bridge makes limbs and hearts young again.

                          I'm so very sorry.

                          Amanda

                          "Waste no time arguing what a good person shall be, be one."
                          -Marcus Aurelius
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                          • #93
                            I am so sorry

                            "You could say I'm a few flakes short of a bale"
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                            • #94
                              My heartfelt condolences to you Fred.
                              May her memory live on in your heart. It is always so hard, and you will never forget, but fond memories will keep her with you forever.
                              So very sorry.
                              Belindale Farm
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                              • #95
                                Dear, dear Gail; I grieve with you and know, all to well, the pain that you are going through.

                                I have held you and your sweet girl in my thoughts all through this sad, sad day. I could barely read your post through the tears, feeling the ache, right along with you.

                                I hope that you know all that I want to say, even when words fail. I sent an e-mail to you wherein I tried to convey some small comfort.

                                Please know that your dear Lucy is being held close within all the hearts here. Her good fortune in being yours has followed her through all the days of her precious life--and never more than now. Your good stewardship over her has ever been her blessing. Please, let this knowledge give you some peace in your resolve. Her bright spirit, even as it flies, will always remain, as a part of you.

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                                • #96
                                  Gail,

                                  Hugs from MD for you and your husband
                                  during this difficult time. My father said that one of the most difficult things about having pets (I'm going to include horses here too--- if we love them, they're a pet) is that they don't live as long as we do and we have the pain of loosing them.

                                  I found this quote earlier this year and it sounds like it relates to your wonderful mare

                                  <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>“Some horses come into our
                                  lives and quickly go... Others stay a while, make hoof prints on our hearts and we are never quite the same.”

                                  -anonymous<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                  Rest in peace dear Lucy.

                                  MKB...

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                                  • #97
                                    Oh Gail, this must be such a hard time for you. Hope our words bring some small comfort

                                    We will fly, you and I,
                                    Up above the moonlit sky,
                                    Silver wings to take you high,
                                    Hooves to dance your sad goodbye.

                                    Godspeed dear Lucy,

                                    Alixe

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                                    • #98
                                      So sorry.....

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                                        #99
                                        thank you everyone for your kind thoughts and words, and for holding thoughts of sweet Lucy in your heart.
                                        I'd like to think your prayers helped her passage.
                                        The bitter cold let up for a few days, so the ground was not so hard and unforgiving, even though they had called for freezing rain, that too held off, and it was mild and breezy, with the sun coming out for a while.
                                        As everyone who has been through this knows, part of this is all the details, how to do everything to minimize any stress or possible fear, and to make everything as normal and gentle as possible.
                                        Lucy and her daughter Oohlala and her friend Emma were turned out in the field where we intended to put Lucy down and to bury her. She ran as best she could, tail up and snorting, staring off into the horizon - and then settling down to graze.......
                                        I do feel privileged and honoured to have known Lucy and for having her in my life. For those who may not have heard the story, Lucy was in a way a miracle baby. Many years ago, I went to look at a 3 yr old OTTB who was for sale. In the same barn was this incredibly beautiful mare, his mother - who had been barren ever since foaling him. We bought the big grey colt, my Bob, but I could not get that beautiful mare out of my mind, and tried to get someone to buy her (we did not have a farm at the time, and two horses seemed to be enough)
                                        A year later this mare came up for auction at the Woodbine Mixed Sale - she had a wonderful pedigree, and since these were the heydays of the astronomical TB prices we did not think we would be able to afford her -
                                        but once again she was barren - five years in a row - so were able to buy her.. against all common sense.
                                        the next year we bred her to an extremely unfashionable Irish TB, just 16 h, athletic, catlike and springy.. the mare did not catch .. until the August cover... and the next August, Lucy (short for the Elusive Foal) was born.
                                        The afternoon she was born, I was alone with Mom, Bob and Rhet and the little incredibly beautiful Lucy. The barn was silent - the two boys almost holding their breath as Mom licked both her baby and me....
                                        I tried to explain to my husband yesterday as we sat sobbing on the couch how magical that moment was, how privileged I felt to have been able to glimpse and participate in a miracle..
                                        He said something that has been a comfort to me.. it is like a door opening, just a crack, and you glimpse that light beyond, and Lucy slipped into our life.. we travelled along the passage with her.. to another door, that opened yet a crack, and once again, she slipped through... leaving us missing her, behind the door......
                                        I had so much fun with Lucy, fun with her at the racetrack, fun going cross country with her .. she was so tough and brave, I used to imagine I was on a trek (the Civil War/ across the steppes something..) and Lucy was my brave mount, marching along.. snorting with every breathe .. looking for a hedge or a split rail to jump...
                                        She was a horse who would veer off the track towards the jump, dragging you with her... and you never had to ask, just HOLD ON..
                                        Her biggest drawback was that she had me for a rider.. everyone who saw her jump thought that she was phenomenal.. perhaps not GP, but at least an Open Jumper..
                                        but she started her new career as a broodmare, and she excelled at that too, she was wonderful - and she has had beautiful babies...
                                        I have decided to keep her Holsteiner filly Oohlala, show her in the jumpers and keep her as a future broodmare. I would like to have that legacy from Lucy. I feel lucky to have had her, her brothers Bob and Fred and her sister Cricket.
                                        Reading your posts has had me crying my eyes out, and unable to respond until now.
                                        Thank you again kind hearts for your words and prayers for a good horse.
                                        A Fine Romance. April 1991 - June 2016. Loved forever.

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                                        • Dear Gail,
                                          I just read your post and I'm so sorry.
                                          What a beautiful story about Lucy. Hold her near in your heart and remember her at her finest. {{{{{Hugs}}}}}

                                          Lawny

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