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Someone who doesn't wear a helmet!! ARGH!

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  • I have complete respect for people who choose to wear a helmet all the time. It's a wise choice. I also respect people who choose not to. Why? Because it's their choice, not mine. I wear a helmet when jumping or riding an unfamiliar horse. Most of my riding is done in a western schooling saddle, in which I feel pretty secure. Sure, horses are unpredictable, and I could be thrown at any time. But I'm an adult, and when riding my own horse, who is as bombproof as they come (though of course no horse is totally bombproof), I choose not to wear a helmet. It might be different if I grew up in the hunter world, rather than the AQHA world. As it is, I started riding at age 8 and never knew people even rode in helmets until several years later when I started riding huntseat. I didn't own an approved helmet until I started occasionally jumping at 14.

    The bottom line is, acting self-righteous and sanctimonious about your helmet choice - whether pro or con - isn't going to do anything to convince the other "side" that you're right. People who choose not to wear helmets are probably not likely to be convinced to wear them. All of the arguing only stirs up the "helmet war" that really shouldn't exist anyway.
    Cowboy up.

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    • I also always wear a helmet when riding, and when taking horsie back to his pasture. When I was in high school, I was turning out a dead-broke pony before school, something spooked him, and he pulled, kicked out, and caught me on the side of my head. It didn't hurt, more like a thud, but during my first period class, I typed the first and third paragraphs together, did not even see the middle one-luckily I had a great teacher who brought that to my attention, then she looked at my eyes, and said to call home. Really bad concussion. I've been wearing mine since then.
      Life is great when you can hug a horse.

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      • I wear my helmet all the time. Also a eventing vest(more for my bad back.

        I never wore one as a kid either but now that I am a parent I feel I must set a good example for my daughter(7). The majority of stables where I live do not allow under 18 to ride w/o one on their premises(insurance issues).

        I never harp on anyone else for not using one; but if they wish to ride one of my horses; they have to. I don't want to get sued by a friend that rides my horse w/o a helmet and then get sued when they get hurt.

        My 2 cents.

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        • Mr. Bumpkins theory is enough to make anyone wear a helmet! Scary!
          Not to make this about Parellis, But those people are an accident waiting for a place to happen, I cant stand watching them do their games bareback jumping over barrels horses all over the Arena, not a Helmet in sight. How irresponsible of them to tell their students that they are not necessary. The greatest riders in the world can still fall off. They are horses the best trained ones are still unpredictable!

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          • Do the Parelli's really say that helmets are not necessary or are they just leading by example (or lack of)???? I did attend a "NH" clinic this spring on a whim and there were no helmets in sight there either....no wonder I felt out of place
            Robin

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            • Here's another perspective: Unless complete beginners, most riders realize that helmets exist and agree (not meaning to put words in anyone's mouth ) that they are good things. Keeping that in mind, there is no reason to run around hounding people about wearing them. It is the person's right to decide what to wear or not wear unless that person is the charge of another (such as taking a lesson with a trainer, riding at a boarding barn, etc.). Unless one is directly in charge of that person, leave him/her alone. If that person is a friend, sure, discuss helmets out of concern. But, leave it be at that. If I had a friend who constantly harped on me about wearing a helmet, I would cross that person off my list for not respecting my viewpoint. If a stranger was following me around constantly "reminding" me to put a helmet on, I'd complain to the BO.

              FYI: I wear a helmet when I'm jumping, riding a horse that isn't mine, and if my horse is spooky/wild for some reason. Otherwise, I do not. Out of approx. 55 horses at our barn, only the h/j lesson people wear helmets regularly.
              "And now . . .off to violin-land, where all is sweetness and delicacy and harmony and there are no red-headed clients to vex us with their conundrums."

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              • I started at a h/j barn, so I love my brain bucket. However, I trail guide sometimes, and it ruins the Western image to have the guide wearing a helmet, according to the guy who runs the place- so I don't wear one, but I ride a big, sweet older mare who knows the trail so well that I could lie back and sleep, and she'd guide the ride.

                I am the only one at my current barn who ever wears a helmet except when jumping. I wear mine on the two year olds I work with, but not always on the older horses. Before I moved to this barn, I always wore my helmet. However, a great deal of the trick to not sustaining a head injury is to not fall on your head- and over the years I've developed a pretty good seat and a nice flip-n-roll technique if I'm already coming off. I land on my butt or my feet 90% of the time. I wear a helmet when riding ponies, because they're so quick that I don't have as much warning.

                I should wear my brain bucket all the time, but I don't if I'm pretty sure I'm not coming off- however, I advise everyone I know to wear them all the time. Do as I say, not as I do! If I move my horse again, I will probably go back to wearing the 'wuss hat', as some of the lesson kids call it, all the time.

                Point is, the environment and, dare I say, peer pressure affects even intelligent and experienced adults.
                "The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated." - Gandhi

                -my gelding is a ho clique-

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                • While I believe that everyone has the right to decide whether or not to wear a helmet, I think that people who refuse to wear a helmet should take a moment to think about the people who care about them and would be left tending to a brain-injured Mom, daughter, son, spouse, or planning a funeral just because someone didn't feel like wearing a helmet and had an accident. Is it really worth it?
                  Does anyone else remember the moving letter posted here by the Mom whose daughter died a couple of years ago when she jumped on her pony at a big show without a helmet for just a quick ride, and he threw her? That post was heartbreaking. With horses, anything can and does happen, and it only takes a fraction of a second for a disaster. A few years ago, I saw a man fall off his horse in front of a crowd of 100 people watching the stadium portion of a Horse Trials. His horse took a simple mis-step and off he went, striking his head on a rock. I can still hear the sound...ugh, a loud, dull thump. He didn't get up right away, and he went off in an ambulance, but he was alive. He would have died for sure, in front of all of us, if he was not wearing his helmet.
                  I still believe it is up to the individual, but I just don't understand why people don't wear a helmet. They are comfortable and they can save your life.

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                  • For those who dont wear helmets, I just suggest that you go and work with or volunteer with brain injured folks, perhaps then you will understand why helmets are so important.

                    And for those of you who STILL dont wear helmets (bike, motorcycle or equestrian) I feel that it is your choice to make, but do not then apply for Medicade/Medicare, disability, public assistance, etc when you do sustain an injury. I feel that if you make the choice to not protect yourself, then society should not have to make up for your choice and take care of your disabled self for the rest of your life.

                    I work with folks with brain injuries, train therapeutic riding horses, event and always wear my helmet. I choose my brain over fashion.
                    Karma and Drifter girl
                    http://www.horsescanhelp.com
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                    • I can't tell anyone else what to do, and so I won't, but I will point out what I think is flawed logic... Just about every single time I've fallen off and hit my head (not often, I admit, thankfully!), it was a day that I didn't think I was going to come off. Horse was trained and calm at the outset - good weather, nothing super dangerous going on. That whole theory of only wearing it when you think you need it is like saying you'd only wear a seatbelt when you're going to drive recklessly. Anything can happen, and we can't predict when accidents are going to happen.

                      I also think making decisions about how and when to protect your brain shouldn't be made on the basis of fashion... but that's just my $.02. That and a quarter will get you a local call.


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                      • I would do her a favor and talk to her about what could happen.

                        I always wear a helmet, today I almost didn't because I was sweating but decided to be safe. I was so glad I did because my horse decided to buck me off and I landed on my head, I did not want to think about how my head would feel if I did not have me helmet on.
                        -Lindsey

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                        • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by inca:
                          Say something very nicely once and then let it go. I always wear a helmet with my young horses but usually do not with my older, more reliable horses. You couldn't pay me enough to get on a young horse without a helmet. I don't care how quiet that young horse is. However, I certainly would get highly annoyed if someone was constantly telling me to wear a helmet. It's really no one's business except mine. I DO follow the rules and wear a helmet at places that require it. But, other than that, it is my choice. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                          Agreed, and I do the same. On the younger or more flighty types, I even wear my turtleback. Or when I jump, I do wear my helmet then. In any case, her head, her life. So long as she follows rules, let it go.
                          RIP Bo, the real Appassionato
                          5/5/84-7/12/08

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                          • In a non-judgemental way, say that you/friend is concerned about this person's safety. But only say it once. She is an adult who is fully capable of making her own decision - it's the exact same situation as a seat belt in a car. Everyone makes a concious decision about their lives, it's rather pretentious to tell someone they aren't making the right decision. If you continue to harp on it, you/your friend might lose a friend.
                            Diana

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                            • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Phaxxton:
                              I can't tell anyone else what to do, and so I won't, but I will point out what I think is flawed logic... Just about every single time I've fallen off and hit my head (not often, I admit, thankfully!), it was a day that I didn't think I was going to come off. Horse was trained and calm at the outset - good weather, nothing super dangerous going on. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                              You are so right. My worst falls all came off my own horses (calm, quiet, well-behaved for the most part). My first horse was a real slug on a hot summer day, so I never expected anything to happen. Well, he got stung by bees while I was out for a walk on the trail on a very hot summer day, and that was quite the ride (it included an emergency dismount into a tree)! That was the only time that horse *ever* ran off with me, but it was on the kind of day that I least expected it. I wasn't wearing a helmet, but it was around then that I contemplated the "every ride, every time" policy. (Wearing a helmet for every ride, that is.)

                              Second bad fall -- just walking my second horse around outside. It was a cold, rainy day, but that shouldn't have mattered. It did. Boom. We're airborn. Good thing my helmet was on.

                              Third bad fall -- just trotting over ground poles on my third horse. I do something stupid and off we go. My ribs hurt so badly (after I fell), that I didn't even know I'd hit my head. My instructor told me later I hit a ground pole with my head when I fell. I had my helmet on, and never felt my head hit anything. Ribs broken, head fine. After that I contemplate the "perhaps I should wear a body protector every ride" policy, but haven't quite enforced that yet.

                              I do believe it's your choice as to whether or not you wear a helmet, and I know that some people what have been riding for a long time just don't feel they ned that helmet. And I know in some disciplines helmets "look silly." I figure you only get one head (one brain actually).

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                              • These threads always make me laugh, people are so self-righteous about the fact that if you don't wear a helmet you are putting your loved ones at risk of losing you. Um, we all ride right? There is a pretty good arguement to be made for NOT riding horses if you have children or other dependants. How would you react if you were constantly being asked by your mother-in-law and your spouse to quit riding because they were afraid you would get hurt and leave your children as orphans? There'd be a topic "My Spouse is A Miserable STupid Jerk" in like 2 seconds. And everyone would support your decision to ride, even if you were competing at Advanced Eventing on a horse named Widowmaker.

                                The constant tales of "I got bucked off last year and if I hadn't been wearing my helmet I'd be DEAD!!" get old too. Talk to rodeo riders. Heck, I got bucked off headfirst into a wall sans helmet years ago and was perfectly unharmed. Helmets CAN save your from injury, sure but not every injury and sometimes, just sometimes, you don't get hurt even if you're not wearing one.

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                                • Coming from a person who doesn't wear a helmet, ask her about why she doesn't and make a couple valid suggestions as to the benifits of wearing one. But do it once and only once.

                                  I have had a few people ask me and it doesn't bother me until someone tries to hound me about it and all that succeeds in doing is pissing me off. Then again, I have a short temper so that doesn't take much. LoL.

                                  In the past nine years I've been bucked off, kicked, fallen on, stepped on, bit, fallen off due to being off balance, and fallen due to stupidity on my part. To this day the worst injuries I've had around horses have NEVER been due to falling.

                                  I DO however where one most of the time when jumping or on a strange horse.

                                  Before anyone asks, no I don't wear a helmet when bike riding either. I do where one when on my motorcycle and 4-wheeler though.

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