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It's a MIRACLE! The last hearing was today 11/10, update on p. 13

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  • I'm so sorry for you, Applesauce family! I know the process has been heartbreaking and emotionally draining, but try to be happy that you made a difference for little Reese. I hope for your sakes that Reese is returned to you, and I also hope that Reese's grandma can take good care of her. Try to always keep something positive in mind to look forward to, and good for you for considering adoption. (((HUGS)))

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    • Mrs. A., I grieve with you.

      I'm not surprised at the outcome, however. Biology seems to generally win out, no matter the evidence.

      Be ANGRY. it's okay.
      Scream. Cry. Throw things. Let it all out. You'll be better for it, and more clear in your mind. Then you can think about the future. We kept the name of The Little One We Almost Got in our hearts and after 6 years, my beautiful, talented, kind, and giving daughter wears it and remembers the little one who might have had it.

      I see a Reese in your future. Someday, when the time is right, when you least expect it. The Energy is out there, knowing what you need.

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      • Prayers for the Applesauce family.
        I'm so sorry to hear this and I hope that
        the loving and safe home you gave her will
        bring you some comfort. You have made
        a difference in one little child's life and
        I pray you get the chance again.

        Really, I'm just so sorry for you and for Reese.


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        • I am so sorry....

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          • I'm so sorry for your broken heart...

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            • I am so sorry for you and Mr. Applesauce. I have been reading your posts from the beginning and can't imagine how devastated you must be. I admire you both for taking the risk to your hearts when you began this journey with Reese. I am praying that your journey is not over. I will thinking of you next Wednesday.

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              • I'm so sorry to hear of this. I was really praying for a different outcome.

                but like others said, you made a difference in the life of this little girl. You opened your hearts to her, even while knowing that she may not stay. To me, that means the Applesauce family is quality folks.
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                • My heart is breaking for you and Mr A and Reese as well. I truly feel that remaining with you as a family would be the best thing for little Reese. A good friend of mine has a sibling in a similar situatio andI have been praying that both of these dear babies will be able to stay in caring adoptive homes.

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                  • Applesauce, you and Mr. A have done a wonderful and selfless thing by taking in little Reese and loving her, not knowing what the outcome might be. My heart breaks for you, I wish that the outcome had been different. Though it sounds trite, you never know what fate has in store for you around the corner, I do believe that when God closes a door He opens a window. Take care, Hugs to you and yours.

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                    • So sorry, Applesauce.
                      Thoughts and prayers and (((((((((HUGS)))))))))
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                      • So sorry for you and your family, Applesauce! But I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. I can't begin to imagine how painful this is for you, but keep your chin up as best as you can. That little girl was so lucky to have you and your family in her life, no matter how short a time! Jingles...

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                        • I am so saddened. Obviously you are an incredible woman with a huge heart. Big hugs to you and your family.
                          ~Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away...

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                          • My heart goes out to all three of you.
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                            • I am so terribly sorry. I don't even know what to say. You gave Reese a warm safe start at a very important formative time in her life. And you loved her. And that is a wonderful thing to give to such a tiny little person.

                              Time will tell what happens next. My heart goes out to you - I really am very sorry.
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                              • Im sory to hear. Atleast in a time where she had no one, someone was there to hold her and warm her with all the love they have. Atleast in a time where no one loved her she found love. For her first few days on this earth she had someone to love her the way she needed to be. She is a lucky little one because there are many of her who do not have a warm heart to hold her when she needed to be held.

                                In time the sadness will pass but there are hundreds of little ones just like her who will never know what it feels like their first few days on this earth, to be held and loved by someone like you. There are hundreds of children who as the day pass grow up and feel unwanted because their mother abandoned them and would give anything to have a mommy to love them.

                                Actualy this very topic Chris and I have talked about and at some point after we get passed having our first in the many years to come think we might take that risk to let a littleone have a mommy and daddy to love them that might not have had the oppertuinity down the road. Wherther it be a newborn or a slightly older child we are not sure but children who grow up in group homes desire one thing and that is a set of parents to just love them so they find need in their life.
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                                • I'm sorry, Applesause. Here's a big hug. {{}}
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                                  • I am so sorry for all of you. You obviously have an incredible amount of love to give to a child, I hope your heart mends enough to allow another one in some day.
                                    {{{{{Hugs}}}}}

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                                    • "He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of his devotion."
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                                      • Oh, Gosh. so sorry, Applesauce.

                                        {} hugs.

                                        BarbaraG
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                                        • So sorry for you, Applesauce. Something similar happened to someone I knew years ago. You must be devastated -- but I want to echo those who are encouraging you to hang on to the idea of adoption. There are so many children who need loving homes. I'm sure the right one will find you.

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