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It's a MIRACLE! The last hearing was today 11/10, update on p. 13

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  • I'll be jingling away from now until then that everything works out for you! It sounds like she is in the best possible place for her to be, and I hope the courts recognize that.

    I'm amazed that you are keeping such a good outlook! Keep your chins up, and everyone here will keep our fingers crossed.

    What if the Hokey Pokey *IS* what its all about?
    What if the Hokey Pokey *IS* what its all about?

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    • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by JulieMontgomery:
      Good God!

      Sixteen years and nine children?

      Where is involuntary sterilization when you need it?

      It's always been my theory that you shove women like that through something that looks like a metal detector and - POOF- sterilized!

      No muss, no fuss.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

      AMEN.

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      • Best of luck to you and your family, Applesauce. I'm praying little Reese gets to stay right where she belongs...with you and Mr. Applesauce.

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        • wow, somehow i missed this thread until now! Sometimes you wish they could just skip all of the "legal" aspects of it, and just look at the child and just let the obvious solution happen! I mean, there is no doubt that this child would be better raised in your home than in the home of her real family. Oftentimes the grandmothers and fathers are exactly like the mothers in their behavior.

          I pray that she will be able to stay with your family...so she can grow up riding ponies and playing in the barn rather than living in a smoke-filled home where the mother obviously doesn't care about her...

          Heather
          Heather

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          • Praying for you!

            BarbaraG
            GWV/cheers, prayers anything that works!

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            • And some more from AZ.

              Thanks for keeping us updated - we're all pulling for you and Reese!!
              ~* Be kind to one another *~

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              • Aw man! All this waiting is the pits! I am jingling and jangling away for you! they have GOT to realize that the child is much better off with you and Mr. A!

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                • Keeping all my toes and fingers crossed that the courts do the right thing here... obviously the birthmother (note I didn't say mom) is awful, and the father can't be much better if he is JUST NOW coming around to a visit.

                  No matter what happens, you have given Reese a loving headstart in life that she would have never received otherwise. Keep us posted.

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                    <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Halfhalting:
                    ...and the father can't be much better if he is JUST NOW coming around to a visit.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                    The dad is just coming around to visit because he just got out of jail.

                    I feel so bad for my poor neglected horses. They've been getting fed everyday and have plenty of fresh water but ride??? What's that??? My legs are probably like Jell-O. I'm going to ride all 3 on Saturday if it kills me. Mr. A is going to watch the wee one while I spend some much over due time down in my messy barn. I miss my boys. I listed my 3 yo TB for sale because I've come to the realization that I just can't handle 3 anymore with the baby and a full time job. Just ain't happenin'. I'll miss him because he's such a wonderful guy, but I have to do what's best for him and find him a wonderful home. In the mean time I need to get the other 2 back in shape and get my butt back in shape. The show season is almost gone!

                    "Ladies and gentlemen, take my advice. Pull down your pants and slide on the ice." quote from the tv series M*A*S*H
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                    • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Applesauce:
                      The dad is just coming around to visit because he just got out of jail. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

                      Any chance the sperm donor and carrier (I refuse to call these people "parents") can show up to the hearing in matching orange jumpsuits?

                      I know the law is an ass, but I am really rooting for you and Mr. A to keep Reese. The above people are not worthy of such a sweet thing!

                      Founder of the Olde Farte Clique; Member of the Dented Thigh Clique
                      If it ain't tack shopping, it's a waste of time and money.
                      Founder of the Olde Farte Clique

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                      • Oh Applesauce, don't feel guilty about the horses. They have unconditional love and will be there waiting for you when this whole mess is settled. You will find a great home for the 3 yr. old and he will start a new life. The other two will always be ready to start work and as for you butt, once that little girl starts walking (running) you'll not be sitting still for long!

                        Keep the faith! It will all work out!

                        You can run with the big dogs or sit on the porch and bark.
                        Beware the hobby that eats.
                        Benjamin Franklin

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                        • Applesauce, PT me if you need some help selling the horse.

                          Keep looking at my 6 month old baby and thinking there is NO WAY they can give her to those people! And the "Dad".. sperm donation does not make a Papa.
                          "Kindness is free" ~ Eurofoal
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                          The CoTH CYA - please consult w/your veterinarian under any and all circumstances.

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                            *phew* She's with us a while longer at least. The 30 day review was today and the judge ordered a further home study and background checks on everyone living in the Grandmother's house hold. So, she's with us for at least another couple of weeks.

                            Believe me, we were on pins and needles all weekend and dreading today. But the judge is doing what is mandatory by law and hopefully the truth will come out about Grandma and the people she lives with.

                            I can't thank everyone enough for all their prayers and jingles. I honestly believe that the judge found the wisdom to grant this continuance...he could have just ruled that Reese was to go today! The jingling really does work!! I'll update everyone again as soon as we know when the next hearing is. We are very relieved but staying realistic...in other words, we aren't going pony shopping yet. The funny thing is, is that I actually had someone offer me their 9 hand mini that their daughter had outgrown! She did the leadlines on her!! LOL

                            "Ladies and gentlemen, take my advice. Pull down your pants and slide on the ice." quote from the tv series M*A*S*H
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                            • Glad to hear the good news she's staying and continuing with jingles & prayers.

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                              • Oh Applesauce, good news! I will keep up with the jingles and prayers as well.

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                                • Thanks for the "good news" update. This must be so heart-wrenching for you. Do you go through an emotional struggle, not knowing? Sort of like maybe holding back just a bit "just in case?" I would never have the strength to do what you and so many others are doing.

                                  Jingles for you and your family. Hope you are together FOREVER.

                                  "I am not afraid of storms, for I am learning to sail my ship."
                                  -Louisa May Alcott
                                  "My friends, love is better than anger. Hope is better than fear. Optimism is better than despair. So let us be loving, hopeful and optimistic. And we'll change the world." ~ Jack Layton

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                                  • Thanks for the wonderful update A! I'll keep jingling for you, Mr. A, and Reese, and I can only hope that the judge sees what is best for Reese.

                                    "Nobody said it was easy, no one ever said it would be this hard"
                                    -Coldplay
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                                    • Hang in there and enjoy every moment you have with her...whether it's days or forever. With all the positive energy being generated from this group, it should be forever!!

                                      No matter what, she'll always have this time with you where she was loved, safe and secure. I really believe that will stay somewhere inside her always.

                                      Good luck and know lots of people are praying and jingling for Reese and your family!!

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                                      • I'll be prayin' VERY hard..........

                                        "We'll raise up our glasses against evil forces, singing Whiskey for my men, beer for my horses." --some country song
                                        \"My insurance doesn\'t cover PMS.\" --10 things I hate about you

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                                        • We have our hooves crossed here!! Jingling for Baby Applesauce!!
                                          mizzwade

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