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Am I losing my love for horses????? :-(

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  • #61
    Seahorse farm: Wasn't necessarily talking about the abilities of the doctors and therapists but more about the creature comforts- nice rooms, soft beds, good food. I've also seen the ones with linoleum floors, 2 inch thick mattresses and shared rooms, institution green walls and institution green food.

    I suppose it depends upon your addictions whether comfort is important or not. If you are a crack addict who has been sleeping under a freeway overpass, not so much. But if you're a middle aged professional addicted to Oxycontin, comfort counts for alot.

    I still am curious as to the substances being abused.

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    • #62
      If you are going to continue using drugs....giving up the horses is a no brainer....because eventually, you are going to give up everything. You are going to give up horses, even if you dont want to. You are going to give up your family, your dignity, their pride,your pride...your future. Do you really want to be a social degenerate who cannot even function as a normal productive member of society? You are also going to give up a family.....the house you probably always dreamed about when you were a kid....the beautiful kids...the dog, the caring husband one day...its all going to go down the drain. You are going to be giving up a lot more than horses.....maybe the horses are the least of your problems if you are doing drugs...dont you think? I am probably being as harsh as anyone who does drugs is weak minded. Why could you let a substance control your life? Go make something of yourself....please get help. The world really does not need one more person to support on the taxpayers money...one human being who screwed up their life, when every chance to succeed was given to them. This just really angers me..I had to work my ass off to get everything I have. NOthing was handed to me. NOTHING. and you are going to insult your parents like this? Ruin your life like this? When you have the world at your fingertips? I wish I only had it as easy as you say you do now. Get some help. Take up exercise or something constructive with your body.
      "Lose your temper, lose your horse" -someone wise enough to know better than to pick a fight with a 1200 lb animal that could launch you to the moon.

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      • #63
        reading this, ok, is the OP looking for attention, or all the people responding to her? what can't you read? especially with his/her responses? this is indeed the Jerry Springer show for horse folks. You like your drug of choice better than your horse/truck/trailer, ok CHECK OUT, get off the internet, make a clean break and stop whining, you want help, go somewhere with people trained to help you, not the internet.
        POYBGP, member in good standing.

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        • #64
          It's gotta be a troll, Harry. ..oh, and my sentiments exactly.
          http://community.webshots.com/user/racetb

          *Save The Prairie Dog*
          \"Jean Louise, stand up. Your father\'s passing.\"

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          • #65
            Alternamen2-

            Some people tend to be prone to depression and drug use. It fills a void, eases pain and makes us feel better, or atleast different than we normally feel. It doesn't make you a bad person.
            If you are questioning your drug use, then you already know there is a problem.
            Thinking in terms of never using drugs again is unrealistic for you right now and not what you need to focus on.
            The question is- Do you feel like your life is out of control? And if so, what can you do about it?
            I think there are a number of people on this forum that have been there, including me, that are willing to talk with you if you want guidance.
            You don't have to be alone.
            "The heart catches things, the minds eye won't see."
            Clint Black

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            • #66
              And to this I say, STOP it, no one who really gives the time of day to a beggar, drug problem or not, would be on this forum whining, JESUS H CHRYSLER this is a troll. ALL you housewives on here, break out the Betty Crocker and make some brownies, stop getting your whities in a knot about a synthetic drug user with a keyboard!
              POYBGP, member in good standing.

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              • #67
                Uhm... I'm new here so this may be out of line but... you, male, get out your lumberjack shirt and go chop some wood or something and quit whining about people trying to be nice.
                \"The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated.\" - Gandhi

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                • #68
                  But...but...what if mine aren't white?
                  You jump in the saddle,
                  Hold onto the bridle!
                  Jump in the line!
                  ...Belefonte

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                  • #69
                    Oh, and I *never* Betty Crocker...all from scratch. I'd rather Betty White than Betty Crocker. Or maybe Betty Ford?
                    You jump in the saddle,
                    Hold onto the bridle!
                    Jump in the line!
                    ...Belefonte

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                    • #70
                      Well, IN CASE you're not a troll -- and in case I've won the lottery, yeah -- try this on.

                      Horses are legal; drugs are not. One may help you become fit and healthy; the other will take your health, your life and all you value. One might provide amusing anecdotes for conversation; the other could land you in jail -- or certainly NOT land a future job -- if you spoke of it. One contributes to the economic health of the country through ancillary purchases; the other has destroyed our cities and much of our minority youth.

                      So....the choice is yours. But drugs are illegal for a reason and it's not because they're "fun."

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                      • #71
                        harryjohnson like to poke beehives, can't you tell? Whining is part of the board, here. We rescue horses, barbecue others, teach others how to use a tack noseband, discuss the ancient history of Gypsy Vanners and help others. Even if this person is a troll, someone else might need a kick in the pants.

                        Brownies are made, but the laundry needs folding. Mind if I do that later?

                        I got the popcorn ready 'cause this promises to go a few more pages.
                        Don't tell me about what you can't do. That's boring. Show me what you can do. - Mom

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                        • #72
                          Emryss, I am with you on discussing the Gypsy Vanners and the tack nosebands, but someone going on and on ad nauseum about this "drug" problem? If I want to talk horses, I come here, If I want to talk Football, I go to another forum, and if I want to talk about my personal life, I do it with friends and family. And sure, fold the laundry later, just make sure there is beer in the house for the weekend (easy there, just kidding).
                          POYBGP, member in good standing.

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                          • #73
                            Figures that today's dose of testosterone would come from a poster named harryjohnson...all I can think of is hairyjohnson...

                            If that's your real name I apologize but if it's a play on words I think it's hilarious. Actually, I'm kind of surprised that you didn't put "big" in front of your user name

                            If you're trying to get the women on this thread riled up with sexist comments, you've got the wrong audience. Most of them are too busy mucking stalls, tossing hay and mending fences to be offended. But they might lower themselves to crack a beer with you.

                            Seriously, whether this is a troll or not and even if you don't think it's horse related, if one person reading these posts takes this information to heart when he/she might otherwise have been thinking about using, then it's worth it. If it was your wife, friend or relative that posters were trying to help, I bet you'd find it worth the time.

                            I think bigharryjohnson would make a great name for a horse...

                            I like logical people---they provide a nice contrast to the real world.

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                            • #74
                              Harry Johnson(sorry, but your name reminds me of a harry you know what)

                              DOnt be offended by that. I would like to think this person is not a troll...but sounds that way. I also would hardly like to think that those of us who offered real advice...are not all betty crockers who have nothing better to do than fix people on the internet with psuedo lives. If you want to put us all in the same category, then fine.....we are betty crockers... but you apparently are a guy....so on with my shovenist statements.....why dont you break out your power tools and go fix something that is really broke? You are just a quilty for even posting as well. No hard feelings..I just dont think we are betty crockers. that was way sexist. You probably have a beer gut that could use some gym time anyway......go hit the weights buddy. i am right now. Besides...only gay guys start more drama....sounds like I might have found the right category for Harry meat rocket......
                              "Lose your temper, lose your horse" -someone wise enough to know better than to pick a fight with a 1200 lb animal that could launch you to the moon.

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                              • #75
                                Mr Emryss hates beer.

                                This person might or might not be a troll. On the offchance that s/he is not, it takes me a grand total of perhaps three minutes to read and type a response. Is three minutes of my time too much to spend on the chance that my words might help someone's child, whether this person or another? I'd hope to shout that someone would give a damn about my kids, even if they were faceless strangers.
                                Don't tell me about what you can't do. That's boring. Show me what you can do. - Mom

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                                • #76
                                  LMAO!!! If I'm not mistaken...I'm pretty certain I KNOW Harry. If so, he's all too real, that is his actual, if unfortumate, name...and he's as opinionated, chauvinistic, and piss your pants funny without knowing it..in person!![Come on, Eastcoasters, think hard].....and I'll make book that Miss I'velostinterestinhorsesCrackho is a troll.
                                  http://community.webshots.com/user/racetb

                                  *Save The Prairie Dog*
                                  \"Jean Louise, stand up. Your father\'s passing.\"

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                                  • #77
                                    If he that is his real name...that is so funny. If he really is like that in person....he is probably a male version of me. I am sure he is a cool guy, but betty crocker?? come on? my kids are going to actually be able to say "my mom wore combat boots" cause its true. I am no betty crocker type...or a house wife. And if anyone on here is a house wife......so be it..more power to them. Its a job,isnt it?
                                    "Lose your temper, lose your horse" -someone wise enough to know better than to pick a fight with a 1200 lb animal that could launch you to the moon.

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                                    • #78
                                      I swear that's his real name...when he spouts off his "sermons on the mount" at horse shows, the old sot just glares at everyone with sanctimonious disdain as they laugh their asses off. He is deadly earnest and finds none of his own opinions the least bit amusing. I'm pretty sure he was an English Prof at UMass at one time. I'll get reamed for my poor sentence structure, not the content of this post, when he reads it....and I swear to God he's a pretty good horseman.
                                      http://community.webshots.com/user/racetb

                                      *Save The Prairie Dog*
                                      \"Jean Louise, stand up. Your father\'s passing.\"

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                                      • #79
                                        Okay harryj- Get a grip, spit, adjust your balls, and dig your Jockeys out of your crack. You wanna play stereotypes we can all get a whack at harryjohnson too.

                                        Possibly a troll, possibly just another self-centered young person (I know all about them, I own two). Either way, some of us get our jollies typing out responses, flaming each other, baiting those opposing opinions.

                                        If your time is so valuable, don't read the thread. Alot of us do this during work, so technically we are being paid to respond to ridiculous postings.

                                        But I really take offense at the Betty Crocker, white underwear or the ridiculous idea that we are (shudder) housewives. So take your chauvinistic stereotypes and head out in your Ford F150, failing to stop and ask directions until you are thoroughly lost.

                                        And to the OP- if you are not a troll- snap out of it. The world does not revolve around you, your friends are not the brilliant individuals you think they are nor are they the terrific friends you think they are, when you hit rock bottom they will either abandon you or be dead and understand through it all that no matter what you do the only ones who will love you no matter what are your parents and your horse.

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                                        • #80
                                          [QUOTE] we can all get a whack at harryjohnson

                                          hehehe (sorry I could not help it!)

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