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  • Revenge of the non-horsey spouse

    For some months, my DH, who is not thrilled with the whole horse thing, has been raging (sometimes internally, sometimes not) about how his wife uses the good cooking pots to make warm mashes for her horse and takes the pots out to the barn.

    However, with the impending collision of two cooking-intensive holidays (Hannukah if you're Jewish, and of course The Other One), I am running around the house yelling, "Where's the big pot? Where's the other big pot? Where's that other really good pot?"

    All of said pots are at the barn, 45 minutes away, lightly crusted with dried haystretcher mash.

    Well, obviously, that means I have to go ride today after all.

    :-)

  • #2
    Goto Good Will and purchase your horsie some of horsie's very own pots! Then horsie and hubby will both be happy. (Kinda takes away your excuse to go ridding though!)

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    • #3
      No, not really. She still has to go pick up the pots at the barn. Might as well ride then. I second the Goodwill idea.

      I didn't understand the raging about pots being at the barn until you said it was 45 minutes away. It's funny though, I can see me doing the same thing.
      Last edited by cloudy18; Nov. 27, 2013, 10:44 AM. Reason: misspelling

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      • #4
        I know I am catching flak for this....
        But I am with DH on this one. I get bend out of shape when my cooking stuff is in the other room, let alone on the other side of the county!
        I don't have a lot of pots, fewer even I want to cook with. They better stay in the kitchen!

        So, in agreement of the poster above: Get yourself some hrosey cookware. It's better for the relationship (cos, if you keep doing things DH hates, how much do you really like him?)

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        • #5
          At least you know where your big pots are... Just the past weekend I was trying to make some German pancakes, and couldn't find my darn blender. I even enlisted the normally great searching power of DH: it is nowhere in the house. Now I'm wondering whether in a moment of craziness I had taken it to the barn.... He just looked at me, shook his head, and very wisely kept quiet.

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            #6
            You are all perfectly correct and proper, however, hubby knew what he was getting into, when he got into it. :-) And he was the one doin' the chasin'.

            It makes no sense to buy more pots; sooner or later, I would forget the horsie pot(s) at the barn and need to use one of the "good" ones anyway. Also, the cheapo pots don't keep the mash warm all the way to the barn.

            Gloria, your husband is most wise. :-)

            I am now going to brine the turkey in a muck bucket (brand new, however, and well-rinsed of anything it might have picked up at the horsey store. And the turkey will be in a bag placed in the muck-bucket).

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            • #7
              I'm just wondering how your husbands can even tell the difference between good pots and bad pots? I'm lucky if mine even steps foot into the kitchen

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                #8
                Jcraig, these are the things that cloud a spouse's mind when he or she isn't using their brain for more worthwhile things, like horses. :-)

                (I love to cook, and love nice pots, but, I expect nice pots, even the ones you got for your wedding, to be able to handle multi-species-feeding).

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                • #9
                  Transfer mash into gallon size Ziploc to bring to barn.
                  You jump in the saddle,
                  Hold onto the bridle!
                  Jump in the line!
                  ...Belefonte

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                  • #10
                    No help...all of our scissors end up in the barn...even the toddler scissors. Clearly, I'm a clepto
                    Come to the dark side, we have cookies

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                    • #11
                      My father was a barber, and his scissors (shears, he called them) were his prized possessions. Even after his accident, he was furious when he learned I'd borrowed a pair to use on my horse.

                      Kim
                      I loff my Quarter horse clique

                      I kill threads dead!

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                      • #12
                        Bowls. Of all sizes and uses. That's what disappears to the barn at our place. They walk out with food scraps for the chickens or ponies and don't come back. I have to go round them up once a month while Mike laughs.

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                        • #13
                          I have a bucket warmer that I have used in the past to get really hot water when I was at a barn with electric but no hot water. I would get a bucket of water when I first got to the barn, start it heating(only takes about 10 min), scoop up bran or beet pulp into another bucket then go get horse. By the time I got horse out of pasture, the water was hot and I would put the water on the bran or beet pulp. Cover it and let it steep while I rode and then fed horse while I finished grooming/blanketing and putting away tack. Then I could put horse back out, rinse bucket and head home. Also because it always lived at the barn, didn't have to worry about taking it back and forth.

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                          • #14
                            You need a Dreampot!

                            http://www.dreampot.com.au/

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                            • #15
                              I have made all sorts of accommodations around here for my horses, but I have to say, I am with hubby on this one. My good pots and pans stay home.
                              "The difference between genius and stupidity is that genius has its limits." Albert Einstein

                              http://s1098.photobucket.com/albums/...2011%20Photos/

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                              • #16
                                I never bring my home pots etc. to the barn. None of them. I'm the cook in the family...I like great pots/pans (All-Clad mostly) and I like and try to protect my good knives...Mrs. Trak. will go brain dead and put my expensive knives in the diswasher (and break off the tips too). I told her the next time she did that I'm taking her favourite cashmere sweater and washing it an putting it in the dryer.

                                Get your own barn supplies and leave em at the barn.

                                Although when I was a kid I asked if I could take a spoon to dig out my pony's minerals. So, I took a very fancy one with my initial on it. My mom kept going off on if I took a piece of sterling...'Nope, didn't touch it" I said, I didn't have a clue what sterling was, I just took a spoon. Years later I took a good look at my crusty spoon with the worn front...Ooops, Reed & Barton sterling spoon from 1901. I took it to work, it's my lunch spoon.
                                "Sic Gorgiamus Allos Subjectatos Nunc"

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                                  #17
                                  Shoot! I did it again! The really good mashed-potato pot is at the barn. (So is the Dreampot).

                                  However, this year, I am aware of the problem before it becomes a problem. There is plenty of time to remember to get the pot(s) while at the barn, wash them well enough to remove all essence du barn, and commence the feast. See? I am learning, after all. :-)

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                                  • #18
                                    Originally posted by SharonA View Post
                                    Shoot! I did it again! The really good mashed-potato pot is at the barn. (So is the Dreampot).

                                    However, this year, I am aware of the problem before it becomes a problem. There is plenty of time to remember to get the pot(s) while at the barn, wash them well enough to remove all essence du barn, and commence the feast. See? I am learning, after all. :-)
                                    slowly, but surely.

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                                    • #19
                                      I'm a firm believer in not annoying the spouse with a bunch of inconsiderate little things like taking his favorite pot or pan out to the barn when you know it bothers him. You should bring those pots home, and leave them sparkling clean where your husband can see them. Buy yourself a few buckets to carry mashes back and forth in.

                                      Then, if you are going to aggravate your husband, for heavens' sake do it over something worthwhile! Buy yourself a new saddle. Or another horse. Or go fox hunting on Thanksgiving day and leave him with all of your annoying relatives.

                                      Seriously, you really could be getting so much more bang for your buck here. Your poor husband doesn't know how lucky he is.

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                                      • #20
                                        I stole DH's ice fishing sled the other year. He went looking for it and found it slightly crusty with manure. Hey, I got tired of pushing that wheelbarrow around in the snow! I did buy him a new sled for Christmas.

                                        No pots missing here though!

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