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  • #21
    I did a Secret Santa thing one time and sent local goodies, including cookies. The recipient made it plain as day AFTERWARD that her DH enjoyed those cookies, since she was gluten intolerant.

    Way to educate someone who a) meant no harm and b) will be sure never to give you anything again , ever. It's The Thought That Counts.

    Giftcards to Wally World, gas cards, etc- those are always good- as is cold, hard, cash, and some Christmas candy. Gluten and all.

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    • #22
      At the track, since I was an employee as well, all the guys got homemade goodie baskets. The guy that pulled a gun because another rider was supposedly coming to teach me a lesson got a bottle of El Jimador and nice work gloves also
      Originally posted by The Saddle
      Perhaps I need my flocking adjusted.

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      • #23
        What an awful Secret Santa participant the recipient of your gift was, katarine! As someone who is gluten intolerant and has received gluten containing goodies many a time in similar situations, it is still easy to appreciate the thought behind the gift and enjoy it vicariously through those who do get to devour the goodies!

        As a former barn worker, I really appreciated gifts of warm items of clothing that were nicer/higher quality than those I would have purchased for myself such as hats or gloves. A big box of handwarmers (purchased at Costco, I believe) and given with some other small treats like chocolates and candy canes was also a big hit!

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          #24
          Such poor taste that your SS recipient was less the grateful.

          On the glove front how do you know what size to get? It doesn't get super cold here but there are times where it is 20-30 and raining so I'm sure some sort of hand protection might be appreciated.

          As a new boarder I'm not sure if the barn does anything as a group and I think this worker is newer and only been there a few months but he hustles. Literally I rarely ever see him walking unless he is in the barn or carrying something.

          I love the idea of English lessons as he speaks zero English but was there any worry of it coming across as offensive? Maybe that is a silly concern but I don't want him to feel uncomfortable either.

          Thanks for the suggestions so far!

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          • #25
            unless he has unreasonable large or small hands, medium to large gloves. It depends a bit on brand, I have a lovely pair of deer skin work gloves that is rather a little tight. I think they were supposed to be a medium - which is my size. Guys tend to have slightly larger hands.
            The hand warmes are really great, we stock up on them for football games. Although it does not get this cold here, we had some really frigid conditions late in the season. Also foot warmers are grand!

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            • #26
              Things we barn workers always appreciate:
              - cash
              - baked goods (if you know likes/ dislikes)
              - gift cards to places like Starbucks or Dunkin Donuts (great for away horse shows)
              - gas cards (if we've got a car)
              "You'll never see yourself in the mirror with your eyes closed"

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              • #27
                Originally posted by jjgg24 View Post
                Such poor taste that your SS recipient was less the grateful.

                On the glove front how do you know what size to get? It doesn't get super cold here but there are times where it is 20-30 and raining so I'm sure some sort of hand protection might be appreciated.

                As a new boarder I'm not sure if the barn does anything as a group and I think this worker is newer and only been there a few months but he hustles. Literally I rarely ever see him walking unless he is in the barn or carrying something.

                I love the idea of English lessons as he speaks zero English but was there any worry of it coming across as offensive? Maybe that is a silly concern but I don't want him to feel uncomfortable either.

                Thanks for the suggestions so far!
                Does he have any family? He may be a bit intimidated to go for English lessons by himself. Getting him a gift and/or showing him that he is thought of is a major compliment.
                I LOVE my Chickens!

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                • #28
                  Cash is best. $50.00 is good. $100.00 if you can swing it will be a real treat. It may enable him to share the Christmas cheer with others.

                  With a card letting him know that you appreciate his hard work, it should please him. Perhaps you can find someone to write in Spanish for you..

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                  • #29
                    A friend of mine's barn mates went in together and got an ipod for their barn helper. They even went ahead and loaded it with music for him.

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                      #30
                      Originally posted by Alagirl View Post
                      unless he has unreasonable large or small hands, medium to large gloves. It depends a bit on brand, I have a lovely pair of deer skin work gloves that is rather a little tight. I think they were supposed to be a medium - which is my size. Guys tend to have slightly larger hands.
                      The hand warmes are really great, we stock up on them for football games. Although it does not get this cold here, we had some really frigid conditions late in the season. Also foot warmers are grand!
                      I believe he is shorter then me and I'm 5' 9" so maybe medium gloves. I'll try to assess the situation ahead of time. Love the idea of hand and boot warmers!

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                        #31
                        Originally posted by tabula rashah View Post
                        Things we barn workers always appreciate:
                        - cash
                        - baked goods (if you know likes/ dislikes)
                        - gift cards to places like Starbucks or Dunkin Donuts (great for away horse shows)
                        - gas cards (if we've got a car)
                        I don't know what his likes might be but could whip up a little variety of goodies. Thanks!

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                          #32
                          Originally posted by Megaladon View Post
                          Does he have any family? He may be a bit intimidated to go for English lessons by himself. Getting him a gift and/or showing him that he is thought of is a major compliment.
                          Unfortunately not sure if he has a family. Between the language barrier and the fact he is always hustling around I don't know much about him at this point other then he busts his butt

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                            #33
                            Originally posted by skydy View Post
                            Cash is best. $50.00 is good. $100.00 if you can swing it will be a real treat. It may enable him to share the Christmas cheer with others.

                            With a card letting him know that you appreciate his hard work, it should please him. Perhaps you can find someone to write in Spanish for you..
                            I'm thinking in the range you mentioned. Probably a mix of a small gift and cash. I'll definitely be seeking a Cother out at some point for a little help with translation

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                              #34
                              Originally posted by SaddleUp158 View Post
                              A friend of mine's barn mates went in together and got an ipod for their barn helper. They even went ahead and loaded it with music for him.
                              What an awesome idea. I don't think I've seen him with one. I wonder if he would like one. Thanks!

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                              • #35
                                I think what you can afford is the best option. The thought absolutely counts, but the pay and opportunities for a non English speaking barn worker is tough, the extra cash could be a great blessing and is unlikely to go unused. Depending on your financial situation $50-100 is a great help to someone. A card in Spanish is a great idea, even if you have to do google translate and excuse your bad Spanish grammar. The additional idea of English lessons would be something to consider and maybe one that could be discussed through a mutual bi-lingual friend form the barn. I would be careful when touching on that subject but it could also be a great gift that could be life changing for him. Good luck and what a great person to be thinking of others.......Having been the help many many times it is greatly valued and appreciated.

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                                • #36
                                  Money in a card is the best gift to give. After that alcohol, if you know that the person enjoys a certain type of alcohol. Try to avoid stereotyping (like only thinking to buy Corona) as one groom I knew had a serious appreciation for great red wine. Treats brought during the day are also always appreciated but feels less like a personalized gift. Having gotten to know barn staff that speak English as their second language, I was shocked at just how fluent they were once they chose to do so and felt comfortable with me. I would stay away from getting to grandiose or complicated. When I was a starving working student with large University debt, I was given a $400 psychic reading for the horse I had in training with me by some of the clients in the barn. There was a very nice sentiment behind the gift but the horse was not mine and the 'psychic' was a complete sham.

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                                  • #37
                                    The last place I boarded, I got the barn workers(both female) some really nice riding gloves, some awesome hand cream and some nice lip balm. The stall cleaner guy I baked some pumpkin bread for(even though my horse lives on pasture board...hehe). The barn manager was always hard to buy for so I got him a gift card for different stores that he liked(ie tea shop or wine shop). The barn owner fox hunted so one year I got her a nice helmet bag. Another time I got her a nice stock tie. I am at a new barn this year and only have the barn owner to buy for. I am making some wool socks for her, already bought a pretty scarf/pashmina(sp?), and some hand made herbal balm that can be used for lips, hands.

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                                    • #38
                                      I've gotten a collection of nice quality horsey socks for each of the young women who ride/assist in training (you know how much socks cost??) and will give gift cards with $$ to the farm working guy and weekend worker (adult female with many of her own animals to support).

                                      I'm still on the fence regarding gifts for the person who owns the business.
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                                      • #39
                                        In our case, with the English lessons, this was for the nephew of another worker, so we knew it was wanted, needed, and appreciated.

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                                        • #40
                                          Cash is best, many workers are struggling to support families and relatives. Baked goods are always a treat for sure. Warm hats/gloves are also nice, but OTOH it could be tricky with sizes/styles. I love the idea of the hand warmers!

                                          Several people have mentioned alcohol (beer, liquor) but I would specifically advise against that. Many people are able to enjoy alcohol responsibly, but alcohol problems are more common than you might guess, and unless you know someone pretty well you wouldn't have any idea. Plus, more than once I have seen gifts of alcohol end up being enjoyed irresponsibly/dangerously. That sounds terribly paternalistic, but last year there were several drunk driving related accidents and arrests among the farm workers that I know.

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