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Finding the right barn - why so difficult?!

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  • #21
    I love my barn and feel very lucky to be there. It's far from fancy from the outside and actually probably offputting to some people. However, everything is relatively safe, the BO is a very knowledgeable, experienced horsewomen and the horses get great care.

    It's a bit further away from the city and where I live, but the board is correspondingly less expensive. Of course, no place is perfect.

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    • #22
      It is very, very, hard to find a good boarding barn, especially if you're within driving distance of a metropolitan area, and still want lots of turn out, even if you are willing/able to pay for it. The barn web site and the BM may talk a wonderful story, but the actual care may be not what was advertised. And there is always some reason why the horses had no water this day or that day, or why the supposed full-day turnout was actually only half a day this week, and the "miles" of trails are actually one mile of large sharp gravel, and it is always someone else's fault that the hay is terrible, etc. etc.

      Sometimes there is a BM who seems to be hoping that all the boarders will be absentee owners who only show up at a few selected times, giving her carte blanche to be as lazy or self-interested as she wants, the rest of the time.

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        #23
        Originally posted by SharonA View Post
        It is very, very, hard to find a good boarding barn, especially if you're within driving distance of a metropolitan area, and still want lots of turn out, even if you are willing/able to pay for it. The barn web site and the BM may talk a wonderful story, but the actual care may be not what was advertised. And there is always some reason why the horses had no water this day or that day, or why the supposed full-day turnout was actually only half a day this week, and the "miles" of trails are actually one mile of large sharp gravel, and it is always someone else's fault that the hay is terrible, etc. etc.

        Sometimes there is a BM who seems to be hoping that all the boarders will be absentee owners who only show up at a few selected times, giving her carte blanche to be as lazy or self-interested as she wants, the rest of the time.
        Yes that has definitely been my experience! I wish I were in a position to do all the work myself, but I just can't at this point in my life. I questioned if my expectations were too high for the current place but I think basic safety and being sure my horse will be fed and turned in/out shouldn't be too much to ask when I am paying for these services and it is part of the contract. As I said, I have worked in barns myself and self boarded for years, so I understand the responsibility and cost involved. I guess I am partly at fault for not asking more questions before I moved in but sometimes you don't see the problems until your horse is there. Mare is not happy and I don't think that will change when her attitude is getting worse instead of better.

        My non-horsey husband has suggested that I move, even if it costs a bit more at the new barn, so that tells me it is probably the best idea.

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        • #24
          I have the same problem in my area... Lots of cheap pasture board (no shelters, barbed wire, crappy hay, etc.) and lots of really high-end show barns where the horses are stalled a good portion of the time. It is really, really, hard to find something in between. I've been at my current barn for a little over a year and am quite happy, although there are a few things I would change. I try not to be a PITA boarder, so if I have some special "need" I try to take care of it myself (for example, I brought in my own stall mats for their paddock and I go out every day to feed my own "lunch" because I want their pellets soaked). The drive is a little longer than I would like, especially during rush hour, but I am happy enough with the facilities and care that I just deal with it.

          Google Earth is an excellent way to look at boarding facilities before actually making the drive. You can look at different seasons and see the amount of standing water, shade or lack thereof, and can even measure the paddock sizes I'm in an area where land is at a premium, so being able to see the paddock sizes ahead of time is important. My mare and gelding currently share a 1/4 acre paddock, which is about as small as I am comfortable with, but is considered spacious by local standards!

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          • #25
            I hear you! I'm having a devil of a time trying to find board for my mare that's safe and reasonably priced. She's big too, a lot of people are really put off by her size OR they want to tack on an extra $50-100 because she "eats more"... even though I've offered to purchase the extra grain/hay (because she really doesn't eat THAT much more). We need an eye-rolling icon.

            I had an easier time finding good boarding in Northern VERMONT than I ever have in Kentucky!

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