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    While browsing through Craigslist, I saw an OTTB mare listed for $300.00 who happens to be a full sister to a mare I currently own. I love my mare... great personality, really athletic, but has had some back soreness/stiffness issues, but that's another story.

    I already have 3 horses, so I really don't need another one (but of course have found a million ways to justify a 4th).

    Anyway, priced at $300, I'm worried this mare is going to end up going to a kill buyer. I'm going to see her on Sunday, and I've contacted my local OTTB re-homing group asking about their fostering/donation policies, and am waiting to hear back.

    I'm worried, if I foster her I'll get too attached and won't be able to part with her. I have not been able to get this mare out of my mind since I saw the ad, so I really feel like I want to be part of the process.

    While I wait to hear back from the local OTTB group, has anyone purchased a horse and donated it to an organization like CANTER, and fostered the horse while waiting for a suitable home to be found? Can you give me some insight to your experience?

  • #2
    I'm a foster "failure" with both horses and dogs. I adopted my CANTER foster and my first dog foster. If you think you'll get attached, you probably will. That said..I am fostering another dog and I know I won't keep her, simply because she's so high maintenance.
    "We're still right, they're still wrong" James Carville

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      #3
      Hah! I'm sure CANTER has filed that under foster "success". This is the reason I've never fostered a dog. I would keep it. Absolutely no doubt about it. But dogs are an "easier" commitment. We have four, so financially feeding another, vet bills, ect wouldn't make much of a difference. But... a horse is different. I bought hay thinking I would be feeding 3 horses, not 4, etc.

      Chism - were you in the market for a horse when you fostered for CANTER, and your foster horse just happened to be a good fit? Or were you in a similar, "I do NOT need another horse" place and adopted anyway?

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      • #4
        I have fostered a horse, it wasn't one that I had emotional ties to. A local rescue needed a horse boarded out until the adoption went through. In your case I wonder if you will be able to let go.

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        • #5
          I have fostered quite a few horses, and I haven't had any trouble letting them go. I go into it knowing I am at maximum capacity for horses, and I try to foster ones who are NOT a good match for us (too small is a big deterrent, with my 6'7" teenager). I think if you go in knowing absolutely that you are a temporary home on the way to somewhere better, it is doable.

          Our foster dog, OTOH, is still here, six years later.

          So, how big is she? <BEG>

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            #6
            I'm not entirely sure how big she is. My mare is 15.2 (perfect size for my 4 foot 11 self!) so I wondered if she was "my sized". When I asked how big this mare was, I was told 15.5. I asked her to explain what she meant by that, but didn't get a good explanation.

            She seems to be a cute chestnut from the photos, but I can't get a frame of reference to determine size.

            I know the horse came off the track last year, and was abandoned at the current barn. They acquired ownership of her this spring, and are now trying to dump her. It sounds as if they haven't done anything with her.

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            • #7
              Get her + rehome her = win/win

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                #8
                My other thought was to buy her, and send her immediately to a trainer. Foot the bill for a couple of months and have the trainer sell her. That way I stay hands off, with no risk of getting attached. But so far I haven't found anyone who has room to take her on.

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                • #9
                  Katyb hit the nail on the head. The best thing is to foster horses that are NOT a fit for you. The "maximum capacity" theory doesn't always work though, because I was full up too. I had no attachment to start with, just wanted to do my part to help re-home a retiring racer, but then caring for him every day got me hooked. You already have an emotional attachment to this mare. I would go into it fully aware, hoping for the best (new home that's not yours), but recognizing that you may be adding a family member.
                  "We're still right, they're still wrong" James Carville

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                  • #10
                    All I can say is bless you for doing that. I just recently saw something similar on a local-ish craigslist...20 y/o TB gelding, missing one eye, looked to be in great shape, $600.
                    And he was the spitting. image. of my heart horse that I sold last year. I got a knot in my stomach, looked at 10+ pictures of "my" horse that was obviously being sold, before I realized that this old gentleman had a star, and my old horse did not. (Didn't realize he had a missing eye until later).
                    But it was eerie how similarly they were built, their faces, everything. I actually called the owner to ask about his breeding, but she wasn't sure and I quickly ended the call, I felt bad for being a total tire-kicker. I am NOT in a position to buy this guy, even temporarily. I don't have any extra money, empty stalls, anything like that.. I really hope he finds a good place to go

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Kodidog763 View Post
                      While I wait to hear back from the local OTTB group, has anyone purchased a horse and donated it to an organization like CANTER, and fostered the horse while waiting for a suitable home to be found? Can you give me some insight to your experience?
                      CANTER doesn't work that way - we take in horses who are directly from the track and need a safe spot to land while they are rehabbing/being retrained for a new career. And we can only take them in if we have enough in donations - we rely strictly on people donating money to pay for the horse until a permanent home can be found.

                      Your best bet is to buy this horse and put some retraining into her and find her a suitable home.
                      "When a horse greets you with a nicker & regards you with a large & liquid eye, the question of where you want to be & what you want to do has been answered." CANTER New England

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                        #12
                        CANTER doesn't work that way
                        Sorry, I didn't mean to imply that I was going through CANTER.

                        We have a local program - The Minnesota Retired Racehorse Project, and their FAQs indicate they will take donated OTTBs. But I still haven't heard back from anyone regarding their guidelines.

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                        • #13
                          You're biggest problem is going to be finding a rescue with an opening.

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                          • #14
                            I was interested in fostering with a local rescue. I emailed and told them what I could offer which was basically board and set priced services such as basic farrier and annual shots, and of course references and an invite to inspect my facilities. I was concerned about other vet bills and who would be responsible for those bills because I was not offering to pay for surgeries or any other large expenses. They didn't even get back with me.

                            The thing is, I am not willing to put my signature on the line for a vet call that could end up being thousands of dollars for a horse I don't own. I wonder how other rescue places handle that situation.
                            "Random capitAlization really Makes my day." -- AndNirina

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by PeteyPie View Post
                              I was interested in fostering with a local rescue. I emailed and told them what I could offer which was basically board and set priced services such as basic farrier and annual shots, and of course references and an invite to inspect my facilities. I was concerned about other vet bills and who would be responsible for those bills because I was not offering to pay for surgeries or any other large expenses. They didn't even get back with me.

                              The thing is, I am not willing to put my signature on the line for a vet call that could end up being thousands of dollars for a horse I don't own. I wonder how other rescue places handle that situation.
                              With my CANTER NE horse I paid for his day to day expenses and they paid for the vet, farrier..etc. I paid the bill up front & submitted for reimbursement. I would imagine that if an emergency were to occur, you'd just deal with it & submit the bill. If it was something that required hospitalization (big $$$) , I'd sure as heck want a verbal approval from the rescue before I approved treatment.
                              "We're still right, they're still wrong" James Carville

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                              • #16
                                I bailed out a rescue due to a friend putting "the whammy" on me. Agreed to pay for him, feed him up for a month pending them finding him a home in NH.

                                Well, when we got him filled out and the rain-rot scraped off, he shedded out into a golden palomino. My Mom saw him and said, "He looks like TRIGGER!! He's so BEAUTIFUL, you can't think of SELLING him . . . !"

                                Yep! Still on the payroll, 4 years later. At least he's rideable . . .

                                His official job description is, "Advertisement and Pasture Art."

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                                • #17
                                  I have fostered a couple of horses for CANTER and also fostered kittens for a cat rescue.

                                  I kept my first foster horse -- so that was a success! Since then I haven't come across a horse that I want to keep. I enjoy the retraining process and I like to help out but I don't feel the need to own any more horses. I have other friends who foster for CANTER and they haven't kept those horses either. With the first horse, I couldn't bear the idea of anyone coming to look at him -- that's how I knew I had to keep him.

                                  We had about 40 kittens come through our house when my kids were small. We didn't keep any of them. We loved several but we also loved having kittens (we already have cats) and so we enjoyed the process of getting new cuddly kittens more than we wanted to keep them. The only time we wavered was when a pair of kittens got adopted by someone who put them in a room where they could get into the structure of her house (behind the dry wall). She couldn't get one of them to come out at all and my daughter and I went to try. As soon as the kitten heard us she started to cry and came running out of a hole in the baseboard! We had a hard time giving that one up but eventually those two went to a great family who really love them.

                                  I think part of it is going into the process knowing that you are providing a temporary home.
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                                    #18
                                    I heard back from our local group, and they are willing to have me donate her and foster her until a home can be found. They just require that she be tattooed (and since the mare raced 11 times, that won't be an issue, as long as the horse really IS who they are advertising her as) to be in their program.

                                    I guess now I really need to decide if I can foster her without getting attached (and if I can get more hay!).

                                    My second option - I am waiting to hear back from a couple of additional trainers to see if they would have room to take her on as a resale project, but so far I haven't found the right fit.

                                    Thank you all for your thoughts and insight!

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                                    • #19
                                      I have fostered somewhere over 200 horses since 1999 (I think, I should count again). In that time, I have adopted 0 horses. I HAVE had a serious discussion with DH three times now about adopting - and we're still arguing about one right now.

                                      I DO get attached, and I have cried when some have left. I have danced with joy when some have left as well. My #s are so high as I often do intake and short term fostering, so a lot of horses move through here. (I am a kitten and dog foster failure and DH wants no more foster kittens as I don't let them leave).

                                      For those who asked how fostering works, it varies by rescue. For BEHS, our foster homes pay for hay, grain, shavings, fly spray and part of basic trims on the horses they foster. They apply and are approved and then can volunteer for the horse(s) who they think will be a good fit (we post a list of horses needing foster homes). They get 'first dibs' on adoption for the first two weeks a horse is available for adoption and then after that the horse is available for anyone who gets/is approved.

                                      We pay for/reimburse for paste de-worming, $20 of each trim, pre-approved corrective/medically necessary shoeing, pre-approved vet visits, and pre-approved medications or supplements. We do have a financial limit on non-routine vet care (for example, we cannot afford colic surgery and must euthanize if a horse requires surgery). Sometimes we get donated hay/feed and do our best to divide it fairly among local foster homes and have gotten grants in the past to help with some of the expenses we don't normally reimburse for.

                                      Again, each rescue is different but I think they should have their policies for fostering on their website so you know what you are getting into.
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