So I'm ranting a little bit b/c after spending only a couple of weeks doing this horse shopping thing, I am so frustrated with people who post ads to sell a horse and then can't be bothered to return phone calls inquiring about said horse. wth???
Having been on both sides of this coin, I get the sellers' frustrations with tire kickers, 14 year olds with unfettered Internet access, buyers who will never find the perfect Walter Farley Dream Horse and torture everyone, buyers with completely skewed perceptions of their own abilities, etc.....boy, do I get it. BUT when I call you and leave a message with my name, phone number, trainer's name/farm, and a very brief description of what my needs are, the least you could do is shoot me a text if the horse won't work or isn't available. I get it that perhaps sellers/trainers/owners are busy. But I've called about more than a few horses that would be more than suitable and I get zero response from the seller. Trainer & I were even at a show in the city where one horse was and made every attempt to go see the sales horse(s) at that barn and no response. I just don't get it...if you want to sell a horse/horses, you will have to call some folks back.
I will say that the two shining exceptions were a seller who not only actually picked up the phone, but was most helpful in discussing the horse and making arrangements to have some additional video shot showing specific things (and this person was headed to the hospital to have a baby the next day!) and another was an owner who is not a lifelong horse person so couldn't answer some of my questions, but offered to get the info from the barn manager, connected me with a trainer who knew the horse, and was forthcoming with every minute bit of info...he wanted full disclosure to make sure his horse went to the best, most suitable home possible. I wish all sellers were as professional as these folks.
And fwiw, I've had much better luck with private individuals than with trainers. And the price point hasn't seemed to mean anything either as far as who calls back and who doesn't. We're spending 5 digits...not high 5 digits but still...all horses have great "feedability" and they eat while you sleep. I know selling horses is a pain and it's time consuming but good grief....you won't know that your horse might be sold to us and have a great home with competent horse people unless you call back.
Sorry to rant...back to the regularly scheduled programming...
Having been on both sides of this coin, I get the sellers' frustrations with tire kickers, 14 year olds with unfettered Internet access, buyers who will never find the perfect Walter Farley Dream Horse and torture everyone, buyers with completely skewed perceptions of their own abilities, etc.....boy, do I get it. BUT when I call you and leave a message with my name, phone number, trainer's name/farm, and a very brief description of what my needs are, the least you could do is shoot me a text if the horse won't work or isn't available. I get it that perhaps sellers/trainers/owners are busy. But I've called about more than a few horses that would be more than suitable and I get zero response from the seller. Trainer & I were even at a show in the city where one horse was and made every attempt to go see the sales horse(s) at that barn and no response. I just don't get it...if you want to sell a horse/horses, you will have to call some folks back.
I will say that the two shining exceptions were a seller who not only actually picked up the phone, but was most helpful in discussing the horse and making arrangements to have some additional video shot showing specific things (and this person was headed to the hospital to have a baby the next day!) and another was an owner who is not a lifelong horse person so couldn't answer some of my questions, but offered to get the info from the barn manager, connected me with a trainer who knew the horse, and was forthcoming with every minute bit of info...he wanted full disclosure to make sure his horse went to the best, most suitable home possible. I wish all sellers were as professional as these folks.
And fwiw, I've had much better luck with private individuals than with trainers. And the price point hasn't seemed to mean anything either as far as who calls back and who doesn't. We're spending 5 digits...not high 5 digits but still...all horses have great "feedability" and they eat while you sleep. I know selling horses is a pain and it's time consuming but good grief....you won't know that your horse might be sold to us and have a great home with competent horse people unless you call back.
Sorry to rant...back to the regularly scheduled programming...


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