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SAN DIEGO COTH Dinner * TONIGHT * * * Feb 19th * * * *

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  • Party Rose - I hope you don't jump through your computer and chole me here

    Random thought - there seems to be just a handful of people on the waiting list for this get together. Why don't you guys just show up and form a separate group? I'm sure we can all get seated in the same general area, and it is a restaurant - they will be open for customers other than the primary COTH group. I would love to meet everyone if possible!

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    • chole??? What in the world is that? It was supposed to say "choke" - although I guess I'd rather be "choled" anyway!

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        My understanding is that they're putting us in a seperate area, so sorry, your idea won't work. I already tried to pull that off. When I spoke to the general manager last week & he found out that one of his managers had made a reservation on a Saturday night at 5:30 for 20 people, he almost lost it. Being in food & owning my own catering business for so years, I totally understand. Mac. Grill always has a big waiting list as it is and with us taking up so much more space, is going to cut down on their numbers. Restaurants want the people in & out ASAP. Big turn-over is the key to their sucess in this competitive market. They look at their their regular business, their regular customers well before a large party. Who is going to be hurt least? Us COTHER's.

        I will be organizing something in the Spring or Summer that I just got the approval on, on one side and contacted COTH last night to get their feelings & hope to get a response today. This has the potential to be HUGE!!! So those that are missing out this week, will have a much better opportunity within the next 6 months.
        "The best thing for the inside of a man is the outside of a horse" Lord Palmerston

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        • Ok - just a thought. If you need help with the next event - just let me know!

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          • PR-Sienna & Shots will be there, her computer is down so I am RSVP'ing for her

            FLF, I sent you a PT

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              Thanks FLF & Horseaholic. Everything seems to be OK. I just want to keep the restaurant happy so we can have a BLAST!!!!

              YES...I will need LOTS of help with the next one. I'll give some basics once I hear back from 2 primaries in this venture. Shhhhh... No asking.
              "The best thing for the inside of a man is the outside of a horse" Lord Palmerston

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                Bumping for evening viewing for those that still need to RSVP.

                Don't forget everyone, you must be there NO LATER THAN 5:30. Many are arriving at 5:00-5:15 for cocktails and introductions.
                "The best thing for the inside of a man is the outside of a horse" Lord Palmerston

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                • Party Rose-I just found out last night that I need to work til 6:30pm on saturday(emergency shift for my coworker..) I am sooo sorry for the inconvenience. I wouldn't have offered to take the shift, but I'm the only one available for my coworker.. (she had a death in the family and is going to AZ.)

                  Horsaholic, thanks for RSVP'ing... I'm so sad about this, but I honestly couldn't say no to her.... Tell everyone I said hello..
                  Kim :-)

                  Shady Tree Training Stables
                  www.shadytreehorses.com

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                  • YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! TOMOOOORRROW!!

                    Anyone go to Mary's Sale yet?

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                      Stay grounded flyingstardust............
                      "The best thing for the inside of a man is the outside of a horse" Lord Palmerston

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                        It's tonight. Please try to be there by 5:15. See ya all then .
                        "The best thing for the inside of a man is the outside of a horse" Lord Palmerston

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                          Bump as a reminder. Is everyone going to be weighted down from "the sale"? Not me !
                          "The best thing for the inside of a man is the outside of a horse" Lord Palmerston

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                          • I will weather the storm down and am definately going to pass on any shopping at Marys.. It has been raining like crazy up here!! Drive safe everyone and see you all in a little while!

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                              I know you're on your way horseaholic. I hope that you're watching out for others and keeping an eye out for tornados. Tornados in San Diego !
                              "The best thing for the inside of a man is the outside of a horse" Lord Palmerston

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                              • <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Tornados in San Diego ! </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                                I'm butting in on your thread, but isn't that eerily like what happened on "The Day After Tomorrow"?
                                Freaky.
                                ________
                                Sarah
                                formerly known as Alohamora
                                \"Half the failures in life arise from pulling in one\'s horse as he is leaping.\"~ Julius Hare

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                                • Yay! The SD COTH Dinner was a huge success! It was so nice to meet all of you! Thanks, Party Rose, for putting it together, and thanks Beachpony for the fabulous surprise prize drawing.

                                  Let's do it again!

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                                  • PLEASE OH PLEASE tell us all about it...we want to "be there" too!!!!!!!!!
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                                    [url]http://www.ijumpsports.com

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                                    • We all met some great people tonight. Maybe next time we'll do a round robin so the east end of the table gets to meet the west end of the table. But I'm so glad that our group turned out to be a nice, sane group of horse people (you know how some horse people can be ). Look forward to another meeting.

                                      ~Bev
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                                      Finnegans Wake
                                      1992
                                      Irish Sport Horse x Hanoverian
                                      16.1hh
                                      Finn's photo album http://community.webshots.com/user/finnegan24100

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                                      • Dang, girl you FLEW home
                                        I"ve been home for a bit, but I had to give the S.O. the "what I had for dinner" report, and check emails.
                                        Truly, it was a BLAST!
                                        My face aches (in a good way) from laughing so much, and wow, we were a compatible bunch.
                                        Instant friends.
                                        Good fud, good company and talking horses for hours, doesn't get much better than that, you know?
                                        Thanks to Party Rose and Beachpony for putting together those GREAT nametags, and Party Rose for doing such a fantastic job of "cat herding" and organizing.
                                        Hope we can pull off another CoTh dinner soon!
                                        \"Proud Member of the I LOFF Starman Babies Clique\"

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                                        • Ahem. I noticed that the last person wrote a note after 11:00 pm but that not one person has posted to give us a report on Sunday morning. It is now after 8:00 a.m....are you ALL sleeping it off?????

                                          Wish I could have come down for the main event. Sounds like it was great.

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